So what can you expect to find when you first go to a Swinger Sex Club? It is going to depend on how open you are, pun intended. A lot of cities have clubs that are designed to attract the swinger's fantasies. Most swinger clubs operate with a theme or other activities to inspire sexy players to sex play.
At a Private Swinger Club you should expect the music to be cranked up, everyone drinking, and to see a lot of naughty, sexy dancing, French kissing, etc. Your eyes will not see any totally x rated erotic and sex moves on the dance floor because it is illegal to allow sexual relations at an Only Swinger Club or drinking area. What you will see is likely a bunch of swingers having a great time, seducing others, and getting really excited. The aura will feel very sexually charged.
If you are seeking something a little more kicked back without the cranked up party sounds, the swinger club scene, and all that, you could want to try a house party like a Jacuzzi party or hotel dinner/get together instead. At a Jacuzzi party or dinner it is a lot more laid back with a lot fewer participants. Swinger events like this often allows for more closer interaction and relationship growth. You will have the chance to get to know other people better via chatting before going into a more sexual mode.
Always remember that you don't have to play or have sex to go to a swinger's club or get together. Swinging is all about doing what makes you feel good, and that requires mutual consent. You can go slowly, or choose to just check it out first. Planning on having a sexual encounter or not is up to you. Once you meet another person/couple that you are interested in getting to know them and build a friendship then if you want to start plans for getting together to have swinging sex you can.
There is no right or wrong swinging sex activity. If it feels great and is safe, then it is okay. Swingers have freed themselves from society's strongest taboos, swinging sex, they are feel to free themselves from sexual taboos, such as anal sex, fetishism, and/or bisexuality. The only rule is to do that which you are happy doing. If you are not happy with a sexual activity, just say so and don't feel embarrassed. You set your own limits.
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Thursday, November 08, 2007
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Have A Boring Sex Life?
As a swinger, I get to chat to many folks about sex. The interesting thing is that a lot of folks I chat with inform me that they believe others are enjoying a much better sex life than they are. Usually they say that their sex life is very boring and there is no excitement. The longer the folks has been together the less exciting their sex seems. Naturally, there are people that have a great sex life and have been together forever. These couples are rare in my experience and usually swingers.
A study recently discovered that after a couple of years of marriage, the wife's interest in sex had shrunk fifty percent. There was also a major decline in intercourse.
What can one implement to heat up ones sex life?
First: Spouse bonding. Women usually enjoy this style of sex. The emotional relating with your partner is the most important. Usually, partners when they first were in lust have a lot of spouse connection in sex. Eye gazing, touchy feely and fluids flowing and the sex is really fantastic! It just flows and there is lots of hugging, kissing and foreplay.
So how do you get more of this fun sex with your lover. One idea in sex to get more out of this concept is to keep your eyes open while having sex. You will find most couples don't even look at their partner. Eyes unite us and get the sexual juices flowing. for the more adventurous, I recommend opening your eyes while you orgasm. Men find this to be a challenge yet you can do it!
Second: Sex is like a trance. With this idea you go inwards and is all about ones sexual fantasies, sexual feelings or a sex dream. Your eye lids are shut as the sexual connection with your spouse is not necessary. Men like to visualize sex in their minds.
I had a partner who liked to go into another world. I just felt I like a taxi driver taking her to her sexual fantasies. Since I didn't get to join her sexual adventure, I didn't feel sexually satisfied. Touching her was one method that I found frustrating. I told her this and she did starting me also.
Third: Sexual Role Play. This is a lot of fun. You can act out a sexual fantasy or become a sexual healer or doctor. You could be an animal. Bondage falls into this version of sex play. This is usually more challenging for folks. However sexual role playing can really rev up your sex experiences.
Fourth: Swinging (my favorite) Swinging is the most exciting sex I have ever experienced! There is nothing like "strange" to get the juices really flowing. However, swinging is only for couples who are very secure in their relationship. If you are looking to swinging to save your marriage, forget it! It is way too dangerous for couples in trouble. Swinging is only for viable for great partnership who are looking to share sex with others and enjoy their partner having sex with others. If you want to check out the swinging world go to our Swinger Sites Reviews site. There you will find our favorite sites for swinging.
If your sex is boring, and you are really committed. Ask your sexual partner to try something new. Try having your partner take the sexual lead in this adventure. Sexual experimenting can be fun, enjoy yourself!
Ray Taylor
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
A study recently discovered that after a couple of years of marriage, the wife's interest in sex had shrunk fifty percent. There was also a major decline in intercourse.
What can one implement to heat up ones sex life?
First: Spouse bonding. Women usually enjoy this style of sex. The emotional relating with your partner is the most important. Usually, partners when they first were in lust have a lot of spouse connection in sex. Eye gazing, touchy feely and fluids flowing and the sex is really fantastic! It just flows and there is lots of hugging, kissing and foreplay.
So how do you get more of this fun sex with your lover. One idea in sex to get more out of this concept is to keep your eyes open while having sex. You will find most couples don't even look at their partner. Eyes unite us and get the sexual juices flowing. for the more adventurous, I recommend opening your eyes while you orgasm. Men find this to be a challenge yet you can do it!
Second: Sex is like a trance. With this idea you go inwards and is all about ones sexual fantasies, sexual feelings or a sex dream. Your eye lids are shut as the sexual connection with your spouse is not necessary. Men like to visualize sex in their minds.
I had a partner who liked to go into another world. I just felt I like a taxi driver taking her to her sexual fantasies. Since I didn't get to join her sexual adventure, I didn't feel sexually satisfied. Touching her was one method that I found frustrating. I told her this and she did starting me also.
Third: Sexual Role Play. This is a lot of fun. You can act out a sexual fantasy or become a sexual healer or doctor. You could be an animal. Bondage falls into this version of sex play. This is usually more challenging for folks. However sexual role playing can really rev up your sex experiences.
Fourth: Swinging (my favorite) Swinging is the most exciting sex I have ever experienced! There is nothing like "strange" to get the juices really flowing. However, swinging is only for couples who are very secure in their relationship. If you are looking to swinging to save your marriage, forget it! It is way too dangerous for couples in trouble. Swinging is only for viable for great partnership who are looking to share sex with others and enjoy their partner having sex with others. If you want to check out the swinging world go to our Swinger Sites Reviews site. There you will find our favorite sites for swinging.
If your sex is boring, and you are really committed. Ask your sexual partner to try something new. Try having your partner take the sexual lead in this adventure. Sexual experimenting can be fun, enjoy yourself!
Ray Taylor
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Wednesday, September 05, 2007
Soft Swinging
If you believe that you get excited by the thought of swinging, just wait until you try it. Imaging does not the same as swinging —only the real thing will truly make you a believer.
You might know, soft swinging is the first go at swapping for lots of people. Therefore, you may already have done so soft swapping without even knowing it.
One might have a too many beers, got a little naughty with someone's spouse. And you knew damn that it wasn't about love or cheating on your spouse, it was about sexual lust - swinging.
Maybe she/he felt just right or they were wearing a great outfit that turned you on…
Swapping Should Occur Spontaneously
The lighting is down. You're at a get together with your spouse and you've go different ways for a second. You're very aware of where your spouse is, but you just let situation take you. The two of you have already talked about swinging before.
Let's see where the swapping situation might take you.
A small touch, a stroke of their arm. It could just be a slow kiss. Your eyes close and you sink into the swinging moment.
What if you see your spouse over in the corner?
It's amazingly exciting to see your spouse with another, even tho it's 'just playing' to start. To see body parts that have touched will send chills running down someone else's skin and that can be a sexual turn on.
Watching can be a great way to begin soft swapping. It's a great way to put yourself into soft swinging.
You might just needed a little 'stimulation' to get going.
What If You Want To Plan Some Swapping?
One might have already decided that 'soft swinging' might just happen one night. You've chatted about it for a while, when the talk turns to swapping sex.
Planning ahead doesn't make it any less amazing or exciting.
It might start with a sensual massage of your feet and then move into the naughty areas.
Now it is up to you. Don't hold back; lots of people, 1 in 5, has tried swinging sex.
Now you can go back to your old days and just kiss and make out, or you can go to sexual groping and strokes. Checking out a new new person's body, how do they smell and feel? What makes them a change from your spouse
Keep it slow at first because you're just getting started, just teasing the other person at this moment. One wants to keep them aroused and ready for the next swinging time.
Your pulse is racing and your mind can wait for the next swinging meeting.
Please go slowly. Always wanting more from the soft swinging episode is a great idea and one wants to make sure that one is completely at ease before upping the level of swapping sexual intensity.
Slow soft swinging is great because one gets to go home and finish off the sexual excitement started by the soft swinging at the party. Soft swing can be the most fun one can have with their clothes on!
Ray
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
You might know, soft swinging is the first go at swapping for lots of people. Therefore, you may already have done so soft swapping without even knowing it.
One might have a too many beers, got a little naughty with someone's spouse. And you knew damn that it wasn't about love or cheating on your spouse, it was about sexual lust - swinging.
Maybe she/he felt just right or they were wearing a great outfit that turned you on…
Swapping Should Occur Spontaneously
The lighting is down. You're at a get together with your spouse and you've go different ways for a second. You're very aware of where your spouse is, but you just let situation take you. The two of you have already talked about swinging before.
Let's see where the swapping situation might take you.
A small touch, a stroke of their arm. It could just be a slow kiss. Your eyes close and you sink into the swinging moment.
What if you see your spouse over in the corner?
It's amazingly exciting to see your spouse with another, even tho it's 'just playing' to start. To see body parts that have touched will send chills running down someone else's skin and that can be a sexual turn on.
Watching can be a great way to begin soft swapping. It's a great way to put yourself into soft swinging.
You might just needed a little 'stimulation' to get going.
What If You Want To Plan Some Swapping?
One might have already decided that 'soft swinging' might just happen one night. You've chatted about it for a while, when the talk turns to swapping sex.
Planning ahead doesn't make it any less amazing or exciting.
It might start with a sensual massage of your feet and then move into the naughty areas.
Now it is up to you. Don't hold back; lots of people, 1 in 5, has tried swinging sex.
Now you can go back to your old days and just kiss and make out, or you can go to sexual groping and strokes. Checking out a new new person's body, how do they smell and feel? What makes them a change from your spouse
Keep it slow at first because you're just getting started, just teasing the other person at this moment. One wants to keep them aroused and ready for the next swinging time.
Your pulse is racing and your mind can wait for the next swinging meeting.
Please go slowly. Always wanting more from the soft swinging episode is a great idea and one wants to make sure that one is completely at ease before upping the level of swapping sexual intensity.
Slow soft swinging is great because one gets to go home and finish off the sexual excitement started by the soft swinging at the party. Soft swing can be the most fun one can have with their clothes on!
Ray
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Monday, April 23, 2007
The Swinging Lifestyle
Swinger Lifestyle
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
Have fun!
Ray
http://www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
Have fun!
Ray
www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
Have fun!
Ray
http://www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
Have fun!
Ray
www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
Tuesday, March 13, 2007
A Real Swinging Housewife Talks About Her Vacation
A Real Swinging Housewife Talks About Her Vacation
by: Julia Tanner
Changing up the scenery from time to time can make any real swinging housewife even more excited, so why not look into something like this?
If you’re met another couple over the Internet and they’re out of town, meeting up somewhere in between can provide for an erotic and adventurous location.
Making The Plans
When it comes to any vacation planning, you want to sort out all the details first. There’s nothing like a few surprises to kill a mood.
Start with picking a few destinations that you might enjoy, factoring in your own separate budgets and preferences. The more private and warm the destination is, the better, in my opinion.
But if warm isn’t an option, then you just might want to look into places that exude desire. Honeymoon suites might be a little strange though.
Pick the place and then get tickets and hotel reservations. If you want to maintain a sense of privacy, then you will want to reserve the rooms separately. This ensures that you won’t know each other’s names unless you want to reveal them.
You can just talk about what room number you can find a real swinging housewife.
This might sounds a bit paranoid, but if you’ve never met before, it’s a good way to keep everyone safe.
When You Arrive
If you’ve decided to remain anonymous at first, then respect that boundary and don’t try to find each other just yet. Get settled in and meet up at a restaurant or other neutral location.
Have a lovely conversation and see how the four (or more) of you get along. If dinner goes well and the mood seems fitting, then you may want to exchange room numbers (showing each other your keys and giving the spares to each other) and then let the night begin.
Be sure to acknowledge your spouse throughout dinner to show how much you love them. Touch them and kiss them constantly.
What Else Do You Do?
Well, this part is really up to you and your comfort level. I like to make the rule that I wake up with my husband and only my husband in the morning.
This gives our relationship priority and we can talk about our adventures in private if we choose. Sometimes, we even like to share breakfast together as well as the morning. Heck, we’re on vacation!
You may want to leave a way to contact each other the next day to set up another fun evening or afternoon.
And from there, you can enjoy as much swinging as you’d like.
A last suggestion is to make sure that you don’t plan too much time together. You don’t want to feel like you ‘have’ to be together all the time. You may want to say that three nights are as far as you will absolutely save for each other.
And then you can enjoy your own relationship for the remainder, or go home.
Of course, if you’re having fun, then by all means, keep the party going.
www.swingersitesreviews.com
by: Julia Tanner
Changing up the scenery from time to time can make any real swinging housewife even more excited, so why not look into something like this?
If you’re met another couple over the Internet and they’re out of town, meeting up somewhere in between can provide for an erotic and adventurous location.
Making The Plans
When it comes to any vacation planning, you want to sort out all the details first. There’s nothing like a few surprises to kill a mood.
Start with picking a few destinations that you might enjoy, factoring in your own separate budgets and preferences. The more private and warm the destination is, the better, in my opinion.
But if warm isn’t an option, then you just might want to look into places that exude desire. Honeymoon suites might be a little strange though.
Pick the place and then get tickets and hotel reservations. If you want to maintain a sense of privacy, then you will want to reserve the rooms separately. This ensures that you won’t know each other’s names unless you want to reveal them.
You can just talk about what room number you can find a real swinging housewife.
This might sounds a bit paranoid, but if you’ve never met before, it’s a good way to keep everyone safe.
When You Arrive
If you’ve decided to remain anonymous at first, then respect that boundary and don’t try to find each other just yet. Get settled in and meet up at a restaurant or other neutral location.
Have a lovely conversation and see how the four (or more) of you get along. If dinner goes well and the mood seems fitting, then you may want to exchange room numbers (showing each other your keys and giving the spares to each other) and then let the night begin.
Be sure to acknowledge your spouse throughout dinner to show how much you love them. Touch them and kiss them constantly.
What Else Do You Do?
Well, this part is really up to you and your comfort level. I like to make the rule that I wake up with my husband and only my husband in the morning.
This gives our relationship priority and we can talk about our adventures in private if we choose. Sometimes, we even like to share breakfast together as well as the morning. Heck, we’re on vacation!
You may want to leave a way to contact each other the next day to set up another fun evening or afternoon.
And from there, you can enjoy as much swinging as you’d like.
A last suggestion is to make sure that you don’t plan too much time together. You don’t want to feel like you ‘have’ to be together all the time. You may want to say that three nights are as far as you will absolutely save for each other.
And then you can enjoy your own relationship for the remainder, or go home.
Of course, if you’re having fun, then by all means, keep the party going.
www.swingersitesreviews.com
Friday, March 09, 2007
52 Free Things to Do with Your Partner on Date Night
52 Free Things to Do with Your Partner on Date Night
by: Kim Olver
One of the things that works to keep relationships alive is spending quality time with each other. In this day of the information age, it is becoming increasingly difficult to carve out the necessary time to nurture our relationships. What with long work hours, helping kids with their homework, transporting them around to their extracurricular activities, getting dinner, cleaning up and going through the bedtime routine, what time is left?
Unless you orchestrate the time for your relationship, other less important things will crowd in and take what precious little time you do have. Pick a night that will be “date night” with your partner and make a game out of being as creative as you can be. Try to see how many things you can do without spending money.
To get you started, I’ve come up with some suggestions to help you for the next year. What follows are 52 ideas for how to spend creative time together without spending money. Feel free to add or modify any of the items on the list to suit your particular relationship and circumstances.
WINTER
1. Take a drive to look at the Christmas decorations.
2. Play cards---perhaps strip poker.
3. Watch a movie together.
4. Go outside and have a snowball fight.
5. Get some finger paints and create your own body art with each other as your canvass.
6. Go sleigh riding.
7. Go ice skating.
8. Work out or exercise together.
9. Stage your own improvisation show.
10. Sing to each other.
11. Review or create a photo album or scrapbook of your memories together.
12. Play a board game---perhaps chess, Scrabble or Twister.
13. Go to a book store, get coffee and read for hours.
SPRING
14. Work on a remodeling project together.
15. Plan and complete a yard work project together.
16. Do the spring cleaning together---room by room. When done, reward yourself by making love in the room you’ve cleaned.
17. Put on old clothes and mud wrestle after some drenching rain.
18. Give each other a massage.
19. Play catch---football, baseball, softball or Frisbee.
20. Go to a car dealer and test drive the car of your dreams.
21. Shoot basketball together.
22. Dance together.
23. Take a shower together and wash each other---everywhere.
24. Take a free adult education class together.
25. Go to a mall and have a contest to see which one of you can get the most free samples.
26. Go rollerblading or bike riding.
SUMMER
27. Build a campfire and roast marshmallows.
28. Go swimming or skinny dipping.
29. Give each other a manicure or pedicure.
30. Go somewhere crowded to people watch.
31. Go to a free outdoor event, perhaps a concert.
32. Lie on a blanket outside and watch the clouds or stars.
33. Go on a picnic.
34. Watch a fireworks display.
35. Be creative and engage in sexual role plays. Be anyone you’d like to be for the night who is also exciting for your partner.
36. Sit by the water somewhere.
37. Do a prolonged strip tease for each other.
38. Have a water balloon fight.
39. Sit outside and read poetry to each other.
FALL
40. Go for a drive together.
41. Go window shopping.
42. Incorporate food into your love making---chocolate syrup, whipped cream, fondue, strawberries---anything you and your partner enjoy.
43. Call or write to someone you haven’t had contact with in a while.
44. Cook something together.
45. Spend an evening just talking with each other. Talk about the things you have done, plans you have for the future, important people in your lives or current events.
46. Take a bubble bath together.
47. Go to a free movie or museum.
48. Take a drive and find the potential in old houses and their properties.
49. Create an imaginary story together---either orally or in written form.
50. Take turns being each other’s genie in a bottle by fulfilling your partner’s every wish and fantasy.
51. Play in the fallen leaves.
52. Create an exciting scavenger hunt that ends in your bed.
Now you have 52 suggestions for things to do with your partner for every week of the year divided by season. Certainly you don’t have to follow my suggestions. Feel free to add your own or to repeat your favorites as often as you’d like.
The main point is not to see how kinky you can get. The idea is to keep your relationship alive by making time together a priority. It is important that you find things to do as a couple that you can both enjoy. If you have vastly different interests then you can enter this with the spirit of taking turns and each agree to happily participate in the activity chosen by the one whose turn it is that week.
As long as you make a habit of making your relationship a priority and allocating time each week for rejuvenation of the feelings that attracted you in the first place, then you stand a good chance of staying together for the long haul.
Please don’t let insidious boredom enter into your relationship through the back door. This is what frequently happens when we are busy placing other things ahead of our time for each other. You know what I mean---the job, the kids, our friend in crisis, etc. There will always be a competing interest for the time you’ve set aside for each other.
Other than natural disasters, threat of death or major crises, do not allow your time together to be invaded by any outside forces. Make sure to create opportunities for you to do things together without outside influence. With more than 50% of today’s marriages ending in divorce, make this small investment in the longevity of your relationship. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. What’s stopping you? Start today.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Kim Olver
One of the things that works to keep relationships alive is spending quality time with each other. In this day of the information age, it is becoming increasingly difficult to carve out the necessary time to nurture our relationships. What with long work hours, helping kids with their homework, transporting them around to their extracurricular activities, getting dinner, cleaning up and going through the bedtime routine, what time is left?
Unless you orchestrate the time for your relationship, other less important things will crowd in and take what precious little time you do have. Pick a night that will be “date night” with your partner and make a game out of being as creative as you can be. Try to see how many things you can do without spending money.
To get you started, I’ve come up with some suggestions to help you for the next year. What follows are 52 ideas for how to spend creative time together without spending money. Feel free to add or modify any of the items on the list to suit your particular relationship and circumstances.
WINTER
1. Take a drive to look at the Christmas decorations.
2. Play cards---perhaps strip poker.
3. Watch a movie together.
4. Go outside and have a snowball fight.
5. Get some finger paints and create your own body art with each other as your canvass.
6. Go sleigh riding.
7. Go ice skating.
8. Work out or exercise together.
9. Stage your own improvisation show.
10. Sing to each other.
11. Review or create a photo album or scrapbook of your memories together.
12. Play a board game---perhaps chess, Scrabble or Twister.
13. Go to a book store, get coffee and read for hours.
SPRING
14. Work on a remodeling project together.
15. Plan and complete a yard work project together.
16. Do the spring cleaning together---room by room. When done, reward yourself by making love in the room you’ve cleaned.
17. Put on old clothes and mud wrestle after some drenching rain.
18. Give each other a massage.
19. Play catch---football, baseball, softball or Frisbee.
20. Go to a car dealer and test drive the car of your dreams.
21. Shoot basketball together.
22. Dance together.
23. Take a shower together and wash each other---everywhere.
24. Take a free adult education class together.
25. Go to a mall and have a contest to see which one of you can get the most free samples.
26. Go rollerblading or bike riding.
SUMMER
27. Build a campfire and roast marshmallows.
28. Go swimming or skinny dipping.
29. Give each other a manicure or pedicure.
30. Go somewhere crowded to people watch.
31. Go to a free outdoor event, perhaps a concert.
32. Lie on a blanket outside and watch the clouds or stars.
33. Go on a picnic.
34. Watch a fireworks display.
35. Be creative and engage in sexual role plays. Be anyone you’d like to be for the night who is also exciting for your partner.
36. Sit by the water somewhere.
37. Do a prolonged strip tease for each other.
38. Have a water balloon fight.
39. Sit outside and read poetry to each other.
FALL
40. Go for a drive together.
41. Go window shopping.
42. Incorporate food into your love making---chocolate syrup, whipped cream, fondue, strawberries---anything you and your partner enjoy.
43. Call or write to someone you haven’t had contact with in a while.
44. Cook something together.
45. Spend an evening just talking with each other. Talk about the things you have done, plans you have for the future, important people in your lives or current events.
46. Take a bubble bath together.
47. Go to a free movie or museum.
48. Take a drive and find the potential in old houses and their properties.
49. Create an imaginary story together---either orally or in written form.
50. Take turns being each other’s genie in a bottle by fulfilling your partner’s every wish and fantasy.
51. Play in the fallen leaves.
52. Create an exciting scavenger hunt that ends in your bed.
Now you have 52 suggestions for things to do with your partner for every week of the year divided by season. Certainly you don’t have to follow my suggestions. Feel free to add your own or to repeat your favorites as often as you’d like.
The main point is not to see how kinky you can get. The idea is to keep your relationship alive by making time together a priority. It is important that you find things to do as a couple that you can both enjoy. If you have vastly different interests then you can enter this with the spirit of taking turns and each agree to happily participate in the activity chosen by the one whose turn it is that week.
As long as you make a habit of making your relationship a priority and allocating time each week for rejuvenation of the feelings that attracted you in the first place, then you stand a good chance of staying together for the long haul.
Please don’t let insidious boredom enter into your relationship through the back door. This is what frequently happens when we are busy placing other things ahead of our time for each other. You know what I mean---the job, the kids, our friend in crisis, etc. There will always be a competing interest for the time you’ve set aside for each other.
Other than natural disasters, threat of death or major crises, do not allow your time together to be invaded by any outside forces. Make sure to create opportunities for you to do things together without outside influence. With more than 50% of today’s marriages ending in divorce, make this small investment in the longevity of your relationship. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. What’s stopping you? Start today.
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Thursday, March 01, 2007
Sex And The Afterlife - Part One
Sex And The Afterlife - Part One
by: Bob Daulby
It is because of religious fervour, indoctrination and plain fear-mongering that society at large is under the common 'belief' and assumption that, when we do finally die, like our lives, our sex life also comes to a full stop. Oh dear me! This could not be more wrong.
Way before I began my journey, experiences and *actual* communication with Our Worlds Beyond, I too, was also left with the same, misguided, impression. However, it wasn't until I by-passed my own instilled indoctrination (read 'brain-washing'), fears and doubts and came to be in *actual* communication with our loved ones in the spirit worlds, that The Truth - that is - The Truth that transcends ALL truths - finally became my own. When it did, finally become my own, not only sex but that, so very many other similar truths were also imparted to me that it became a habit for me to keep repeating...
'Well, I never! Really!?'
In fact, after a while, it became very frustrating to me because, once I had gotten into the habit of speaking to those who are *actually* there and stopped reading 'books' about it all, I then realised that all those books I had ever read before about the afterlife were - and still are - completely wrong and that I need not have bothered to read them at all. (What a waste of time that was!) . My frustration was made doubly worse for the fact that I too started out as a *staunch* Christian taboot! And so, like you, I too was led right up the garden path and back again - by my nose!
For millennia, we have been *instilled* with the 'religious' idea of what sex is about. If we recall, as far as the Catholic church is concerned (where ALL Westernised religion originated from), sex exists for one reason only - which is, to bear children and that sex, for any other reason was an out and out 'sin'. I say to you now that, had it not been for the church and it's interference with our sex lives then, I promise you, the three P's - 'Pornography' - 'Paedophilia' - and 'Prostitution' wouldn't exist. What the church (any church incidentally) do by threatening us all with eternal damnation through our supposed 'illicit' sexual activity is akin to placing your thumb over the top of a fiercely spouting tap and expecting to control the spray! It was ridiculous then and it still is. What is more, it is downright ignorant too! (I'm sorry but *somebody* had to say it didn't they?).
So, let's start again Ok?
Let us start with, 'God created *everything* shall we? Thus, God created SEX too! And I don't mean that God created sex just to have children. God created sex for FUN as well - but it doesn't stop there does it?
Not only DID God create everything but that H/She/It STILL creates everything - even on down to these words you're reading now. He/She/It is not only creating as a Being in His/Her/It's own right but is also creating through you and I! God - is THE master creator - the ONLY creator - and really is 'All That Is'. Thus, God created both sex and fun too!
Now then, if we really have read our Bibles carefully, you will note that Adam and Eve didn't just have two sons called Cain and Abel did they? No. Adam and Eve had - and listen now - *thousands* of daughters! Naturally, the church 'forget' to tell us' of course because it's really difficult to explain to a purposely sexually starved society commonly called 'sheep'. You see, why these daughters are not mentioned to a great extent is because, as you well know, in those days, sons were far more important than daughters and so, in a sense, 'didn't count'. So, religiously speaking, what happened then? Why, Caine and Abel had sex with most of those daughters to bring about you and I. And it is this 'ungodly' anomaly that the church, in all it's wisdom, 'forget' to mention. (Who *else* could they have sex with?). That means that you and I are born of 'incest' Ok?
So, before I even start, the religious can stop pointing fingers, evoke Satan or threaten me with eternal hell and damnation. It is in your holy book and that's that.
Due to 'human' interpretation, where we have lost the ball completely on sex is where 'God' said, "Go Forth And Multiply'. That was all that He said then. He did NOT say, 'Go Forth And Multiply - But Only To Have Children - And Don't Even Think Of *Enjoying* It Or It's Hell For You Pal/Paless!'.
God invented clitorises. God invented the 'G' spot. God made it so that nipples became erect and *aroused* *during* sex too (eh?). And way before babies are even thought of. God invented *multiple* orgasms for both men and women - and this, when ONE orgasm from one man, is quite enough for babies to appear and where woman don't even need to be thinking of us let alone get involved themselves. But, more importantly, God *also* invented lust. If we are to have sex 'just for children' then, why oh why make it so damn exciting and all-enfolding for BOTH genders?
Logical see?
And so, in short, God - and not you and I (because sex existed way before you and I were born anyway and so, were not there at the beginning to interfere with it as our forefathers have), the *actual* truth is, we have all these extra attachments and abilities to *enjoy* sex - for sex's sake - and NOT just to have children.
But, where does that leave us?
It leaves us now to re-think our ideas of sex and to bring it back to where it is supposed to be - in OUR homes and not in churches or even society at large. Sex, belongs to JUST you and JUST me and, what you or I do with it, explore or express it, has absolutely nothing to do with anyone else - least of all, courts.
Just as it is in heaven - the astral plains - or, Our Worlds Beyond because NO ONE there EVER tells us what kind of sex we can or cannot have. We have it anyway.
But you know, you don't have to take my word for any of this. If you'd only look for yourself as I did then you would find exactly the same as I have and where you too will be both shocked and amazed to find this truth and truths like it that you will not find anywhere else. Why? Because ALL Earth-based 'truth' is corrupt. 'Heaven's' truth is completely untouched and is incorruptible by man. And Thank God for that I say. (Don't you?)
(Please go to “Sex And The Afterlife - Part Two” for the rest of it)
I thank you for your time.
Bob Daulby
www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
by: Bob Daulby
It is because of religious fervour, indoctrination and plain fear-mongering that society at large is under the common 'belief' and assumption that, when we do finally die, like our lives, our sex life also comes to a full stop. Oh dear me! This could not be more wrong.
Way before I began my journey, experiences and *actual* communication with Our Worlds Beyond, I too, was also left with the same, misguided, impression. However, it wasn't until I by-passed my own instilled indoctrination (read 'brain-washing'), fears and doubts and came to be in *actual* communication with our loved ones in the spirit worlds, that The Truth - that is - The Truth that transcends ALL truths - finally became my own. When it did, finally become my own, not only sex but that, so very many other similar truths were also imparted to me that it became a habit for me to keep repeating...
'Well, I never! Really!?'
In fact, after a while, it became very frustrating to me because, once I had gotten into the habit of speaking to those who are *actually* there and stopped reading 'books' about it all, I then realised that all those books I had ever read before about the afterlife were - and still are - completely wrong and that I need not have bothered to read them at all. (What a waste of time that was!) . My frustration was made doubly worse for the fact that I too started out as a *staunch* Christian taboot! And so, like you, I too was led right up the garden path and back again - by my nose!
For millennia, we have been *instilled* with the 'religious' idea of what sex is about. If we recall, as far as the Catholic church is concerned (where ALL Westernised religion originated from), sex exists for one reason only - which is, to bear children and that sex, for any other reason was an out and out 'sin'. I say to you now that, had it not been for the church and it's interference with our sex lives then, I promise you, the three P's - 'Pornography' - 'Paedophilia' - and 'Prostitution' wouldn't exist. What the church (any church incidentally) do by threatening us all with eternal damnation through our supposed 'illicit' sexual activity is akin to placing your thumb over the top of a fiercely spouting tap and expecting to control the spray! It was ridiculous then and it still is. What is more, it is downright ignorant too! (I'm sorry but *somebody* had to say it didn't they?).
So, let's start again Ok?
Let us start with, 'God created *everything* shall we? Thus, God created SEX too! And I don't mean that God created sex just to have children. God created sex for FUN as well - but it doesn't stop there does it?
Not only DID God create everything but that H/She/It STILL creates everything - even on down to these words you're reading now. He/She/It is not only creating as a Being in His/Her/It's own right but is also creating through you and I! God - is THE master creator - the ONLY creator - and really is 'All That Is'. Thus, God created both sex and fun too!
Now then, if we really have read our Bibles carefully, you will note that Adam and Eve didn't just have two sons called Cain and Abel did they? No. Adam and Eve had - and listen now - *thousands* of daughters! Naturally, the church 'forget' to tell us' of course because it's really difficult to explain to a purposely sexually starved society commonly called 'sheep'. You see, why these daughters are not mentioned to a great extent is because, as you well know, in those days, sons were far more important than daughters and so, in a sense, 'didn't count'. So, religiously speaking, what happened then? Why, Caine and Abel had sex with most of those daughters to bring about you and I. And it is this 'ungodly' anomaly that the church, in all it's wisdom, 'forget' to mention. (Who *else* could they have sex with?). That means that you and I are born of 'incest' Ok?
So, before I even start, the religious can stop pointing fingers, evoke Satan or threaten me with eternal hell and damnation. It is in your holy book and that's that.
Due to 'human' interpretation, where we have lost the ball completely on sex is where 'God' said, "Go Forth And Multiply'. That was all that He said then. He did NOT say, 'Go Forth And Multiply - But Only To Have Children - And Don't Even Think Of *Enjoying* It Or It's Hell For You Pal/Paless!'.
God invented clitorises. God invented the 'G' spot. God made it so that nipples became erect and *aroused* *during* sex too (eh?). And way before babies are even thought of. God invented *multiple* orgasms for both men and women - and this, when ONE orgasm from one man, is quite enough for babies to appear and where woman don't even need to be thinking of us let alone get involved themselves. But, more importantly, God *also* invented lust. If we are to have sex 'just for children' then, why oh why make it so damn exciting and all-enfolding for BOTH genders?
Logical see?
And so, in short, God - and not you and I (because sex existed way before you and I were born anyway and so, were not there at the beginning to interfere with it as our forefathers have), the *actual* truth is, we have all these extra attachments and abilities to *enjoy* sex - for sex's sake - and NOT just to have children.
But, where does that leave us?
It leaves us now to re-think our ideas of sex and to bring it back to where it is supposed to be - in OUR homes and not in churches or even society at large. Sex, belongs to JUST you and JUST me and, what you or I do with it, explore or express it, has absolutely nothing to do with anyone else - least of all, courts.
Just as it is in heaven - the astral plains - or, Our Worlds Beyond because NO ONE there EVER tells us what kind of sex we can or cannot have. We have it anyway.
But you know, you don't have to take my word for any of this. If you'd only look for yourself as I did then you would find exactly the same as I have and where you too will be both shocked and amazed to find this truth and truths like it that you will not find anywhere else. Why? Because ALL Earth-based 'truth' is corrupt. 'Heaven's' truth is completely untouched and is incorruptible by man. And Thank God for that I say. (Don't you?)
(Please go to “Sex And The Afterlife - Part Two” for the rest of it)
I thank you for your time.
Bob Daulby
www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
Monday, February 26, 2007
The Male G-Spot A Golden Nugget
The Male G-Spot A Golden Nugget
by: Terrance Lile (Uncle Terry)
In an episode of the animated sitcom Family Guy, Peter has a checkup by Doctor Hartman and receives a prostate exam. The exam was not what he expected and he thought that he was being raped. The episode was hilarious to some, disgusting to others and yet to others it pointed out the importance of prostate health. For many men their only experience with their own prostate has been this exam. In truth, the discovery of this hidden golden nugget often referred to as the “Male G-Spot,” is highly rewarding and stimulating once a man can get over his hang-up of being touched in that area.
For centuries the elusive female G-spot has made its way into our sex lives. For most couples, the man has always put attention on the woman’s erogenous zone, hoping to strike gold at some point during the act. Of course this makes most partners weak in the knees, if the infamous spot is found. As a result, the woman is pleased until orgasm and wants to return the favor. Ironically, the majority of men flinch, perhaps thinking about a prostate exam or tar instead of mining for gold at the mention of their own G-spot being stimulated. Unless the man is willing to charter unknown territory, the butt area is usually off limits.
For most men, the prostate gland, also known as the male’s G-spot, is often a touchy subject. For many men, even touching near the anus may make them question their sexual orientation. Anal sex is neither a gay nor straight activity, it is a stimulating sexual activity that can be enjoyed by all. At Ask Uncle Terry men will email us about their hang-ups with anal sex. Many of these men find the idea of it scary or even repulsive. However, we also hear from men that had their prostate stimulated for the first time and many report that they experienced an intensified orgasm like never before. Once it is tried, chances are the man will look forward with great anticipation to the next visit. Best of all a stimulated prostate is a healthier prostate.
For women who do not know where the g-spot is located, the prostate gland is a small gland located between the testicles and the anus. It is actually within the perineum, which means that when you rub this gland, it will make men moan with excitement. When inserting a finger or a sex toy into the anus, this gland can be stimulated until orgasm is reached. Although orgasm can be reached in dozens of different ways, this kind of stimulation is much more intense and overwhelming.
If you build up the courage to try this new sexcapade, or your partner is willing to dive right in, be sure to use an ample amount of water-based lubricant. For long nails, cleanliness, or if you are not in a monogamous relationship, or there is any question as to STDs or HIV a glove or condom should first be placed over the fingers. Once you are ready, your partner should cover their finger in the lubricant and slowly insert it into your anus. The prostate is about two inches upward and forward. If the man is a little squeamish the finger does not have to be fully inserted. The area around the opening of the anus is full of nerve endings and provides stimulating sensation on its own. Although the sensation may feel strange, it will become more intense as your partner starts to feel around.
In order to increase your desire and anticipation, your partner should very slowly insert their finger or toy allowing the sphincter muscle to relax. This will not only avoid discomfort, it will also allow you to enjoy the moment. Once that golden nugget “G-spot” is located, you will be shocked to realize what you have been missing out on all of these years! It is often an incredible feeling, far more intense than any other sexual position.
If you are still wary of even asking your partner to act so kinky, you can have them just rub the outside of your anus. Even by touching it lightly, your nerve endings are still stimulated. For men, their genitals and the overall region are extremely sensitive, thus resulting in mind boggling convulsions that could last for minutes.
Regardless of how embarrassed or nervous you are, it is actually exciting to go outside of the box and try something new. Far too often men are too worried about being laughed at to try something so kinky and taboo in today’s society. However, if you have an open-minded partner and stop caring about other people’s perceptions, you can easily enjoy the secret side of sex.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Terrance Lile (Uncle Terry)
In an episode of the animated sitcom Family Guy, Peter has a checkup by Doctor Hartman and receives a prostate exam. The exam was not what he expected and he thought that he was being raped. The episode was hilarious to some, disgusting to others and yet to others it pointed out the importance of prostate health. For many men their only experience with their own prostate has been this exam. In truth, the discovery of this hidden golden nugget often referred to as the “Male G-Spot,” is highly rewarding and stimulating once a man can get over his hang-up of being touched in that area.
For centuries the elusive female G-spot has made its way into our sex lives. For most couples, the man has always put attention on the woman’s erogenous zone, hoping to strike gold at some point during the act. Of course this makes most partners weak in the knees, if the infamous spot is found. As a result, the woman is pleased until orgasm and wants to return the favor. Ironically, the majority of men flinch, perhaps thinking about a prostate exam or tar instead of mining for gold at the mention of their own G-spot being stimulated. Unless the man is willing to charter unknown territory, the butt area is usually off limits.
For most men, the prostate gland, also known as the male’s G-spot, is often a touchy subject. For many men, even touching near the anus may make them question their sexual orientation. Anal sex is neither a gay nor straight activity, it is a stimulating sexual activity that can be enjoyed by all. At Ask Uncle Terry men will email us about their hang-ups with anal sex. Many of these men find the idea of it scary or even repulsive. However, we also hear from men that had their prostate stimulated for the first time and many report that they experienced an intensified orgasm like never before. Once it is tried, chances are the man will look forward with great anticipation to the next visit. Best of all a stimulated prostate is a healthier prostate.
For women who do not know where the g-spot is located, the prostate gland is a small gland located between the testicles and the anus. It is actually within the perineum, which means that when you rub this gland, it will make men moan with excitement. When inserting a finger or a sex toy into the anus, this gland can be stimulated until orgasm is reached. Although orgasm can be reached in dozens of different ways, this kind of stimulation is much more intense and overwhelming.
If you build up the courage to try this new sexcapade, or your partner is willing to dive right in, be sure to use an ample amount of water-based lubricant. For long nails, cleanliness, or if you are not in a monogamous relationship, or there is any question as to STDs or HIV a glove or condom should first be placed over the fingers. Once you are ready, your partner should cover their finger in the lubricant and slowly insert it into your anus. The prostate is about two inches upward and forward. If the man is a little squeamish the finger does not have to be fully inserted. The area around the opening of the anus is full of nerve endings and provides stimulating sensation on its own. Although the sensation may feel strange, it will become more intense as your partner starts to feel around.
In order to increase your desire and anticipation, your partner should very slowly insert their finger or toy allowing the sphincter muscle to relax. This will not only avoid discomfort, it will also allow you to enjoy the moment. Once that golden nugget “G-spot” is located, you will be shocked to realize what you have been missing out on all of these years! It is often an incredible feeling, far more intense than any other sexual position.
If you are still wary of even asking your partner to act so kinky, you can have them just rub the outside of your anus. Even by touching it lightly, your nerve endings are still stimulated. For men, their genitals and the overall region are extremely sensitive, thus resulting in mind boggling convulsions that could last for minutes.
Regardless of how embarrassed or nervous you are, it is actually exciting to go outside of the box and try something new. Far too often men are too worried about being laughed at to try something so kinky and taboo in today’s society. However, if you have an open-minded partner and stop caring about other people’s perceptions, you can easily enjoy the secret side of sex.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Friday, February 23, 2007
If You Want to be Discreet when Swinging
If You Want to be Discreet when Swinging
by: Julia Tanner
Of course, after you’ve tried a little swinging, you may want to share your amazing experiences with everyone you know. Unfortunately, not everyone will be as open as you. If you work in a conservative environment, or just want to maintain a little anonymity, then there are several ways to go about it.
If you’re going to clubs…
One of the main reasons that a lot of beginning swingers try out clubs is that there is a certain safety in numbers. If you’re there and they’re there, then you both are embracing swinging as a lifestyle or a fascination. And you are both in the same boat of wanting to have a great experience (or experiences) without feeling like your privacy has been invaded. Too much.
Another great aspect of a dark, smoky club is that many of the times; names are not exchanged, so you can have a wonderful time without even knowing who you were with. This might sound impersonal, but it’s a safety feature that’s built in. You might find that being anonymous is highly erotic and satisfying when you’re in the club situation. And you also won’t worry about running into anyone later with an awkward silence about who knows who.
Maybe you’ll see someone at the local grocery store. Just nod, smile, and keep moving to the milk section. Keep your name for a while until you feel that there’s a special connection between you and another couple or person. You want to take your time to feel trust and security within your swinging group. And if you find someone that you like?
Meeting with another couple in a public place at first will help you determine if you’re all ready to trust each other. Meet in a non-sexual environment to see how you interact before you jump into bed (or other places) with each other.
When you’re online…
With swinging dating services now available at the touch of a keyboard, you are launched into the faceless world of online dating. But this can be a great start for a new swinger. Not only can you choose whether or not to reveal your name and picture, but you can also take your time in determining if a person is right for you. You can ask questions over the secure servers available, or email anonymously.
Using one of those free email accounts is best. Keep this playtime separate.
And if you’re not sure about a person, it’s a lot easier to cut it off before you would ever meet. There are also safety monitors on many of the swingers dating sites, so if you feel that someone is being menacing or just plain creepy—report them. You could be saving someone else some trouble.
A final note…
Unfortunately, not everyone understands the joys of swinging, or they only want to live out their fantasies, but dismiss yours. Stalkers are a very real problem, so protecting your personal information until you are absolutely sure about someone is important.
Don’t give out your name, where you work, where you live, or any other identifiable information.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Julia Tanner
Of course, after you’ve tried a little swinging, you may want to share your amazing experiences with everyone you know. Unfortunately, not everyone will be as open as you. If you work in a conservative environment, or just want to maintain a little anonymity, then there are several ways to go about it.
If you’re going to clubs…
One of the main reasons that a lot of beginning swingers try out clubs is that there is a certain safety in numbers. If you’re there and they’re there, then you both are embracing swinging as a lifestyle or a fascination. And you are both in the same boat of wanting to have a great experience (or experiences) without feeling like your privacy has been invaded. Too much.
Another great aspect of a dark, smoky club is that many of the times; names are not exchanged, so you can have a wonderful time without even knowing who you were with. This might sound impersonal, but it’s a safety feature that’s built in. You might find that being anonymous is highly erotic and satisfying when you’re in the club situation. And you also won’t worry about running into anyone later with an awkward silence about who knows who.
Maybe you’ll see someone at the local grocery store. Just nod, smile, and keep moving to the milk section. Keep your name for a while until you feel that there’s a special connection between you and another couple or person. You want to take your time to feel trust and security within your swinging group. And if you find someone that you like?
Meeting with another couple in a public place at first will help you determine if you’re all ready to trust each other. Meet in a non-sexual environment to see how you interact before you jump into bed (or other places) with each other.
When you’re online…
With swinging dating services now available at the touch of a keyboard, you are launched into the faceless world of online dating. But this can be a great start for a new swinger. Not only can you choose whether or not to reveal your name and picture, but you can also take your time in determining if a person is right for you. You can ask questions over the secure servers available, or email anonymously.
Using one of those free email accounts is best. Keep this playtime separate.
And if you’re not sure about a person, it’s a lot easier to cut it off before you would ever meet. There are also safety monitors on many of the swingers dating sites, so if you feel that someone is being menacing or just plain creepy—report them. You could be saving someone else some trouble.
A final note…
Unfortunately, not everyone understands the joys of swinging, or they only want to live out their fantasies, but dismiss yours. Stalkers are a very real problem, so protecting your personal information until you are absolutely sure about someone is important.
Don’t give out your name, where you work, where you live, or any other identifiable information.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Tuesday, February 20, 2007
Just Want To Watch?
Just Want To Watch?
by: Julia Tanner
If you’ve ever caught someone in the act, then you’ve certainly felt a little warmer in that moment. You thought about being there, and feeling what they were feeling.
Just talking about it makes me all excited.
So when you’re swinging, what about looking at the scenery? Well, that certainly has its place as well.
Opening Your Eyes
When you’re first in a swinging situation, you may feel almost too aroused to do anything but watch. For the first few times I was with my partner, we just looked at the other couple in awe. For one, we were in awe of their openness. And for two, we were excited to see someone else being pleasured.
Just when you think you’re not turned on by something, then you try it and realize, wow, that’s amazing.
I think that many people feel ashamed to say that they like to watch others have sex or touch each other. And why should we? It’s a completely natural act. And how empowering is it to be absolutely comfortable to watch someone else?
Very.
Will The Other Couple Mind?
If it’s just you two and another couple, then you may want to broach the subject ahead of time. And if they say that it’s okay, then you can feel completely comfortable to watch them in action.
You may also feel aroused and follow suit, or pleasure yourself as you watch. Again, clear this with them ahead of time.
Most couples won’t mind if you ask.
And if you’re in a swingers club, it’s almost guaranteed that you’re going to be seen if you start anything, so it’s a free for all for voyeurs.
Remembering to blink may be hard though.
What If We’re Asked To Perform?
Think of being the subject of a fantasy as being in your favourite erotic movie and you are the stars.
Forget about who is watching and let the moment take you and your partner to ecstasy. Pleasure him or her as you normally would. Touch their skin, feel their thighs, slowly tease the sighs out.
If you really want to make an impression, open your eyes and look to the other couple. Let them know how much this turns you on, and how wonderful something feels.
Why Do You Look?
Looking at difference shapes of bodies is intriguing. And in a comfortable setting, you will see that it really isn’t the size that matters, but the confidence of the person.
Women aren’t judged by their weight and men aren’t seen for the length of their penis. Men aren’t counting another man’s abs, and women aren’t considering the bounce of the breasts.
You look because you’re curious, but you continue looking because you can see the beauty in everyone.
In most cases, looking will only satisfy so much and you will want to be the ones looked at. And that is completely natural and enthralling. Knowing that someone is watching you and getting pleasure from it can turn an ordinary moment into an erotic scene.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Julia Tanner
If you’ve ever caught someone in the act, then you’ve certainly felt a little warmer in that moment. You thought about being there, and feeling what they were feeling.
Just talking about it makes me all excited.
So when you’re swinging, what about looking at the scenery? Well, that certainly has its place as well.
Opening Your Eyes
When you’re first in a swinging situation, you may feel almost too aroused to do anything but watch. For the first few times I was with my partner, we just looked at the other couple in awe. For one, we were in awe of their openness. And for two, we were excited to see someone else being pleasured.
Just when you think you’re not turned on by something, then you try it and realize, wow, that’s amazing.
I think that many people feel ashamed to say that they like to watch others have sex or touch each other. And why should we? It’s a completely natural act. And how empowering is it to be absolutely comfortable to watch someone else?
Very.
Will The Other Couple Mind?
If it’s just you two and another couple, then you may want to broach the subject ahead of time. And if they say that it’s okay, then you can feel completely comfortable to watch them in action.
You may also feel aroused and follow suit, or pleasure yourself as you watch. Again, clear this with them ahead of time.
Most couples won’t mind if you ask.
And if you’re in a swingers club, it’s almost guaranteed that you’re going to be seen if you start anything, so it’s a free for all for voyeurs.
Remembering to blink may be hard though.
What If We’re Asked To Perform?
Think of being the subject of a fantasy as being in your favourite erotic movie and you are the stars.
Forget about who is watching and let the moment take you and your partner to ecstasy. Pleasure him or her as you normally would. Touch their skin, feel their thighs, slowly tease the sighs out.
If you really want to make an impression, open your eyes and look to the other couple. Let them know how much this turns you on, and how wonderful something feels.
Why Do You Look?
Looking at difference shapes of bodies is intriguing. And in a comfortable setting, you will see that it really isn’t the size that matters, but the confidence of the person.
Women aren’t judged by their weight and men aren’t seen for the length of their penis. Men aren’t counting another man’s abs, and women aren’t considering the bounce of the breasts.
You look because you’re curious, but you continue looking because you can see the beauty in everyone.
In most cases, looking will only satisfy so much and you will want to be the ones looked at. And that is completely natural and enthralling. Knowing that someone is watching you and getting pleasure from it can turn an ordinary moment into an erotic scene.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Thursday, February 15, 2007
Swinger Profiles That Get Noticed
Swinger Profiles That Get Noticed
by: Julia Tanner
If you’ve signed up to be on an online dating site, your profile is what will give you all of the attention that you could ever want. And every site will tell you that there are certain things that other couples look for when choosing to contact someone.
The Pictures
Time and time again, sites and advice columns will tell you that your picture is the best way to get attention on a dating site.
Yes, this is the time to smile for the camera. Or you can just show off some of your ‘finer’ points for other couples.
I actually recommend a sultry pose without a face for a few, and then add your face if someone is asking. This just keeps the seduction going, and you won’t have to worry about running into someone you recognize in the grocery store.
Especially if you reference where you live.
Get out the digital camera and start having fun with your partner. Setting it up on a tripod will be much easier than asking someone to take pictures for you or holding the camera yourself.
Get into some sexy poses and positions. Experiment with a few different kinds of lighting—candlelight, bright lights, and complete darkness all produce vastly different results.
And of course, if you don’t like the pictures, you can always delete them.
Wear some fun clothing or accessories.
Make sure that the picture is clear. This is the time to go for quality. Your pose doesn’t matter if they can’t tell what you are doing.
Being Upfront
Another part of a profile that will get you noticed is how honest you are. And how can someone tell that?
Be specific about your intentions for a swinging relationship. Is this a one time thing, or do you want to explore a longer adventure? Are you into any fetishes or roleplaying scenarios?
When you tell everything that is important to you, then you’ll get responses that suit your desires. And that’s the point.
It’s a pain to sort through a bunch of profiles that don’t meet your expectations. And you’ll get a vast assortment of replies if you don’t reveal the details of your swinging intent.
And you also don’t want to get together and whip out the handcuffs unexpectedly.
Have Fun With It
Your profile is a great way to show your personality and your fun to another person. And since they’ll just be reading it, you want to make sure that it sounds like someone that they would like to meet.
Be playful. Tease. You may find it easier to write something that is geared to your partner first, and then change it around to talk about finding someone else.
Add in details about things that you have done together or are looking to do.
Talk about your fantasies openly.
When you’re writing your profile, take your time to make sure that it talks about everything that you are and everything that you’re looking to experience.
You want to make sure that you are finding people that are compatible with you, but this will only happen if you say it right.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Julia Tanner
If you’ve signed up to be on an online dating site, your profile is what will give you all of the attention that you could ever want. And every site will tell you that there are certain things that other couples look for when choosing to contact someone.
The Pictures
Time and time again, sites and advice columns will tell you that your picture is the best way to get attention on a dating site.
Yes, this is the time to smile for the camera. Or you can just show off some of your ‘finer’ points for other couples.
I actually recommend a sultry pose without a face for a few, and then add your face if someone is asking. This just keeps the seduction going, and you won’t have to worry about running into someone you recognize in the grocery store.
Especially if you reference where you live.
Get out the digital camera and start having fun with your partner. Setting it up on a tripod will be much easier than asking someone to take pictures for you or holding the camera yourself.
Get into some sexy poses and positions. Experiment with a few different kinds of lighting—candlelight, bright lights, and complete darkness all produce vastly different results.
And of course, if you don’t like the pictures, you can always delete them.
Wear some fun clothing or accessories.
Make sure that the picture is clear. This is the time to go for quality. Your pose doesn’t matter if they can’t tell what you are doing.
Being Upfront
Another part of a profile that will get you noticed is how honest you are. And how can someone tell that?
Be specific about your intentions for a swinging relationship. Is this a one time thing, or do you want to explore a longer adventure? Are you into any fetishes or roleplaying scenarios?
When you tell everything that is important to you, then you’ll get responses that suit your desires. And that’s the point.
It’s a pain to sort through a bunch of profiles that don’t meet your expectations. And you’ll get a vast assortment of replies if you don’t reveal the details of your swinging intent.
And you also don’t want to get together and whip out the handcuffs unexpectedly.
Have Fun With It
Your profile is a great way to show your personality and your fun to another person. And since they’ll just be reading it, you want to make sure that it sounds like someone that they would like to meet.
Be playful. Tease. You may find it easier to write something that is geared to your partner first, and then change it around to talk about finding someone else.
Add in details about things that you have done together or are looking to do.
Talk about your fantasies openly.
When you’re writing your profile, take your time to make sure that it talks about everything that you are and everything that you’re looking to experience.
You want to make sure that you are finding people that are compatible with you, but this will only happen if you say it right.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Saturday, February 10, 2007
Seedy Overseas Sex Tourism, hitting Online Modeling and Talent Agencies!
Seedy Overseas Sex Tourism, hitting Online Modeling and Talent Agencies!
by: Sacreeta Veneficus
Sacreeta here, and no it’s not a joke..
There has been sex slave ring operators posting casting call ads on Online Modeling and Talent Agency Websites!
In regards to online casting, and the partaking in these sites. I just want everyone to tread with caution when transacting, as in posting, and submitting to auditions, on any online site. I will post a link at the bottom of this note, that no one should miss seeing.
There are not only potential scammers who are after your money posting on these sites, but also people who are out to do you physical harm. They are shopping for beautiful people to lure as escorts, or sell on the black market as sex slaves. Yes, that is happening across the United States. There are some warning signs we’ll explore in a minute..
But first, ask yourself this question.
What if someone’s child was next? Parents also go on these sites, post pictures, names, addresses of their children on these sites for all the strangers to view. If you know of any parents who post on these sites, please tip them off about what you are about to read.
Online casting sites have no powers that be, to guarantee your safety, other than post their own warnings to their actors to tread with caution, and they do their best to ensure the postings are legit. They are no more capable of tracking than a local news paper.
Regardless, like the rest of the world, there is a reality of danger there, and it is a potential problem. What better way for a con, to go shopping, than post a fake audition, sift through pictures, and pick the people they plan to sell. And on some of these sites, to gain attention, the women will upload inappropriate pictures of themselves. And it’s not rocket science folks, everyone knows a full body nude photo is not a HEAD shot, it is explained on ALL the sites what a headshot is, and a serious CD (casting) will only be interested in an 8'10 headshot only. The nude full body will certainly draw attention. But it makes one wonder, are they aware of what type of attention they will draw?
Kristin Stinar (KSTP Investigative Reporter) has been investigating a story about a ring who was posting fake casting call ads with an online modeling and talent agency, New Line Cinema. And she so far has covered two relating stories. Apparently one of the actors was from the Midwest, she had posted her resume and photo on the site, and thought the casting company seemed legitimate.
After a friendly invite by the casting company, she traveled to New York at her own expense, for the audition. She wasn’t familiar with the area, so she had, luckily for her quick thinking, invited a male employee from the hotel to accompany her. She really felt she needed a bodyguard, as she was uneasy being in a big city like New York all alone. She also, went to scope out the agency prior to her appointment with her male escort. (Lucky for her the employs from the hotel was a decent man—trusting a total stranger.. that’s another story now isn’t it?)
She arrived at her destination, and discovered it was in an industrial area, and the office was in fact a real estate office. (How many real-estate offices are located in an industrial area.. honestly?) And the people working the real estate office had never heard of the casting company, and had no idea what she was talking about. One thing she knew for sure, was that if she had gone on time, and alone.. she would have been in serious trouble. The logical conclusion to she, and Kristin Stinar, was that she was either going to be robbed, or killed, or kidnapped. She feels very strongly that because she brought a male escort, the kidnappers would have seen her from the parking lot, and changed their minds. It saved her life.
Later KSTP reporter Kristin Stinar investigated and found out the ad was placed by a person who posed as someone from New Line Cinema, and that the imposter worked for a “family business” that deals in white slavery. Stinar said she spoke to this person herself, and that the person admitted to using online modeling and talent agencies to lure young women to an “audition” site, where they’re kidnapped, stripped of their identification, and shipped overseas to work in the sex slave trade. The woman also told Kristin that she intended to use some of the women as escorts, and if they refused, she would to, sell them on the black-market as sex slaves.
Kristin Stinar also interviewed an actor from Connecticut, who also was lured to New York, by an online casting ad, to the same address. She to brought someone with her, and found nothing.
KRISTIN STINAR was also on The Big Idea with Donny Deutsch http://www.bigideadonny.com/ last week to tell about a sex slave ring that posted fake casting call ads on an online modeling and talent agency website. Appearing with her on the show was the actor mentioned above.
5 EYEWITNESS NEWS tracks sex slave ring across country.
Here is a link of a news broadcast, made by eye witness news, KRISTIN STINAR. Kudos to Kristin for her bravery in following this through, and I have no doubt it won’t be the last we’ll hear about it from her savvy reporting.
FYI-- This is very disturbing. I hope everyone on this network, passes this information along. Please, please, please, always use caution when answering to auditions in the news paper, or online. And always trust your instincts. I know it’s so hard to believe it, but no matter how badly you want to be a star, you’ll regret it if you let that excitement cloud your judgment.
In relating this story to you, there we find some things jumping off the page at me, and I hope they jumped off the page at you to.
Didn’t you think it was weird that she was getting an invitation to go from the Midwest, to New York for an audition? NY is congested with actors, agented and not, why would they solicit an actor from 100’s of miles away? Why wouldn’t they be using New York’s finest first?
That is a valid question, and there is a simple answer to that. New Yorkers (or even those from LA—big city) stick together, they know who’s who.. it would be too easy for the con to get caught, because the New Yorkers, or even from LA, would know too many legitimate people. Someone from out of town would have no way of knowing whose a somebody, and whose not.
Didn’t you think she was equally gullible to ask a total stranger from a hotel to accompany her, on a mission to a destination unknown, and unstable? Never pick an escort that you don’t know, or don’t trust. Let’s face it, she could have placed herself in a whole different scene of danger.
Once again, never go to an audition, photo session, or any interview that you are unsure of.. alone. Make sure someone can go with you, and if not make sure that your cell phone is fully charged, you have money for a cab incase your car breaks down, or the bus isn’t a quick enough escape route. Make sure someone who pays attention, knows when, and where you will be, and when you expect to be back.
If you are close to arriving to your audition, and the surroundings become dimmer by the moment, and you get that feeling that it’s just not all right. Turn around and go home, you are an actor, no one is more intone with your instincts than you are.. so listen to it! Missing out on an audition is well worth saving your life.
And one more thing. Any research you do on the net, will pull you in two split corners, and very aggressively I might add about online casting.
In the Left corner: Dead against online casting!
These sites see these companies as scavengers, scums, scam artists. They’ll tell you, REAL casting directors only go through their favorite agents, and legitimate actors. REAL CD’s don’t have time to waste sifting on the internet, through crappy photos, and unaccredited actors. You will also read repeatedly, that it is illegal for agencies in most states to charge a monthly fee, because in those states it’s illegal for agents to charge in advance for services, and can only be paid a standard 10% commission…after you get paid. (I have actually said that one myself.)
In the Right corner: Online casting companies.
First and Foremost. Online Casting Companies are not employment agencies, nor are they agents, or casting companies. These sites simply put, are trying to make a happy medium between union and non union film directors who can’t afford advertising. They claim they need to charge the actors to keep their sites going, and they claim they need to keep it free for the CD’s because the films that do get posted on their sites, have little to no funding. They provide a service to make it easier for actors to track down auditions when they have no agent.
At the end of the day, it’s up to the actor to do what they feel in their gutt is best. I have seen actors who’ve taken the Kamitic Acting system, connect with their inner instincts and develop a new confidence. The meditation classes, and truly getting in touch with your inner being, really has enhanced their acting abilities, and it has also sharpened their instincts. They also have grown to trust their judgment through the techniques in self awareness.
Surviving in this mad dog industry, takes gutts, and it takes instinct. As long as the actor is doing what’s right by them, and they are being cautious about transacting online, and not running silly with glittery eyes, than go and post my friends. It’s exposure! But for goodness sakes, be careful.. We all at the RKA Cinema Society, and no doubt the casting sites, do not want to ever hear of any actors, ever befalling victim to sex tourism.. or scams, nothing but good auditions, and great reviews for all.
Love to all—
Sacreeta
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Sacreeta Veneficus
Sacreeta here, and no it’s not a joke..
There has been sex slave ring operators posting casting call ads on Online Modeling and Talent Agency Websites!
In regards to online casting, and the partaking in these sites. I just want everyone to tread with caution when transacting, as in posting, and submitting to auditions, on any online site. I will post a link at the bottom of this note, that no one should miss seeing.
There are not only potential scammers who are after your money posting on these sites, but also people who are out to do you physical harm. They are shopping for beautiful people to lure as escorts, or sell on the black market as sex slaves. Yes, that is happening across the United States. There are some warning signs we’ll explore in a minute..
But first, ask yourself this question.
What if someone’s child was next? Parents also go on these sites, post pictures, names, addresses of their children on these sites for all the strangers to view. If you know of any parents who post on these sites, please tip them off about what you are about to read.
Online casting sites have no powers that be, to guarantee your safety, other than post their own warnings to their actors to tread with caution, and they do their best to ensure the postings are legit. They are no more capable of tracking than a local news paper.
Regardless, like the rest of the world, there is a reality of danger there, and it is a potential problem. What better way for a con, to go shopping, than post a fake audition, sift through pictures, and pick the people they plan to sell. And on some of these sites, to gain attention, the women will upload inappropriate pictures of themselves. And it’s not rocket science folks, everyone knows a full body nude photo is not a HEAD shot, it is explained on ALL the sites what a headshot is, and a serious CD (casting) will only be interested in an 8'10 headshot only. The nude full body will certainly draw attention. But it makes one wonder, are they aware of what type of attention they will draw?
Kristin Stinar (KSTP Investigative Reporter) has been investigating a story about a ring who was posting fake casting call ads with an online modeling and talent agency, New Line Cinema. And she so far has covered two relating stories. Apparently one of the actors was from the Midwest, she had posted her resume and photo on the site, and thought the casting company seemed legitimate.
After a friendly invite by the casting company, she traveled to New York at her own expense, for the audition. She wasn’t familiar with the area, so she had, luckily for her quick thinking, invited a male employee from the hotel to accompany her. She really felt she needed a bodyguard, as she was uneasy being in a big city like New York all alone. She also, went to scope out the agency prior to her appointment with her male escort. (Lucky for her the employs from the hotel was a decent man—trusting a total stranger.. that’s another story now isn’t it?)
She arrived at her destination, and discovered it was in an industrial area, and the office was in fact a real estate office. (How many real-estate offices are located in an industrial area.. honestly?) And the people working the real estate office had never heard of the casting company, and had no idea what she was talking about. One thing she knew for sure, was that if she had gone on time, and alone.. she would have been in serious trouble. The logical conclusion to she, and Kristin Stinar, was that she was either going to be robbed, or killed, or kidnapped. She feels very strongly that because she brought a male escort, the kidnappers would have seen her from the parking lot, and changed their minds. It saved her life.
Later KSTP reporter Kristin Stinar investigated and found out the ad was placed by a person who posed as someone from New Line Cinema, and that the imposter worked for a “family business” that deals in white slavery. Stinar said she spoke to this person herself, and that the person admitted to using online modeling and talent agencies to lure young women to an “audition” site, where they’re kidnapped, stripped of their identification, and shipped overseas to work in the sex slave trade. The woman also told Kristin that she intended to use some of the women as escorts, and if they refused, she would to, sell them on the black-market as sex slaves.
Kristin Stinar also interviewed an actor from Connecticut, who also was lured to New York, by an online casting ad, to the same address. She to brought someone with her, and found nothing.
KRISTIN STINAR was also on The Big Idea with Donny Deutsch http://www.bigideadonny.com/ last week to tell about a sex slave ring that posted fake casting call ads on an online modeling and talent agency website. Appearing with her on the show was the actor mentioned above.
5 EYEWITNESS NEWS tracks sex slave ring across country.
Here is a link of a news broadcast, made by eye witness news, KRISTIN STINAR. Kudos to Kristin for her bravery in following this through, and I have no doubt it won’t be the last we’ll hear about it from her savvy reporting.
FYI-- This is very disturbing. I hope everyone on this network, passes this information along. Please, please, please, always use caution when answering to auditions in the news paper, or online. And always trust your instincts. I know it’s so hard to believe it, but no matter how badly you want to be a star, you’ll regret it if you let that excitement cloud your judgment.
In relating this story to you, there we find some things jumping off the page at me, and I hope they jumped off the page at you to.
Didn’t you think it was weird that she was getting an invitation to go from the Midwest, to New York for an audition? NY is congested with actors, agented and not, why would they solicit an actor from 100’s of miles away? Why wouldn’t they be using New York’s finest first?
That is a valid question, and there is a simple answer to that. New Yorkers (or even those from LA—big city) stick together, they know who’s who.. it would be too easy for the con to get caught, because the New Yorkers, or even from LA, would know too many legitimate people. Someone from out of town would have no way of knowing whose a somebody, and whose not.
Didn’t you think she was equally gullible to ask a total stranger from a hotel to accompany her, on a mission to a destination unknown, and unstable? Never pick an escort that you don’t know, or don’t trust. Let’s face it, she could have placed herself in a whole different scene of danger.
Once again, never go to an audition, photo session, or any interview that you are unsure of.. alone. Make sure someone can go with you, and if not make sure that your cell phone is fully charged, you have money for a cab incase your car breaks down, or the bus isn’t a quick enough escape route. Make sure someone who pays attention, knows when, and where you will be, and when you expect to be back.
If you are close to arriving to your audition, and the surroundings become dimmer by the moment, and you get that feeling that it’s just not all right. Turn around and go home, you are an actor, no one is more intone with your instincts than you are.. so listen to it! Missing out on an audition is well worth saving your life.
And one more thing. Any research you do on the net, will pull you in two split corners, and very aggressively I might add about online casting.
In the Left corner: Dead against online casting!
These sites see these companies as scavengers, scums, scam artists. They’ll tell you, REAL casting directors only go through their favorite agents, and legitimate actors. REAL CD’s don’t have time to waste sifting on the internet, through crappy photos, and unaccredited actors. You will also read repeatedly, that it is illegal for agencies in most states to charge a monthly fee, because in those states it’s illegal for agents to charge in advance for services, and can only be paid a standard 10% commission…after you get paid. (I have actually said that one myself.)
In the Right corner: Online casting companies.
First and Foremost. Online Casting Companies are not employment agencies, nor are they agents, or casting companies. These sites simply put, are trying to make a happy medium between union and non union film directors who can’t afford advertising. They claim they need to charge the actors to keep their sites going, and they claim they need to keep it free for the CD’s because the films that do get posted on their sites, have little to no funding. They provide a service to make it easier for actors to track down auditions when they have no agent.
At the end of the day, it’s up to the actor to do what they feel in their gutt is best. I have seen actors who’ve taken the Kamitic Acting system, connect with their inner instincts and develop a new confidence. The meditation classes, and truly getting in touch with your inner being, really has enhanced their acting abilities, and it has also sharpened their instincts. They also have grown to trust their judgment through the techniques in self awareness.
Surviving in this mad dog industry, takes gutts, and it takes instinct. As long as the actor is doing what’s right by them, and they are being cautious about transacting online, and not running silly with glittery eyes, than go and post my friends. It’s exposure! But for goodness sakes, be careful.. We all at the RKA Cinema Society, and no doubt the casting sites, do not want to ever hear of any actors, ever befalling victim to sex tourism.. or scams, nothing but good auditions, and great reviews for all.
Love to all—
Sacreeta
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Tuesday, February 06, 2007
Adult Personals – Fulfilling Your Fantasies
Adult Personals – Fulfilling Your Fantasies Through Adult Dating Websites
by: James Hall
People are talking about adult personals. There's no doubt about it. As regular dating sites are seen as too tame to meet their adventurous needs people are posting adult personals through adult dating websites. Every day thousands of people seeking alternative lifestyles write uncensored adult personals ads. Adult dating websites offers an enticing adult dating community where you are free to share and explore your wildest fantasies.
Imagine browsing through adult photo galleries of handsome men and beautiful women of every size and shape – just waiting to respond to your adult personals. There are many adult dating websites that have 100% free trials with no credit card or payment required to register.
In fact, adult personals are extremely steamy and attention grabbing. Upon entering an adult dating website you will find all types of adult personals. The website designs' are user-friendly so that you can find your preferences whether its swingers personals, married personals, interracial personals, gay personals or BBW personals.
The opportunities offered by adult dating websites includes video chat rooms with sizzling video clips or watch 24hr live webcams of attractive people whose attire leaves little to the imagination. Plus, you can play interactive games or find out about the hottest adult parties and events in your area.
Some of the top adult dating websites are Yahoo adult personals and Adult Friend Finder personals. In the exciting world of adult personals, people are often looking for discreet local relationships.
But before you jump into the world of adult personals or brave the gates of any adult dating website, you should have a healthy self-image and a sense of self-liberation. What's more, the adult dating sites contain mature material, pictures and contents for individuals seeking alternative encounters.
Like happiness, prosperity, love and fulfillment, we all seek to achieve our outmost desires. Adult personals and adult dating website have found a niche by creating an environment where every desire can achieve satisfaction. With so much to gain, it's worth at least a free look, isn't it? You bet it is!
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: James Hall
People are talking about adult personals. There's no doubt about it. As regular dating sites are seen as too tame to meet their adventurous needs people are posting adult personals through adult dating websites. Every day thousands of people seeking alternative lifestyles write uncensored adult personals ads. Adult dating websites offers an enticing adult dating community where you are free to share and explore your wildest fantasies.
Imagine browsing through adult photo galleries of handsome men and beautiful women of every size and shape – just waiting to respond to your adult personals. There are many adult dating websites that have 100% free trials with no credit card or payment required to register.
In fact, adult personals are extremely steamy and attention grabbing. Upon entering an adult dating website you will find all types of adult personals. The website designs' are user-friendly so that you can find your preferences whether its swingers personals, married personals, interracial personals, gay personals or BBW personals.
The opportunities offered by adult dating websites includes video chat rooms with sizzling video clips or watch 24hr live webcams of attractive people whose attire leaves little to the imagination. Plus, you can play interactive games or find out about the hottest adult parties and events in your area.
Some of the top adult dating websites are Yahoo adult personals and Adult Friend Finder personals. In the exciting world of adult personals, people are often looking for discreet local relationships.
But before you jump into the world of adult personals or brave the gates of any adult dating website, you should have a healthy self-image and a sense of self-liberation. What's more, the adult dating sites contain mature material, pictures and contents for individuals seeking alternative encounters.
Like happiness, prosperity, love and fulfillment, we all seek to achieve our outmost desires. Adult personals and adult dating website have found a niche by creating an environment where every desire can achieve satisfaction. With so much to gain, it's worth at least a free look, isn't it? You bet it is!
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Thursday, February 01, 2007
Perversion Or Thrilling Sexual Experience?
Dogging: Perversion Or Thrilling Sexual Experience?
Author: Irene Thebeauty
Today the whole Europe including the UK seems to be affected by dogging. Under cover of night hundreds of pairs go to beaches, parks and car parks to have public sex and be watched by voyeurs. Both the "actors" and the audience enjoy the show. Usually the participants aren't familiar with each other. Sometimes viewers join the orgy. After the orgy is over they go away and most probably won't ever see each other again.
What doggers engage in seems to be a naughty sexual action lacking any human being emotions. But many people are so much thrilled by orgy outdoors that dogging may be compared with drug addiction. According to Collin Wilson, sexologist, a person at a dogging party goes beyond any limits of sexual freedom and looses his or her human self. In former times, Wilson says, only the dirtiest porn movies could show orgies in semi-public places. Wilson considers dogging the last straw, the point at which total degradation starts.
Many concerns are caused by the fact that doggers often choose the most beautiful historical monuments. Kent County experiences a wild outburst of dogging and local newspapers are full of reports about orgies that happen there every night. Legally, dogging is still a gray area. Though doggers are supposed to meet in secluded places other people, especially families with children, do not feel fully protected from witnessing a dogging scene when going to a nearest forest or park for picnic. Instead of catching thieves, policemen have to patrol car parks and other semi-public locations in order to clear dogging fans away. Even not talking about a danger of sexually transmitted diseases, all mentioned above is enough to raise indignation towards dogging in the society.
Lots of sites advertising dogging and swinging events that appeared in the Internet in a few past years cause a great concern among dogging antagonists. The sites contain detailed dogging parties descriptions written by the participants. Also they contain plenty of information on dogging locations. The sites often allow free access to site forums and chat where one can talk with real swingers and doggers and thus learn about upcoming swinging and dogging parties and popular dogging locations. Some dogging sites support more than one language contributing to interracial and intercultural sexual encounters.
Despite all these concerns more and more people are getting engaged into dogging. Every night they go to dogging locations, some only to watch couples having sex in cars and others in hope to be invited to join. Isn't it interesting to what kind of people do doggers belong? A dogger's portray seems to be similar in both Britain and other European countries. This is how a Spanish dogging site ("cancaneo" is a Spanish word for "dogging") depicts it: "Doggers are usually couples in their 30s - 50s looking for adventures, while voyeurs are mature middle-class men, most of them are married." It becomes evident from all info on doggers that can be found in the Internet that in the daytime they do not differ much from those objecting dogging. They have a certain social status as well and many of them are parents. Thus there must be something in a dogging action that attracts people so much.
A German journalist is sharing her impressions of a dogging party she observed in Berlin suburbs. "A few men in cars came to the location where the dogging party was going to be held. The location had been previously arranged via the Internet. They were waiting for a couple that was going to put on a show that day."
"Soon I understood what they all had been expecting", - the journalist says, - "A young and sexy woman together with a handsome man appeared at the lawn. They were in the center of car lights so everybody could see them very well. The couple started fore playing: they were kissing and petting each other. They took each other's clothing off and threw it to the ground. Then the man lied on his back and the woman sat on him. One of the viewers came out of a car and approached the horny couple that even added more thrill to the action. The woman was rhythmically moving on the man and the spectators were observing the couple having intercourse. Then another voyeur came closer. The viewers were getting more and more aroused; I noticed that some men were wanking. I felt so strange. I was getting aroused too, but it was weird that something other than sex with my boyfriend was causing such reactions in me. When the intercourse was over everyone left the dogging location without saying a word."
The journalist adds that even porn video had never affected her so much as the dogging scene did.
Experienced doggers say that a live dogging show is far superior to any porn video. A dogging site's old member compares dogging with drug addiction: "If you ever watch a dogging performance your legs will bring you to the nearest car park next evening to see it again."
As we have seen opinions differ very much. Though there are serious concerns about dogging in the society it seems that in the future more sexually adventurous enthusiasts will be attracted by orgies outdoors.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Author: Irene Thebeauty
Today the whole Europe including the UK seems to be affected by dogging. Under cover of night hundreds of pairs go to beaches, parks and car parks to have public sex and be watched by voyeurs. Both the "actors" and the audience enjoy the show. Usually the participants aren't familiar with each other. Sometimes viewers join the orgy. After the orgy is over they go away and most probably won't ever see each other again.
What doggers engage in seems to be a naughty sexual action lacking any human being emotions. But many people are so much thrilled by orgy outdoors that dogging may be compared with drug addiction. According to Collin Wilson, sexologist, a person at a dogging party goes beyond any limits of sexual freedom and looses his or her human self. In former times, Wilson says, only the dirtiest porn movies could show orgies in semi-public places. Wilson considers dogging the last straw, the point at which total degradation starts.
Many concerns are caused by the fact that doggers often choose the most beautiful historical monuments. Kent County experiences a wild outburst of dogging and local newspapers are full of reports about orgies that happen there every night. Legally, dogging is still a gray area. Though doggers are supposed to meet in secluded places other people, especially families with children, do not feel fully protected from witnessing a dogging scene when going to a nearest forest or park for picnic. Instead of catching thieves, policemen have to patrol car parks and other semi-public locations in order to clear dogging fans away. Even not talking about a danger of sexually transmitted diseases, all mentioned above is enough to raise indignation towards dogging in the society.
Lots of sites advertising dogging and swinging events that appeared in the Internet in a few past years cause a great concern among dogging antagonists. The sites contain detailed dogging parties descriptions written by the participants. Also they contain plenty of information on dogging locations. The sites often allow free access to site forums and chat where one can talk with real swingers and doggers and thus learn about upcoming swinging and dogging parties and popular dogging locations. Some dogging sites support more than one language contributing to interracial and intercultural sexual encounters.
Despite all these concerns more and more people are getting engaged into dogging. Every night they go to dogging locations, some only to watch couples having sex in cars and others in hope to be invited to join. Isn't it interesting to what kind of people do doggers belong? A dogger's portray seems to be similar in both Britain and other European countries. This is how a Spanish dogging site ("cancaneo" is a Spanish word for "dogging") depicts it: "Doggers are usually couples in their 30s - 50s looking for adventures, while voyeurs are mature middle-class men, most of them are married." It becomes evident from all info on doggers that can be found in the Internet that in the daytime they do not differ much from those objecting dogging. They have a certain social status as well and many of them are parents. Thus there must be something in a dogging action that attracts people so much.
A German journalist is sharing her impressions of a dogging party she observed in Berlin suburbs. "A few men in cars came to the location where the dogging party was going to be held. The location had been previously arranged via the Internet. They were waiting for a couple that was going to put on a show that day."
"Soon I understood what they all had been expecting", - the journalist says, - "A young and sexy woman together with a handsome man appeared at the lawn. They were in the center of car lights so everybody could see them very well. The couple started fore playing: they were kissing and petting each other. They took each other's clothing off and threw it to the ground. Then the man lied on his back and the woman sat on him. One of the viewers came out of a car and approached the horny couple that even added more thrill to the action. The woman was rhythmically moving on the man and the spectators were observing the couple having intercourse. Then another voyeur came closer. The viewers were getting more and more aroused; I noticed that some men were wanking. I felt so strange. I was getting aroused too, but it was weird that something other than sex with my boyfriend was causing such reactions in me. When the intercourse was over everyone left the dogging location without saying a word."
The journalist adds that even porn video had never affected her so much as the dogging scene did.
Experienced doggers say that a live dogging show is far superior to any porn video. A dogging site's old member compares dogging with drug addiction: "If you ever watch a dogging performance your legs will bring you to the nearest car park next evening to see it again."
As we have seen opinions differ very much. Though there are serious concerns about dogging in the society it seems that in the future more sexually adventurous enthusiasts will be attracted by orgies outdoors.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Thursday, January 25, 2007
Does a sexy and feminine woman make men crazy and wild?
Does a sexy and feminine woman make men crazy and wild?
by: Py Kim Conant
As part of my research, I asked both men and women what makes a woman feminine and sexy. I simply asked respondents what they felt made a woman feminine and sexy.
Here are some of their responses:
“She is receptive to a man’s suggestions and plans.”
“The flirting, the teasing, the suggestion.”
“She is comfortable being sexually provocative in her appearance.”
“She falls in love with me after she has a huge orgasm.”
“She is outrageous and sexy on the outside and inside.”
“She isn’t afraid of public affection.”
“She has a voyeuristic side to her.”
“She uses a few explicit words in the heat of passion.”
“She knows what pleases a man and herself.”
“She has a way of carrying herself.”
“She drips with sexuality.”
“She smells good, looks good, and sounds good.”
“She is appreciative of whatever I do.”
“It’s her way of talking to you or looking at you.”
“It’s her smile.”
“She uses her eyes to connect to you.”
“She shows her emotions.”
“She has poise.”
“She laughs freely and loudly and enjoys life.”
“She satisfies her man’s fantasies.”
“She accepts me for who I am.”
“She doesn’t take life too seriously.”
“She’s a little bit playful.”
“She is confident in her beauty.”
“She is beautiful and exciting to look at.”
“She is a ferocious feline in bed.”
“She tells me what she likes [sexually].”
“She screams [during sex].”
“She gets excited [sexually].”
“She never pushes me away [sexually].”
“She never uses sex for power.”
“She is shy and naïve outside; inside, she has a huge sexual desire.”
“She is sexual, sensual, and erotic.”
“Her clothing slightly reveals some of her body.”
“She gives a hint of what lies underneath her clothes.”
“She is smolderingly sexy, but always classy, in public.”
“She is responsive to the slightest touch.”
“She easily reaches multiple orgasms.”
“She is extremely oral, both giving and receiving.”
“She has highly responsive nipples.”
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Py Kim Conant
As part of my research, I asked both men and women what makes a woman feminine and sexy. I simply asked respondents what they felt made a woman feminine and sexy.
Here are some of their responses:
“She is receptive to a man’s suggestions and plans.”
“The flirting, the teasing, the suggestion.”
“She is comfortable being sexually provocative in her appearance.”
“She falls in love with me after she has a huge orgasm.”
“She is outrageous and sexy on the outside and inside.”
“She isn’t afraid of public affection.”
“She has a voyeuristic side to her.”
“She uses a few explicit words in the heat of passion.”
“She knows what pleases a man and herself.”
“She has a way of carrying herself.”
“She drips with sexuality.”
“She smells good, looks good, and sounds good.”
“She is appreciative of whatever I do.”
“It’s her way of talking to you or looking at you.”
“It’s her smile.”
“She uses her eyes to connect to you.”
“She shows her emotions.”
“She has poise.”
“She laughs freely and loudly and enjoys life.”
“She satisfies her man’s fantasies.”
“She accepts me for who I am.”
“She doesn’t take life too seriously.”
“She’s a little bit playful.”
“She is confident in her beauty.”
“She is beautiful and exciting to look at.”
“She is a ferocious feline in bed.”
“She tells me what she likes [sexually].”
“She screams [during sex].”
“She gets excited [sexually].”
“She never pushes me away [sexually].”
“She never uses sex for power.”
“She is shy and naïve outside; inside, she has a huge sexual desire.”
“She is sexual, sensual, and erotic.”
“Her clothing slightly reveals some of her body.”
“She gives a hint of what lies underneath her clothes.”
“She is smolderingly sexy, but always classy, in public.”
“She is responsive to the slightest touch.”
“She easily reaches multiple orgasms.”
“She is extremely oral, both giving and receiving.”
“She has highly responsive nipples.”
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Tuesday, January 23, 2007
Sex and Swinging
Sex and Swinging
By: MN Nikk
Swinging has simply got to be one of the ultimate dreams of many men and not a few women. Although three may seem like a crowd, even the idea of going to bed with two women at once is enough to send the blood rushing to the pelvic area in any healthy man. Watching two women make out before joining in must be one of the oldest fantasies that men like to indulge in, while some women dream of having two guys at their beck and call, thus being absolutely sure they won’t leave the bed unsatisfied.
Swinging can be a nice fantasy for some and a true lifestyle for others, depending upon the personal preferences. Some people are quite content with the monogamous life, but are curious about the alternatives and willing to step over the line a little to see what the other side has to offer. Other people are just interested in getting laid with more than one lady at the same time, especially if their lover happens to have a hot friend that might be inclined to join in for a threesome. Some couples have turned swinging into a lifestyle and are inviting others to join them on a regular basis.
The best thing about group sex is the fact that satisfaction is almost guaranteed, that is if you don’t mind performing in front of other people. Even better: you get to choose. You are no longer limited to a single woman but to two or more, depending on how many are present. And, if you are really into experimenting, you may even consider trying sex with another man. Over the past couple of years, homosexual experiences have become more and more common among the hipster urban crowd. It’s all up to you and your lady’s preferences.
On the other hand, swinging is not without risk. It can place an additional stress on a relationship when one of the partners is far more attracted to swinging that the other. It may also reveal tendencies that some people find disturbing, mainly because having a threesome with the same partners again and again may turn a couple into a “ménage à trois”. It dramatically raises the risk of catching STIs, since you simply have to trust other people to be just as careful as you are. You may also run into people who are less interested in free sex and more interested in, say, blackmail or locating your valuables. Or who play rougher than you would like.
The most important thing is to come up with a set of reasons and rules. First, you must know why you’re doing it. It may be just short-term curiosity, it may be a fantasy or you may be aspiring to a different lifestyle. Whatever it is, you should take a good look inside and see why you want to do it. Second, you must have some rules about what’s acceptable and what’s not. You must know where to draw the line and what kind of sex you’re willing to accept. And third, you should always pay attention to health issues. Diseases are definitely not sexy.
If you want to learn about even more ways to spice up your sex life then Lovecentria™ has exactly what you need to really boost your sex life. It’s got all the content, features and advice that you need to explore more exciting sex. For more information, visit LoveCentria.com.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
By: MN Nikk
Swinging has simply got to be one of the ultimate dreams of many men and not a few women. Although three may seem like a crowd, even the idea of going to bed with two women at once is enough to send the blood rushing to the pelvic area in any healthy man. Watching two women make out before joining in must be one of the oldest fantasies that men like to indulge in, while some women dream of having two guys at their beck and call, thus being absolutely sure they won’t leave the bed unsatisfied.
Swinging can be a nice fantasy for some and a true lifestyle for others, depending upon the personal preferences. Some people are quite content with the monogamous life, but are curious about the alternatives and willing to step over the line a little to see what the other side has to offer. Other people are just interested in getting laid with more than one lady at the same time, especially if their lover happens to have a hot friend that might be inclined to join in for a threesome. Some couples have turned swinging into a lifestyle and are inviting others to join them on a regular basis.
The best thing about group sex is the fact that satisfaction is almost guaranteed, that is if you don’t mind performing in front of other people. Even better: you get to choose. You are no longer limited to a single woman but to two or more, depending on how many are present. And, if you are really into experimenting, you may even consider trying sex with another man. Over the past couple of years, homosexual experiences have become more and more common among the hipster urban crowd. It’s all up to you and your lady’s preferences.
On the other hand, swinging is not without risk. It can place an additional stress on a relationship when one of the partners is far more attracted to swinging that the other. It may also reveal tendencies that some people find disturbing, mainly because having a threesome with the same partners again and again may turn a couple into a “ménage à trois”. It dramatically raises the risk of catching STIs, since you simply have to trust other people to be just as careful as you are. You may also run into people who are less interested in free sex and more interested in, say, blackmail or locating your valuables. Or who play rougher than you would like.
The most important thing is to come up with a set of reasons and rules. First, you must know why you’re doing it. It may be just short-term curiosity, it may be a fantasy or you may be aspiring to a different lifestyle. Whatever it is, you should take a good look inside and see why you want to do it. Second, you must have some rules about what’s acceptable and what’s not. You must know where to draw the line and what kind of sex you’re willing to accept. And third, you should always pay attention to health issues. Diseases are definitely not sexy.
If you want to learn about even more ways to spice up your sex life then Lovecentria™ has exactly what you need to really boost your sex life. It’s got all the content, features and advice that you need to explore more exciting sex. For more information, visit LoveCentria.com.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Monday, January 22, 2007
Find your Sexual Partners Via Adult Dating Sites
Find your Sexual Partners Via Adult Dating Sites
By: Irene Thebeauty
Here you will find some important tips you need to know before you start.
The Internet has become the best source to explore the sexual lifestyles of thousands of people and find like-minded people with similar interests. However an incredible number of adult sites makes it pretty difficult to choose the one that meets your needs the best.
Here are some tips on how to save your time and money when choosing the right site and how to attract more Internet adult community members.
It is crucial to choose sites with the largest amount of members in your area. Otherwise you have low chances to be able to arrange a real date with somebody you will find. Isn't that your final goal?
Do not waste time on sites with a limited number of ways to search people.
It's better to deal with sites that offer extensive search options. Here you may look for partners focusing on their special characteristics such as height, physical features, ethnicity, sexual preferences and even... oops, cock/breast size!
You need to register on a site in order to be able to communicate with other adult singles. As a rule there are 2 options for you to get a membership on an adult site. Free membership allows you only basic searches (upon such parameters as gender and country, sometimes age) but viewing full profiles or initiating contact are usually only available to fully subscribed members. Subscribed membership usually provides you with a larger number of valuable options. It enables you to use chat rooms, discussion boards, internal IM systems etc. The best sites are those that allow you alive communication with other members. Before you pay make sure that the site uses a secure payment system that is well known and reliable. Protect yourself from phishing!
After you've found the most suitable site for you, the next step is the creation of your profile.
This is an easy sign-up process and it is a crucial part of the whole experience. Your profile forms part of your marketing campaign and the more attention you pay to it the more successful you are likely to be.
First, choose your target audience. Are you interested in couples, groups, transvestites...? Whatever your sexual preferences, if you are looking for a casual friend to swing with, swinging couples, transvestites, she-males, gays or just adult personals, you will be sure to find someone with whom to indulge your wildest fantasies. So be specific when stating in your profile what you're looking for.
The effectiveness of you profile depends on how you describe yourself.
Remember the golden rule "more info - more feedback". Write about your sexual preferences honestly and mention details that may generate members' interest.
"Is honesty the best policy? I think it probably is. I'm a married man who is not getting anywhere near enough sex", says one of the adult community members. "I'm interested in meeting singles of either sex or couples, mixed or single sex, for hot steamy sex. I'm well endowed and a long stayer. I love giving oral and will take it too. I'm willing to try anything except pain." This guy knows what he wants and he will definitely get more replies than an ordinary "Hey! I need someone to get laid with!"
Remember that photo/video is a must for an adult site. Profiles without photos get fewer responses. You may put more than just a facial photo on the site as part of your profile but a sexy or even nude photo is totally acceptable too. Pictures are the most interest-generating part of your profile!
Beware of time wasters! Some people create free accounts on adult sites with the intention of merely having some fun and aren't really prepared to engage in an actual sexual encounter. Others get into adult communities in order to promote other web sites via spam letters. Often fake profiles with extremely beautiful photos are created on sites so take your time as you would in real life and get to know who you are dealing with. Sometimes bogus profiles are created by webmasters to pad the membership numbers. You don't want to deal with such time wasters.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
By: Irene Thebeauty
Here you will find some important tips you need to know before you start.
The Internet has become the best source to explore the sexual lifestyles of thousands of people and find like-minded people with similar interests. However an incredible number of adult sites makes it pretty difficult to choose the one that meets your needs the best.
Here are some tips on how to save your time and money when choosing the right site and how to attract more Internet adult community members.
It is crucial to choose sites with the largest amount of members in your area. Otherwise you have low chances to be able to arrange a real date with somebody you will find. Isn't that your final goal?
Do not waste time on sites with a limited number of ways to search people.
It's better to deal with sites that offer extensive search options. Here you may look for partners focusing on their special characteristics such as height, physical features, ethnicity, sexual preferences and even... oops, cock/breast size!
You need to register on a site in order to be able to communicate with other adult singles. As a rule there are 2 options for you to get a membership on an adult site. Free membership allows you only basic searches (upon such parameters as gender and country, sometimes age) but viewing full profiles or initiating contact are usually only available to fully subscribed members. Subscribed membership usually provides you with a larger number of valuable options. It enables you to use chat rooms, discussion boards, internal IM systems etc. The best sites are those that allow you alive communication with other members. Before you pay make sure that the site uses a secure payment system that is well known and reliable. Protect yourself from phishing!
After you've found the most suitable site for you, the next step is the creation of your profile.
This is an easy sign-up process and it is a crucial part of the whole experience. Your profile forms part of your marketing campaign and the more attention you pay to it the more successful you are likely to be.
First, choose your target audience. Are you interested in couples, groups, transvestites...? Whatever your sexual preferences, if you are looking for a casual friend to swing with, swinging couples, transvestites, she-males, gays or just adult personals, you will be sure to find someone with whom to indulge your wildest fantasies. So be specific when stating in your profile what you're looking for.
The effectiveness of you profile depends on how you describe yourself.
Remember the golden rule "more info - more feedback". Write about your sexual preferences honestly and mention details that may generate members' interest.
"Is honesty the best policy? I think it probably is. I'm a married man who is not getting anywhere near enough sex", says one of the adult community members. "I'm interested in meeting singles of either sex or couples, mixed or single sex, for hot steamy sex. I'm well endowed and a long stayer. I love giving oral and will take it too. I'm willing to try anything except pain." This guy knows what he wants and he will definitely get more replies than an ordinary "Hey! I need someone to get laid with!"
Remember that photo/video is a must for an adult site. Profiles without photos get fewer responses. You may put more than just a facial photo on the site as part of your profile but a sexy or even nude photo is totally acceptable too. Pictures are the most interest-generating part of your profile!
Beware of time wasters! Some people create free accounts on adult sites with the intention of merely having some fun and aren't really prepared to engage in an actual sexual encounter. Others get into adult communities in order to promote other web sites via spam letters. Often fake profiles with extremely beautiful photos are created on sites so take your time as you would in real life and get to know who you are dealing with. Sometimes bogus profiles are created by webmasters to pad the membership numbers. You don't want to deal with such time wasters.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Saturday, January 20, 2007
What are Swinging Clubs?
What are Swinging Clubs?
by: Julia Tanner
When being on the computer just doesn’t do enough for you, then you may want to venture out of the house and find some swinging in person. Unfortunately, not every city has a swingers club. But there are ways to find out who’s in the scene, and where you can go. You’d be surprised how much you can find when you ask.
Finding your swinging environment
The Internet has become the easiest way to find swinging resources in your local community. You can go into any search engine and find whatever you pleasure is. Actually, you may want to get specific as to your fetishes and fantasies. Why not find EXACTLY what you’re looking for?
Once you’ve gotten a list of clubs and other swinging locales, then you want to grab your partner and make some phone calls. You need to know what to expect and get all of your personal questions answers. And interestingly enough, a lot of clubs will want to talk to the both of you to see what your intentions are and what their rules state. Many clubs only accept married couples, for example.
A lot of beginning couples will also want to ask if the environment is no-pressure or not. You don’t want to be too overwhelmed at first. And if the phone call is difficult or you realize that you’re having trouble communicating, then you may realize that you’re not ready.
But let’s say that you are.
What to expect
All swinging clubs are different and have different rules. You want to find out ahead of time what the dress code is and if there’s anything that isn’t allowed. Men will usually want to avoid jeans and sneakers, while women want to dress to thrill. Be sure to bring your identification with you as well.
Some clubs have theme nights and women can have a good time matching their outfits to these fun and creative nights.
Once you’re in, each club is different. If you’re in a pressure-free club, then you can pretty much do whatever feels right to you. Maybe you just want to watch the ‘festivities’ for the evening. Maybe you want to participate. Just don’t feel like you have to.
Something to remember
If you feel pressured, then you’re in a bad situation. You want to have fun your first few times in a swingers club, and then take baby steps to the next, even more hot and exciting level. Being talked into something that you don’t want to do is not sexy and makes for uncomfortable next mornings. If you don’t want to do something, then say so. No one should question that or make you feel bad for saying no.
Most swinging clubs are very good at helping you with any questions that you might have and have employees available if you’re just not sure about something. If you’re ready to try swinging, then this can be a great way to meet other couples with the same interests and within a safe and supportive environment.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Julia Tanner
When being on the computer just doesn’t do enough for you, then you may want to venture out of the house and find some swinging in person. Unfortunately, not every city has a swingers club. But there are ways to find out who’s in the scene, and where you can go. You’d be surprised how much you can find when you ask.
Finding your swinging environment
The Internet has become the easiest way to find swinging resources in your local community. You can go into any search engine and find whatever you pleasure is. Actually, you may want to get specific as to your fetishes and fantasies. Why not find EXACTLY what you’re looking for?
Once you’ve gotten a list of clubs and other swinging locales, then you want to grab your partner and make some phone calls. You need to know what to expect and get all of your personal questions answers. And interestingly enough, a lot of clubs will want to talk to the both of you to see what your intentions are and what their rules state. Many clubs only accept married couples, for example.
A lot of beginning couples will also want to ask if the environment is no-pressure or not. You don’t want to be too overwhelmed at first. And if the phone call is difficult or you realize that you’re having trouble communicating, then you may realize that you’re not ready.
But let’s say that you are.
What to expect
All swinging clubs are different and have different rules. You want to find out ahead of time what the dress code is and if there’s anything that isn’t allowed. Men will usually want to avoid jeans and sneakers, while women want to dress to thrill. Be sure to bring your identification with you as well.
Some clubs have theme nights and women can have a good time matching their outfits to these fun and creative nights.
Once you’re in, each club is different. If you’re in a pressure-free club, then you can pretty much do whatever feels right to you. Maybe you just want to watch the ‘festivities’ for the evening. Maybe you want to participate. Just don’t feel like you have to.
Something to remember
If you feel pressured, then you’re in a bad situation. You want to have fun your first few times in a swingers club, and then take baby steps to the next, even more hot and exciting level. Being talked into something that you don’t want to do is not sexy and makes for uncomfortable next mornings. If you don’t want to do something, then say so. No one should question that or make you feel bad for saying no.
Most swinging clubs are very good at helping you with any questions that you might have and have employees available if you’re just not sure about something. If you’re ready to try swinging, then this can be a great way to meet other couples with the same interests and within a safe and supportive environment.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Friday, January 19, 2007
Every Girls Guide To Confidence and Self Esteem
Every Girls Guide To Confidence and Self Esteem
by: Adryenn Ashley
Remember Teri Hatcher doing those impossible splits right on the studio floor on Oprah? Or Carmen Electra positively gushing about what exotic dance has done for her body and bedroom tactics? A large number of celebrities have recently taken to a sexy alternative to working out, from pole vaulting they have leapt straight to pole dancing at the S Factor. And they aren’t stopping at pole-dancing, our celebrity pin-up girls have been everywhere and done everything, from Strip-Aerobics to Exotic Dance Work Outs, the motto this season is ‘Everything sexy goes’!
If all this sudden gush for sex is making you blush, you go ahead and click your tongue and hang your head in shame, no one will begrudge you. “SEX SELLS” and we are being sold it morning, noon and night through every possible channel. It screams at you from gigantic billboards featuring gorgeous demi-love-gods, pierces into your fantasy’s through the television and fondles your imagination with semi-naked bodies scattered all over the net. Living in the USA is in itself like one giant, prolonged orgasm…and as a woman you are expected to idolize those models and endeavor to look like one.
Sure you wanna be Carrie from ‘Sex and the City’ and moan and groan and roll around on your bed with a different guy every night, seven nights a week turning your life into a series of fantastic sexual escapades….but you’ll snap out of it, after all life is not a TV show, and learning how to embrace your sexuality takes time and effort.
In America amongst the glamour of the TV shows and the supposed sexual abandonment, the skin and the G-Strings, we women have to deal with mixed messages, guilt trips, religious dogma, body image, and misinformation. Sure getting your hymen snapped by 16 is a must, but so is regretting doing it by 25. Beneath all our external frills, getting laid is an issue we women deal with badly.
The concept of ‘Positive Sex’ is an idea not many of us have managed to fathom yet. Fornication is still, essentially a male domain, where we women participate like whimpering goats, hesitating and interestingly enough feeling insecure about our role in it all.
A majority of women I know swear by making love in the dark. ‘It’s romantic’ they coo when I ask them the point of that. Here’s what I KNOW, most of us are ashamed of our body. Nudity is a concept we haven’t been taught to handle well. Seeing ourselves naked freaks us out, and knowing that someone else is watching us naked, desiring our body for itself, brings to life our worst fears. This is the gaze our parents warned us against, this is what Church lessons have told us to avoid. So off goes the light, plunging everything, from ourselves, to that desirous gaze, to our insecurities, into comforting darkness.
The truth is that the darkness serves as a warm invitation to what Susan Bremer calls our ‘Shadow” side. ‘Every woman wants to take a trip to their wild side” she explains, ‘We all yearn to seduce. But we’ve been told over and over again that to rejoice in our body is immoral, yet the wish to feel powerful in our sensuality, to express our sexuality remains.” Susan, a proud ‘Gentleman club’ dancer considers her sexual prowess to be her way of establishing her role in a world hounded by men. “When I’m at work,” she says “I’m surrounded by men in coats and ties — bosses and underlings, jocks and nerds. All of them are the kinds of men who made me feel small. But now I can reduce the top dog to a lapdog by staring at him, opening my top, and smiling”.
This sense of power probably needs some delving into. As women all of us suffer from our own insecurities. It’s a cliché by now but we all know that the world belongs to the testosterone thugs. They keep us down everywhere, be it in our boardroom or our bedroom. And slowly we grow used to being kept down, such that we soon we are conditioned to not reversing the situation at all.
A positive sex-image, whether you use it or not, can and will alter all this most miraculously. Your sexual achievements in the bedroom can give you the kind of omnipotent confidence which oozes out from your personal to public sphere. For any woman with low self-esteem, the act of embracing your sexuality serves as a miracle tool for believing that she can have that effect on other people, in a non-sexual environment too.
The thing is, much as we try to shake it off, we are all sexual beings, sex is important to us and it has the power to make us feel good. 65% of women in the US do not, at their heart of hearts, take this idea seriously. Good sex and an attempt to have good sex for them is still a nudge-nudge-whisper-whisper issue. This attitude gets transferred from them to their kids and grandkids and so on, such that each generation of these young women grow up with the idea that every time they are making love they ought to feel guilty about it. This mystifying of the subject is harmful for a lot of reasons. For starters it gives us a lifelong baggage of guilt, every time we think about sex, every time we fantasize or our hands itch to masturbate we feel like a criminal. The constant feeling that sex is wrong or dirty leads to a negative self-image as a person. That misinformation means that when we are in the act it can be hard to enjoy it, leading to severe sexual frustration, not a feeling you’d like to carry around with you.
This discussion might go on and on, because of our trouble to face the fact that we like getting laid. But let’s just say, it all has a very easy solution. Get in to your sexiest lacy underwear, devote tonight to unleashing the temptress in you and for once really enjoy it without hang-ups. You will like the results tomorrow morning.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Adryenn Ashley
Remember Teri Hatcher doing those impossible splits right on the studio floor on Oprah? Or Carmen Electra positively gushing about what exotic dance has done for her body and bedroom tactics? A large number of celebrities have recently taken to a sexy alternative to working out, from pole vaulting they have leapt straight to pole dancing at the S Factor. And they aren’t stopping at pole-dancing, our celebrity pin-up girls have been everywhere and done everything, from Strip-Aerobics to Exotic Dance Work Outs, the motto this season is ‘Everything sexy goes’!
If all this sudden gush for sex is making you blush, you go ahead and click your tongue and hang your head in shame, no one will begrudge you. “SEX SELLS” and we are being sold it morning, noon and night through every possible channel. It screams at you from gigantic billboards featuring gorgeous demi-love-gods, pierces into your fantasy’s through the television and fondles your imagination with semi-naked bodies scattered all over the net. Living in the USA is in itself like one giant, prolonged orgasm…and as a woman you are expected to idolize those models and endeavor to look like one.
Sure you wanna be Carrie from ‘Sex and the City’ and moan and groan and roll around on your bed with a different guy every night, seven nights a week turning your life into a series of fantastic sexual escapades….but you’ll snap out of it, after all life is not a TV show, and learning how to embrace your sexuality takes time and effort.
In America amongst the glamour of the TV shows and the supposed sexual abandonment, the skin and the G-Strings, we women have to deal with mixed messages, guilt trips, religious dogma, body image, and misinformation. Sure getting your hymen snapped by 16 is a must, but so is regretting doing it by 25. Beneath all our external frills, getting laid is an issue we women deal with badly.
The concept of ‘Positive Sex’ is an idea not many of us have managed to fathom yet. Fornication is still, essentially a male domain, where we women participate like whimpering goats, hesitating and interestingly enough feeling insecure about our role in it all.
A majority of women I know swear by making love in the dark. ‘It’s romantic’ they coo when I ask them the point of that. Here’s what I KNOW, most of us are ashamed of our body. Nudity is a concept we haven’t been taught to handle well. Seeing ourselves naked freaks us out, and knowing that someone else is watching us naked, desiring our body for itself, brings to life our worst fears. This is the gaze our parents warned us against, this is what Church lessons have told us to avoid. So off goes the light, plunging everything, from ourselves, to that desirous gaze, to our insecurities, into comforting darkness.
The truth is that the darkness serves as a warm invitation to what Susan Bremer calls our ‘Shadow” side. ‘Every woman wants to take a trip to their wild side” she explains, ‘We all yearn to seduce. But we’ve been told over and over again that to rejoice in our body is immoral, yet the wish to feel powerful in our sensuality, to express our sexuality remains.” Susan, a proud ‘Gentleman club’ dancer considers her sexual prowess to be her way of establishing her role in a world hounded by men. “When I’m at work,” she says “I’m surrounded by men in coats and ties — bosses and underlings, jocks and nerds. All of them are the kinds of men who made me feel small. But now I can reduce the top dog to a lapdog by staring at him, opening my top, and smiling”.
This sense of power probably needs some delving into. As women all of us suffer from our own insecurities. It’s a cliché by now but we all know that the world belongs to the testosterone thugs. They keep us down everywhere, be it in our boardroom or our bedroom. And slowly we grow used to being kept down, such that we soon we are conditioned to not reversing the situation at all.
A positive sex-image, whether you use it or not, can and will alter all this most miraculously. Your sexual achievements in the bedroom can give you the kind of omnipotent confidence which oozes out from your personal to public sphere. For any woman with low self-esteem, the act of embracing your sexuality serves as a miracle tool for believing that she can have that effect on other people, in a non-sexual environment too.
The thing is, much as we try to shake it off, we are all sexual beings, sex is important to us and it has the power to make us feel good. 65% of women in the US do not, at their heart of hearts, take this idea seriously. Good sex and an attempt to have good sex for them is still a nudge-nudge-whisper-whisper issue. This attitude gets transferred from them to their kids and grandkids and so on, such that each generation of these young women grow up with the idea that every time they are making love they ought to feel guilty about it. This mystifying of the subject is harmful for a lot of reasons. For starters it gives us a lifelong baggage of guilt, every time we think about sex, every time we fantasize or our hands itch to masturbate we feel like a criminal. The constant feeling that sex is wrong or dirty leads to a negative self-image as a person. That misinformation means that when we are in the act it can be hard to enjoy it, leading to severe sexual frustration, not a feeling you’d like to carry around with you.
This discussion might go on and on, because of our trouble to face the fact that we like getting laid. But let’s just say, it all has a very easy solution. Get in to your sexiest lacy underwear, devote tonight to unleashing the temptress in you and for once really enjoy it without hang-ups. You will like the results tomorrow morning.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Thursday, January 18, 2007
Swingers And Body Image
Swingers And Body Image
By: Julia Tanner
Although UK swinging couples are out there, so are many others. But how can you meet everyone without spending millions of dollars trekking around the world?
Enter the invention of the Internet.
Online Dating And You
If the prospect of meeting someone online is foreign to you, then you must not have looked too hard before.
There are hundreds and thousands of dating services online that bring together all kinds of couples: Christian, Jewish, homosexual, bisexual, fetish, and yes, even UK swinging couples.
Just type in what you’re looking for and you’re sure to find a site that suits you.
What To Look For In A Site
When it comes to finding a good site, you need to look at the overall appearance of the front page. Is it crowded, is it hard to navigate?
If you’re going to be spending a lot of time on the site talking to other couples, then you need to be able to find your way around. And you need to be able to look at it—bright colors can hurt the head after a while.
Are there people or a good question page to help you if you have things that you don’t know? Many times you will be paying to be a member on the site, so in order to get your money’s worth, you want to make sure that you can use it the way that you would like to.
And this means having the help when you need it.
Profiles
When it comes to creating your profile, you want to start off with a good picture. Get out your digital camera and have some fun. You and your partner can dim the lights, set up a tripod and just let the camera catch what it will.
And the more provocative the pictures, the more couples that will be interested—trust me.
Be honest in your profile about what you’re looking for in a swinger relationship. This is not the time to tell someone what you think they might like to hear.
You want some fantasies fulfilled, right? Well, you’re going to need to be clear about those.
And if a couple you’re talking to isn’t interested, just move on. Oh, the beauty of the anonymous Internet. Don’t use your name at first to protect your identity.
Once you’ve got a good profile up, you can start contacting profiles that you find interesting, or just sit back and wait for others to contact you.
Try a little of both.
How To Get To Know Each Other
Asking a lot of questions is a great way to start the ball rolling on the swinger dating site. You can talk via e-mail, or by video camera in a lot of cases.
Video is much more fun and you can see body language too.
Share your fantasies and your expectations for the relationship. You want to be absolutely clear about your intentions so no one has the wrong idea, and there aren’t any surprises along the way.
That’s all for now.
So in the meantime – Happy Swinging!
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
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By: Julia Tanner
Although UK swinging couples are out there, so are many others. But how can you meet everyone without spending millions of dollars trekking around the world?
Enter the invention of the Internet.
Online Dating And You
If the prospect of meeting someone online is foreign to you, then you must not have looked too hard before.
There are hundreds and thousands of dating services online that bring together all kinds of couples: Christian, Jewish, homosexual, bisexual, fetish, and yes, even UK swinging couples.
Just type in what you’re looking for and you’re sure to find a site that suits you.
What To Look For In A Site
When it comes to finding a good site, you need to look at the overall appearance of the front page. Is it crowded, is it hard to navigate?
If you’re going to be spending a lot of time on the site talking to other couples, then you need to be able to find your way around. And you need to be able to look at it—bright colors can hurt the head after a while.
Are there people or a good question page to help you if you have things that you don’t know? Many times you will be paying to be a member on the site, so in order to get your money’s worth, you want to make sure that you can use it the way that you would like to.
And this means having the help when you need it.
Profiles
When it comes to creating your profile, you want to start off with a good picture. Get out your digital camera and have some fun. You and your partner can dim the lights, set up a tripod and just let the camera catch what it will.
And the more provocative the pictures, the more couples that will be interested—trust me.
Be honest in your profile about what you’re looking for in a swinger relationship. This is not the time to tell someone what you think they might like to hear.
You want some fantasies fulfilled, right? Well, you’re going to need to be clear about those.
And if a couple you’re talking to isn’t interested, just move on. Oh, the beauty of the anonymous Internet. Don’t use your name at first to protect your identity.
Once you’ve got a good profile up, you can start contacting profiles that you find interesting, or just sit back and wait for others to contact you.
Try a little of both.
How To Get To Know Each Other
Asking a lot of questions is a great way to start the ball rolling on the swinger dating site. You can talk via e-mail, or by video camera in a lot of cases.
Video is much more fun and you can see body language too.
Share your fantasies and your expectations for the relationship. You want to be absolutely clear about your intentions so no one has the wrong idea, and there aren’t any surprises along the way.
That’s all for now.
So in the meantime – Happy Swinging!
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
쓨柪쏠ᦃ남ᥤ痠²M
Ć
Ƞ”Ƞ”逈ᨪ
Ć
Ć♐柫헨ᦘ뽀ᨘ閸᧻Ć쒨柪횠ᦘ샸ᨘ᧵
했ᦘ閨᧻섰ᨘĆ䦸᧕䦸᧕᪘ᨙƈ”꺸ᧉĆ솨ᧉᧉ
횘ᨬ
”ćɈ”Ɉ”횘ᨬ
Ǹ” ĆĆ쒨柪
䦸᧕䦸᧕᪘ᨙƈ”꺸ᧉĆ솨ᧉᧉ
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