Have A Boring Sex Life?

As a swinger, I get to chat to many folks about sex. The interesting thing is that a lot of folks I chat with inform me that they believe others are enjoying a much better sex life than they are. Usually they say that their sex life is very boring and there is no excitement. The longer the folks has been together the less exciting their sex seems. Naturally, there are people that have a great sex life and have been together forever. These couples are rare in my experience and usually swingers.

A study recently discovered that after a couple of years of marriage, the wife's interest in sex had shrunk fifty percent. There was also a major decline in intercourse.

What can one implement to heat up ones sex life?

First: Spouse bonding. Women usually enjoy this style of sex. The emotional relating with your partner is the most important. Usually, partners when they first were in lust have a lot of spouse connection in sex. Eye gazing, touchy feely and fluids flowing and the sex is really fantastic! It just flows and there is lots of hugging, kissing and foreplay.

So how do you get more of this fun sex with your lover. One idea in sex to get more out of this concept is to keep your eyes open while having sex. You will find most couples don't even look at their partner. Eyes unite us and get the sexual juices flowing. for the more adventurous, I recommend opening your eyes while you orgasm. Men find this to be a challenge yet you can do it!

Second: Sex is like a trance. With this idea you go inwards and is all about ones sexual fantasies, sexual feelings or a sex dream. Your eye lids are shut as the sexual connection with your spouse is not necessary. Men like to visualize sex in their minds.

I had a partner who liked to go into another world. I just felt I like a taxi driver taking her to her sexual fantasies. Since I didn't get to join her sexual adventure, I didn't feel sexually satisfied. Touching her was one method that I found frustrating. I told her this and she did starting me also.

Third: Sexual Role Play. This is a lot of fun. You can act out a sexual fantasy or become a sexual healer or doctor. You could be an animal. Bondage falls into this version of sex play. This is usually more challenging for folks. However sexual role playing can really rev up your sex experiences.

Fourth: Swinging (my favorite) Swinging is the most exciting sex I have ever experienced! There is nothing like "strange" to get the juices really flowing. However, swinging is only for couples who are very secure in their relationship. If you are looking to swinging to save your marriage, forget it! It is way too dangerous for couples in trouble. Swinging is only for viable for great partnership who are looking to share sex with others and enjoy their partner having sex with others. If you want to check out the swinging world go to our Swinger Sites Reviews site. There you will find our favorite sites for swinging.

If your sex is boring, and you are really committed. Ask your sexual partner to try something new. Try having your partner take the sexual lead in this adventure. Sexual experimenting can be fun, enjoy yourself!

Ray Taylor
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Soft Swinging

If you believe that you get excited by the thought of swinging, just wait until you try it. Imaging does not the same as swinging —only the real thing will truly make you a believer.

You might know, soft swinging is the first go at swapping for lots of people. Therefore, you may already have done so soft swapping without even knowing it.

One might have a too many beers, got a little naughty with someone's spouse. And you knew damn that it wasn't about love or cheating on your spouse, it was about sexual lust - swinging.

Maybe she/he felt just right or they were wearing a great outfit that turned you on…

Swapping Should Occur Spontaneously

The lighting is down. You're at a get together with your spouse and you've go different ways for a second. You're very aware of where your spouse is, but you just let situation take you. The two of you have already talked about swinging before.

Let's see where the swapping situation might take you.

A small touch, a stroke of their arm. It could just be a slow kiss. Your eyes close and you sink into the swinging moment.

What if you see your spouse over in the corner?

It's amazingly exciting to see your spouse with another, even tho it's 'just playing' to start. To see body parts that have touched will send chills running down someone else's skin and that can be a sexual turn on.

Watching can be a great way to begin soft swapping. It's a great way to put yourself into soft swinging.

You might just needed a little 'stimulation' to get going.

What If You Want To Plan Some Swapping?

One might have already decided that 'soft swinging' might just happen one night. You've chatted about it for a while, when the talk turns to swapping sex.

Planning ahead doesn't make it any less amazing or exciting.

It might start with a sensual massage of your feet and then move into the naughty areas.

Now it is up to you. Don't hold back; lots of people, 1 in 5, has tried swinging sex.

Now you can go back to your old days and just kiss and make out, or you can go to sexual groping and strokes. Checking out a new new person's body, how do they smell and feel? What makes them a change from your spouse

Keep it slow at first because you're just getting started, just teasing the other person at this moment. One wants to keep them aroused and ready for the next swinging time.

Your pulse is racing and your mind can wait for the next swinging meeting.

Please go slowly. Always wanting more from the soft swinging episode is a great idea and one wants to make sure that one is completely at ease before upping the level of swapping sexual intensity.

Slow soft swinging is great because one gets to go home and finish off the sexual excitement started by the soft swinging at the party. Soft swing can be the most fun one can have with their clothes on!

Ray

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