Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Sex and Swinging

 Sex and Swinging

By: MN Nikk

Swinging has simply got to be one of the ultimate dreams of many men and not a few women. Although three may seem like a crowd, even the idea of going to bed with two women at once is enough to send the blood rushing to the pelvic area in any healthy man. Watching two women make out before joining in must be one of the oldest fantasies that men like to indulge in, while some women dream of having two guys at their beck and call, thus being absolutely sure they won’t leave the bed unsatisfied.

Swinging can be a nice fantasy for some and a true lifestyle for others, depending upon the personal preferences. Some people are quite content with the monogamous life, but are curious about the alternatives and willing to step over the line a little to see what the other side has to offer. Other people are just interested in getting laid with more than one lady at the same time, especially if their lover happens to have a hot friend that might be inclined to join in for a threesome. Some couples have turned swinging into a lifestyle and are inviting others to join them on a regular basis.

The best thing about group sex is the fact that satisfaction is almost guaranteed, that is if you don’t mind performing in front of other people. Even better: you get to choose. You are no longer limited to a single woman but to two or more, depending on how many are present. And, if you are really into experimenting, you may even consider trying sex with another man. Over the past couple of years, homosexual experiences have become more and more common among the hipster urban crowd. It’s all up to you and your lady’s preferences.

On the other hand, swinging is not without risk. It can place an additional stress on a relationship when one of the partners is far more attracted to swinging that the other. It may also reveal tendencies that some people find disturbing, mainly because having a threesome with the same partners again and again may turn a couple into a “ménage à trois”. It dramatically raises the risk of catching STIs, since you simply have to trust other people to be just as careful as you are. You may also run into people who are less interested in free sex and more interested in, say, blackmail or locating your valuables. Or who play rougher than you would like.

The most important thing is to come up with a set of reasons and rules. First, you must know why you’re doing it. It may be just short-term curiosity, it may be a fantasy or you may be aspiring to a different lifestyle. Whatever it is, you should take a good look inside and see why you want to do it. Second, you must have some rules about what’s acceptable and what’s not. You must know where to draw the line and what kind of sex you’re willing to accept. And third, you should always pay attention to health issues. Diseases are definitely not sexy.

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