The Male G-Spot A Golden Nugget
by: Terrance Lile (Uncle Terry)
In an episode of the animated sitcom Family Guy, Peter has a checkup by Doctor Hartman and receives a prostate exam. The exam was not what he expected and he thought that he was being raped. The episode was hilarious to some, disgusting to others and yet to others it pointed out the importance of prostate health. For many men their only experience with their own prostate has been this exam. In truth, the discovery of this hidden golden nugget often referred to as the “Male G-Spot,” is highly rewarding and stimulating once a man can get over his hang-up of being touched in that area.
For centuries the elusive female G-spot has made its way into our sex lives. For most couples, the man has always put attention on the woman’s erogenous zone, hoping to strike gold at some point during the act. Of course this makes most partners weak in the knees, if the infamous spot is found. As a result, the woman is pleased until orgasm and wants to return the favor. Ironically, the majority of men flinch, perhaps thinking about a prostate exam or tar instead of mining for gold at the mention of their own G-spot being stimulated. Unless the man is willing to charter unknown territory, the butt area is usually off limits.
For most men, the prostate gland, also known as the male’s G-spot, is often a touchy subject. For many men, even touching near the anus may make them question their sexual orientation. Anal sex is neither a gay nor straight activity, it is a stimulating sexual activity that can be enjoyed by all. At Ask Uncle Terry men will email us about their hang-ups with anal sex. Many of these men find the idea of it scary or even repulsive. However, we also hear from men that had their prostate stimulated for the first time and many report that they experienced an intensified orgasm like never before. Once it is tried, chances are the man will look forward with great anticipation to the next visit. Best of all a stimulated prostate is a healthier prostate.
For women who do not know where the g-spot is located, the prostate gland is a small gland located between the testicles and the anus. It is actually within the perineum, which means that when you rub this gland, it will make men moan with excitement. When inserting a finger or a sex toy into the anus, this gland can be stimulated until orgasm is reached. Although orgasm can be reached in dozens of different ways, this kind of stimulation is much more intense and overwhelming.
If you build up the courage to try this new sexcapade, or your partner is willing to dive right in, be sure to use an ample amount of water-based lubricant. For long nails, cleanliness, or if you are not in a monogamous relationship, or there is any question as to STDs or HIV a glove or condom should first be placed over the fingers. Once you are ready, your partner should cover their finger in the lubricant and slowly insert it into your anus. The prostate is about two inches upward and forward. If the man is a little squeamish the finger does not have to be fully inserted. The area around the opening of the anus is full of nerve endings and provides stimulating sensation on its own. Although the sensation may feel strange, it will become more intense as your partner starts to feel around.
In order to increase your desire and anticipation, your partner should very slowly insert their finger or toy allowing the sphincter muscle to relax. This will not only avoid discomfort, it will also allow you to enjoy the moment. Once that golden nugget “G-spot” is located, you will be shocked to realize what you have been missing out on all of these years! It is often an incredible feeling, far more intense than any other sexual position.
If you are still wary of even asking your partner to act so kinky, you can have them just rub the outside of your anus. Even by touching it lightly, your nerve endings are still stimulated. For men, their genitals and the overall region are extremely sensitive, thus resulting in mind boggling convulsions that could last for minutes.
Regardless of how embarrassed or nervous you are, it is actually exciting to go outside of the box and try something new. Far too often men are too worried about being laughed at to try something so kinky and taboo in today’s society. However, if you have an open-minded partner and stop caring about other people’s perceptions, you can easily enjoy the secret side of sex.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Monday, February 26, 2007
Friday, February 23, 2007
If You Want to be Discreet when Swinging
If You Want to be Discreet when Swinging
by: Julia Tanner
Of course, after you’ve tried a little swinging, you may want to share your amazing experiences with everyone you know. Unfortunately, not everyone will be as open as you. If you work in a conservative environment, or just want to maintain a little anonymity, then there are several ways to go about it.
If you’re going to clubs…
One of the main reasons that a lot of beginning swingers try out clubs is that there is a certain safety in numbers. If you’re there and they’re there, then you both are embracing swinging as a lifestyle or a fascination. And you are both in the same boat of wanting to have a great experience (or experiences) without feeling like your privacy has been invaded. Too much.
Another great aspect of a dark, smoky club is that many of the times; names are not exchanged, so you can have a wonderful time without even knowing who you were with. This might sound impersonal, but it’s a safety feature that’s built in. You might find that being anonymous is highly erotic and satisfying when you’re in the club situation. And you also won’t worry about running into anyone later with an awkward silence about who knows who.
Maybe you’ll see someone at the local grocery store. Just nod, smile, and keep moving to the milk section. Keep your name for a while until you feel that there’s a special connection between you and another couple or person. You want to take your time to feel trust and security within your swinging group. And if you find someone that you like?
Meeting with another couple in a public place at first will help you determine if you’re all ready to trust each other. Meet in a non-sexual environment to see how you interact before you jump into bed (or other places) with each other.
When you’re online…
With swinging dating services now available at the touch of a keyboard, you are launched into the faceless world of online dating. But this can be a great start for a new swinger. Not only can you choose whether or not to reveal your name and picture, but you can also take your time in determining if a person is right for you. You can ask questions over the secure servers available, or email anonymously.
Using one of those free email accounts is best. Keep this playtime separate.
And if you’re not sure about a person, it’s a lot easier to cut it off before you would ever meet. There are also safety monitors on many of the swingers dating sites, so if you feel that someone is being menacing or just plain creepy—report them. You could be saving someone else some trouble.
A final note…
Unfortunately, not everyone understands the joys of swinging, or they only want to live out their fantasies, but dismiss yours. Stalkers are a very real problem, so protecting your personal information until you are absolutely sure about someone is important.
Don’t give out your name, where you work, where you live, or any other identifiable information.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Julia Tanner
Of course, after you’ve tried a little swinging, you may want to share your amazing experiences with everyone you know. Unfortunately, not everyone will be as open as you. If you work in a conservative environment, or just want to maintain a little anonymity, then there are several ways to go about it.
If you’re going to clubs…
One of the main reasons that a lot of beginning swingers try out clubs is that there is a certain safety in numbers. If you’re there and they’re there, then you both are embracing swinging as a lifestyle or a fascination. And you are both in the same boat of wanting to have a great experience (or experiences) without feeling like your privacy has been invaded. Too much.
Another great aspect of a dark, smoky club is that many of the times; names are not exchanged, so you can have a wonderful time without even knowing who you were with. This might sound impersonal, but it’s a safety feature that’s built in. You might find that being anonymous is highly erotic and satisfying when you’re in the club situation. And you also won’t worry about running into anyone later with an awkward silence about who knows who.
Maybe you’ll see someone at the local grocery store. Just nod, smile, and keep moving to the milk section. Keep your name for a while until you feel that there’s a special connection between you and another couple or person. You want to take your time to feel trust and security within your swinging group. And if you find someone that you like?
Meeting with another couple in a public place at first will help you determine if you’re all ready to trust each other. Meet in a non-sexual environment to see how you interact before you jump into bed (or other places) with each other.
When you’re online…
With swinging dating services now available at the touch of a keyboard, you are launched into the faceless world of online dating. But this can be a great start for a new swinger. Not only can you choose whether or not to reveal your name and picture, but you can also take your time in determining if a person is right for you. You can ask questions over the secure servers available, or email anonymously.
Using one of those free email accounts is best. Keep this playtime separate.
And if you’re not sure about a person, it’s a lot easier to cut it off before you would ever meet. There are also safety monitors on many of the swingers dating sites, so if you feel that someone is being menacing or just plain creepy—report them. You could be saving someone else some trouble.
A final note…
Unfortunately, not everyone understands the joys of swinging, or they only want to live out their fantasies, but dismiss yours. Stalkers are a very real problem, so protecting your personal information until you are absolutely sure about someone is important.
Don’t give out your name, where you work, where you live, or any other identifiable information.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Tuesday, February 20, 2007
Just Want To Watch?
Just Want To Watch?
by: Julia Tanner
If you’ve ever caught someone in the act, then you’ve certainly felt a little warmer in that moment. You thought about being there, and feeling what they were feeling.
Just talking about it makes me all excited.
So when you’re swinging, what about looking at the scenery? Well, that certainly has its place as well.
Opening Your Eyes
When you’re first in a swinging situation, you may feel almost too aroused to do anything but watch. For the first few times I was with my partner, we just looked at the other couple in awe. For one, we were in awe of their openness. And for two, we were excited to see someone else being pleasured.
Just when you think you’re not turned on by something, then you try it and realize, wow, that’s amazing.
I think that many people feel ashamed to say that they like to watch others have sex or touch each other. And why should we? It’s a completely natural act. And how empowering is it to be absolutely comfortable to watch someone else?
Very.
Will The Other Couple Mind?
If it’s just you two and another couple, then you may want to broach the subject ahead of time. And if they say that it’s okay, then you can feel completely comfortable to watch them in action.
You may also feel aroused and follow suit, or pleasure yourself as you watch. Again, clear this with them ahead of time.
Most couples won’t mind if you ask.
And if you’re in a swingers club, it’s almost guaranteed that you’re going to be seen if you start anything, so it’s a free for all for voyeurs.
Remembering to blink may be hard though.
What If We’re Asked To Perform?
Think of being the subject of a fantasy as being in your favourite erotic movie and you are the stars.
Forget about who is watching and let the moment take you and your partner to ecstasy. Pleasure him or her as you normally would. Touch their skin, feel their thighs, slowly tease the sighs out.
If you really want to make an impression, open your eyes and look to the other couple. Let them know how much this turns you on, and how wonderful something feels.
Why Do You Look?
Looking at difference shapes of bodies is intriguing. And in a comfortable setting, you will see that it really isn’t the size that matters, but the confidence of the person.
Women aren’t judged by their weight and men aren’t seen for the length of their penis. Men aren’t counting another man’s abs, and women aren’t considering the bounce of the breasts.
You look because you’re curious, but you continue looking because you can see the beauty in everyone.
In most cases, looking will only satisfy so much and you will want to be the ones looked at. And that is completely natural and enthralling. Knowing that someone is watching you and getting pleasure from it can turn an ordinary moment into an erotic scene.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Julia Tanner
If you’ve ever caught someone in the act, then you’ve certainly felt a little warmer in that moment. You thought about being there, and feeling what they were feeling.
Just talking about it makes me all excited.
So when you’re swinging, what about looking at the scenery? Well, that certainly has its place as well.
Opening Your Eyes
When you’re first in a swinging situation, you may feel almost too aroused to do anything but watch. For the first few times I was with my partner, we just looked at the other couple in awe. For one, we were in awe of their openness. And for two, we were excited to see someone else being pleasured.
Just when you think you’re not turned on by something, then you try it and realize, wow, that’s amazing.
I think that many people feel ashamed to say that they like to watch others have sex or touch each other. And why should we? It’s a completely natural act. And how empowering is it to be absolutely comfortable to watch someone else?
Very.
Will The Other Couple Mind?
If it’s just you two and another couple, then you may want to broach the subject ahead of time. And if they say that it’s okay, then you can feel completely comfortable to watch them in action.
You may also feel aroused and follow suit, or pleasure yourself as you watch. Again, clear this with them ahead of time.
Most couples won’t mind if you ask.
And if you’re in a swingers club, it’s almost guaranteed that you’re going to be seen if you start anything, so it’s a free for all for voyeurs.
Remembering to blink may be hard though.
What If We’re Asked To Perform?
Think of being the subject of a fantasy as being in your favourite erotic movie and you are the stars.
Forget about who is watching and let the moment take you and your partner to ecstasy. Pleasure him or her as you normally would. Touch their skin, feel their thighs, slowly tease the sighs out.
If you really want to make an impression, open your eyes and look to the other couple. Let them know how much this turns you on, and how wonderful something feels.
Why Do You Look?
Looking at difference shapes of bodies is intriguing. And in a comfortable setting, you will see that it really isn’t the size that matters, but the confidence of the person.
Women aren’t judged by their weight and men aren’t seen for the length of their penis. Men aren’t counting another man’s abs, and women aren’t considering the bounce of the breasts.
You look because you’re curious, but you continue looking because you can see the beauty in everyone.
In most cases, looking will only satisfy so much and you will want to be the ones looked at. And that is completely natural and enthralling. Knowing that someone is watching you and getting pleasure from it can turn an ordinary moment into an erotic scene.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Thursday, February 15, 2007
Swinger Profiles That Get Noticed
Swinger Profiles That Get Noticed
by: Julia Tanner
If you’ve signed up to be on an online dating site, your profile is what will give you all of the attention that you could ever want. And every site will tell you that there are certain things that other couples look for when choosing to contact someone.
The Pictures
Time and time again, sites and advice columns will tell you that your picture is the best way to get attention on a dating site.
Yes, this is the time to smile for the camera. Or you can just show off some of your ‘finer’ points for other couples.
I actually recommend a sultry pose without a face for a few, and then add your face if someone is asking. This just keeps the seduction going, and you won’t have to worry about running into someone you recognize in the grocery store.
Especially if you reference where you live.
Get out the digital camera and start having fun with your partner. Setting it up on a tripod will be much easier than asking someone to take pictures for you or holding the camera yourself.
Get into some sexy poses and positions. Experiment with a few different kinds of lighting—candlelight, bright lights, and complete darkness all produce vastly different results.
And of course, if you don’t like the pictures, you can always delete them.
Wear some fun clothing or accessories.
Make sure that the picture is clear. This is the time to go for quality. Your pose doesn’t matter if they can’t tell what you are doing.
Being Upfront
Another part of a profile that will get you noticed is how honest you are. And how can someone tell that?
Be specific about your intentions for a swinging relationship. Is this a one time thing, or do you want to explore a longer adventure? Are you into any fetishes or roleplaying scenarios?
When you tell everything that is important to you, then you’ll get responses that suit your desires. And that’s the point.
It’s a pain to sort through a bunch of profiles that don’t meet your expectations. And you’ll get a vast assortment of replies if you don’t reveal the details of your swinging intent.
And you also don’t want to get together and whip out the handcuffs unexpectedly.
Have Fun With It
Your profile is a great way to show your personality and your fun to another person. And since they’ll just be reading it, you want to make sure that it sounds like someone that they would like to meet.
Be playful. Tease. You may find it easier to write something that is geared to your partner first, and then change it around to talk about finding someone else.
Add in details about things that you have done together or are looking to do.
Talk about your fantasies openly.
When you’re writing your profile, take your time to make sure that it talks about everything that you are and everything that you’re looking to experience.
You want to make sure that you are finding people that are compatible with you, but this will only happen if you say it right.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Julia Tanner
If you’ve signed up to be on an online dating site, your profile is what will give you all of the attention that you could ever want. And every site will tell you that there are certain things that other couples look for when choosing to contact someone.
The Pictures
Time and time again, sites and advice columns will tell you that your picture is the best way to get attention on a dating site.
Yes, this is the time to smile for the camera. Or you can just show off some of your ‘finer’ points for other couples.
I actually recommend a sultry pose without a face for a few, and then add your face if someone is asking. This just keeps the seduction going, and you won’t have to worry about running into someone you recognize in the grocery store.
Especially if you reference where you live.
Get out the digital camera and start having fun with your partner. Setting it up on a tripod will be much easier than asking someone to take pictures for you or holding the camera yourself.
Get into some sexy poses and positions. Experiment with a few different kinds of lighting—candlelight, bright lights, and complete darkness all produce vastly different results.
And of course, if you don’t like the pictures, you can always delete them.
Wear some fun clothing or accessories.
Make sure that the picture is clear. This is the time to go for quality. Your pose doesn’t matter if they can’t tell what you are doing.
Being Upfront
Another part of a profile that will get you noticed is how honest you are. And how can someone tell that?
Be specific about your intentions for a swinging relationship. Is this a one time thing, or do you want to explore a longer adventure? Are you into any fetishes or roleplaying scenarios?
When you tell everything that is important to you, then you’ll get responses that suit your desires. And that’s the point.
It’s a pain to sort through a bunch of profiles that don’t meet your expectations. And you’ll get a vast assortment of replies if you don’t reveal the details of your swinging intent.
And you also don’t want to get together and whip out the handcuffs unexpectedly.
Have Fun With It
Your profile is a great way to show your personality and your fun to another person. And since they’ll just be reading it, you want to make sure that it sounds like someone that they would like to meet.
Be playful. Tease. You may find it easier to write something that is geared to your partner first, and then change it around to talk about finding someone else.
Add in details about things that you have done together or are looking to do.
Talk about your fantasies openly.
When you’re writing your profile, take your time to make sure that it talks about everything that you are and everything that you’re looking to experience.
You want to make sure that you are finding people that are compatible with you, but this will only happen if you say it right.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Saturday, February 10, 2007
Seedy Overseas Sex Tourism, hitting Online Modeling and Talent Agencies!
Seedy Overseas Sex Tourism, hitting Online Modeling and Talent Agencies!
by: Sacreeta Veneficus
Sacreeta here, and no it’s not a joke..
There has been sex slave ring operators posting casting call ads on Online Modeling and Talent Agency Websites!
In regards to online casting, and the partaking in these sites. I just want everyone to tread with caution when transacting, as in posting, and submitting to auditions, on any online site. I will post a link at the bottom of this note, that no one should miss seeing.
There are not only potential scammers who are after your money posting on these sites, but also people who are out to do you physical harm. They are shopping for beautiful people to lure as escorts, or sell on the black market as sex slaves. Yes, that is happening across the United States. There are some warning signs we’ll explore in a minute..
But first, ask yourself this question.
What if someone’s child was next? Parents also go on these sites, post pictures, names, addresses of their children on these sites for all the strangers to view. If you know of any parents who post on these sites, please tip them off about what you are about to read.
Online casting sites have no powers that be, to guarantee your safety, other than post their own warnings to their actors to tread with caution, and they do their best to ensure the postings are legit. They are no more capable of tracking than a local news paper.
Regardless, like the rest of the world, there is a reality of danger there, and it is a potential problem. What better way for a con, to go shopping, than post a fake audition, sift through pictures, and pick the people they plan to sell. And on some of these sites, to gain attention, the women will upload inappropriate pictures of themselves. And it’s not rocket science folks, everyone knows a full body nude photo is not a HEAD shot, it is explained on ALL the sites what a headshot is, and a serious CD (casting) will only be interested in an 8'10 headshot only. The nude full body will certainly draw attention. But it makes one wonder, are they aware of what type of attention they will draw?
Kristin Stinar (KSTP Investigative Reporter) has been investigating a story about a ring who was posting fake casting call ads with an online modeling and talent agency, New Line Cinema. And she so far has covered two relating stories. Apparently one of the actors was from the Midwest, she had posted her resume and photo on the site, and thought the casting company seemed legitimate.
After a friendly invite by the casting company, she traveled to New York at her own expense, for the audition. She wasn’t familiar with the area, so she had, luckily for her quick thinking, invited a male employee from the hotel to accompany her. She really felt she needed a bodyguard, as she was uneasy being in a big city like New York all alone. She also, went to scope out the agency prior to her appointment with her male escort. (Lucky for her the employs from the hotel was a decent man—trusting a total stranger.. that’s another story now isn’t it?)
She arrived at her destination, and discovered it was in an industrial area, and the office was in fact a real estate office. (How many real-estate offices are located in an industrial area.. honestly?) And the people working the real estate office had never heard of the casting company, and had no idea what she was talking about. One thing she knew for sure, was that if she had gone on time, and alone.. she would have been in serious trouble. The logical conclusion to she, and Kristin Stinar, was that she was either going to be robbed, or killed, or kidnapped. She feels very strongly that because she brought a male escort, the kidnappers would have seen her from the parking lot, and changed their minds. It saved her life.
Later KSTP reporter Kristin Stinar investigated and found out the ad was placed by a person who posed as someone from New Line Cinema, and that the imposter worked for a “family business” that deals in white slavery. Stinar said she spoke to this person herself, and that the person admitted to using online modeling and talent agencies to lure young women to an “audition” site, where they’re kidnapped, stripped of their identification, and shipped overseas to work in the sex slave trade. The woman also told Kristin that she intended to use some of the women as escorts, and if they refused, she would to, sell them on the black-market as sex slaves.
Kristin Stinar also interviewed an actor from Connecticut, who also was lured to New York, by an online casting ad, to the same address. She to brought someone with her, and found nothing.
KRISTIN STINAR was also on The Big Idea with Donny Deutsch http://www.bigideadonny.com/ last week to tell about a sex slave ring that posted fake casting call ads on an online modeling and talent agency website. Appearing with her on the show was the actor mentioned above.
5 EYEWITNESS NEWS tracks sex slave ring across country.
Here is a link of a news broadcast, made by eye witness news, KRISTIN STINAR. Kudos to Kristin for her bravery in following this through, and I have no doubt it won’t be the last we’ll hear about it from her savvy reporting.
FYI-- This is very disturbing. I hope everyone on this network, passes this information along. Please, please, please, always use caution when answering to auditions in the news paper, or online. And always trust your instincts. I know it’s so hard to believe it, but no matter how badly you want to be a star, you’ll regret it if you let that excitement cloud your judgment.
In relating this story to you, there we find some things jumping off the page at me, and I hope they jumped off the page at you to.
Didn’t you think it was weird that she was getting an invitation to go from the Midwest, to New York for an audition? NY is congested with actors, agented and not, why would they solicit an actor from 100’s of miles away? Why wouldn’t they be using New York’s finest first?
That is a valid question, and there is a simple answer to that. New Yorkers (or even those from LA—big city) stick together, they know who’s who.. it would be too easy for the con to get caught, because the New Yorkers, or even from LA, would know too many legitimate people. Someone from out of town would have no way of knowing whose a somebody, and whose not.
Didn’t you think she was equally gullible to ask a total stranger from a hotel to accompany her, on a mission to a destination unknown, and unstable? Never pick an escort that you don’t know, or don’t trust. Let’s face it, she could have placed herself in a whole different scene of danger.
Once again, never go to an audition, photo session, or any interview that you are unsure of.. alone. Make sure someone can go with you, and if not make sure that your cell phone is fully charged, you have money for a cab incase your car breaks down, or the bus isn’t a quick enough escape route. Make sure someone who pays attention, knows when, and where you will be, and when you expect to be back.
If you are close to arriving to your audition, and the surroundings become dimmer by the moment, and you get that feeling that it’s just not all right. Turn around and go home, you are an actor, no one is more intone with your instincts than you are.. so listen to it! Missing out on an audition is well worth saving your life.
And one more thing. Any research you do on the net, will pull you in two split corners, and very aggressively I might add about online casting.
In the Left corner: Dead against online casting!
These sites see these companies as scavengers, scums, scam artists. They’ll tell you, REAL casting directors only go through their favorite agents, and legitimate actors. REAL CD’s don’t have time to waste sifting on the internet, through crappy photos, and unaccredited actors. You will also read repeatedly, that it is illegal for agencies in most states to charge a monthly fee, because in those states it’s illegal for agents to charge in advance for services, and can only be paid a standard 10% commission…after you get paid. (I have actually said that one myself.)
In the Right corner: Online casting companies.
First and Foremost. Online Casting Companies are not employment agencies, nor are they agents, or casting companies. These sites simply put, are trying to make a happy medium between union and non union film directors who can’t afford advertising. They claim they need to charge the actors to keep their sites going, and they claim they need to keep it free for the CD’s because the films that do get posted on their sites, have little to no funding. They provide a service to make it easier for actors to track down auditions when they have no agent.
At the end of the day, it’s up to the actor to do what they feel in their gutt is best. I have seen actors who’ve taken the Kamitic Acting system, connect with their inner instincts and develop a new confidence. The meditation classes, and truly getting in touch with your inner being, really has enhanced their acting abilities, and it has also sharpened their instincts. They also have grown to trust their judgment through the techniques in self awareness.
Surviving in this mad dog industry, takes gutts, and it takes instinct. As long as the actor is doing what’s right by them, and they are being cautious about transacting online, and not running silly with glittery eyes, than go and post my friends. It’s exposure! But for goodness sakes, be careful.. We all at the RKA Cinema Society, and no doubt the casting sites, do not want to ever hear of any actors, ever befalling victim to sex tourism.. or scams, nothing but good auditions, and great reviews for all.
Love to all—
Sacreeta
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Sacreeta Veneficus
Sacreeta here, and no it’s not a joke..
There has been sex slave ring operators posting casting call ads on Online Modeling and Talent Agency Websites!
In regards to online casting, and the partaking in these sites. I just want everyone to tread with caution when transacting, as in posting, and submitting to auditions, on any online site. I will post a link at the bottom of this note, that no one should miss seeing.
There are not only potential scammers who are after your money posting on these sites, but also people who are out to do you physical harm. They are shopping for beautiful people to lure as escorts, or sell on the black market as sex slaves. Yes, that is happening across the United States. There are some warning signs we’ll explore in a minute..
But first, ask yourself this question.
What if someone’s child was next? Parents also go on these sites, post pictures, names, addresses of their children on these sites for all the strangers to view. If you know of any parents who post on these sites, please tip them off about what you are about to read.
Online casting sites have no powers that be, to guarantee your safety, other than post their own warnings to their actors to tread with caution, and they do their best to ensure the postings are legit. They are no more capable of tracking than a local news paper.
Regardless, like the rest of the world, there is a reality of danger there, and it is a potential problem. What better way for a con, to go shopping, than post a fake audition, sift through pictures, and pick the people they plan to sell. And on some of these sites, to gain attention, the women will upload inappropriate pictures of themselves. And it’s not rocket science folks, everyone knows a full body nude photo is not a HEAD shot, it is explained on ALL the sites what a headshot is, and a serious CD (casting) will only be interested in an 8'10 headshot only. The nude full body will certainly draw attention. But it makes one wonder, are they aware of what type of attention they will draw?
Kristin Stinar (KSTP Investigative Reporter) has been investigating a story about a ring who was posting fake casting call ads with an online modeling and talent agency, New Line Cinema. And she so far has covered two relating stories. Apparently one of the actors was from the Midwest, she had posted her resume and photo on the site, and thought the casting company seemed legitimate.
After a friendly invite by the casting company, she traveled to New York at her own expense, for the audition. She wasn’t familiar with the area, so she had, luckily for her quick thinking, invited a male employee from the hotel to accompany her. She really felt she needed a bodyguard, as she was uneasy being in a big city like New York all alone. She also, went to scope out the agency prior to her appointment with her male escort. (Lucky for her the employs from the hotel was a decent man—trusting a total stranger.. that’s another story now isn’t it?)
She arrived at her destination, and discovered it was in an industrial area, and the office was in fact a real estate office. (How many real-estate offices are located in an industrial area.. honestly?) And the people working the real estate office had never heard of the casting company, and had no idea what she was talking about. One thing she knew for sure, was that if she had gone on time, and alone.. she would have been in serious trouble. The logical conclusion to she, and Kristin Stinar, was that she was either going to be robbed, or killed, or kidnapped. She feels very strongly that because she brought a male escort, the kidnappers would have seen her from the parking lot, and changed their minds. It saved her life.
Later KSTP reporter Kristin Stinar investigated and found out the ad was placed by a person who posed as someone from New Line Cinema, and that the imposter worked for a “family business” that deals in white slavery. Stinar said she spoke to this person herself, and that the person admitted to using online modeling and talent agencies to lure young women to an “audition” site, where they’re kidnapped, stripped of their identification, and shipped overseas to work in the sex slave trade. The woman also told Kristin that she intended to use some of the women as escorts, and if they refused, she would to, sell them on the black-market as sex slaves.
Kristin Stinar also interviewed an actor from Connecticut, who also was lured to New York, by an online casting ad, to the same address. She to brought someone with her, and found nothing.
KRISTIN STINAR was also on The Big Idea with Donny Deutsch http://www.bigideadonny.com/ last week to tell about a sex slave ring that posted fake casting call ads on an online modeling and talent agency website. Appearing with her on the show was the actor mentioned above.
5 EYEWITNESS NEWS tracks sex slave ring across country.
Here is a link of a news broadcast, made by eye witness news, KRISTIN STINAR. Kudos to Kristin for her bravery in following this through, and I have no doubt it won’t be the last we’ll hear about it from her savvy reporting.
FYI-- This is very disturbing. I hope everyone on this network, passes this information along. Please, please, please, always use caution when answering to auditions in the news paper, or online. And always trust your instincts. I know it’s so hard to believe it, but no matter how badly you want to be a star, you’ll regret it if you let that excitement cloud your judgment.
In relating this story to you, there we find some things jumping off the page at me, and I hope they jumped off the page at you to.
Didn’t you think it was weird that she was getting an invitation to go from the Midwest, to New York for an audition? NY is congested with actors, agented and not, why would they solicit an actor from 100’s of miles away? Why wouldn’t they be using New York’s finest first?
That is a valid question, and there is a simple answer to that. New Yorkers (or even those from LA—big city) stick together, they know who’s who.. it would be too easy for the con to get caught, because the New Yorkers, or even from LA, would know too many legitimate people. Someone from out of town would have no way of knowing whose a somebody, and whose not.
Didn’t you think she was equally gullible to ask a total stranger from a hotel to accompany her, on a mission to a destination unknown, and unstable? Never pick an escort that you don’t know, or don’t trust. Let’s face it, she could have placed herself in a whole different scene of danger.
Once again, never go to an audition, photo session, or any interview that you are unsure of.. alone. Make sure someone can go with you, and if not make sure that your cell phone is fully charged, you have money for a cab incase your car breaks down, or the bus isn’t a quick enough escape route. Make sure someone who pays attention, knows when, and where you will be, and when you expect to be back.
If you are close to arriving to your audition, and the surroundings become dimmer by the moment, and you get that feeling that it’s just not all right. Turn around and go home, you are an actor, no one is more intone with your instincts than you are.. so listen to it! Missing out on an audition is well worth saving your life.
And one more thing. Any research you do on the net, will pull you in two split corners, and very aggressively I might add about online casting.
In the Left corner: Dead against online casting!
These sites see these companies as scavengers, scums, scam artists. They’ll tell you, REAL casting directors only go through their favorite agents, and legitimate actors. REAL CD’s don’t have time to waste sifting on the internet, through crappy photos, and unaccredited actors. You will also read repeatedly, that it is illegal for agencies in most states to charge a monthly fee, because in those states it’s illegal for agents to charge in advance for services, and can only be paid a standard 10% commission…after you get paid. (I have actually said that one myself.)
In the Right corner: Online casting companies.
First and Foremost. Online Casting Companies are not employment agencies, nor are they agents, or casting companies. These sites simply put, are trying to make a happy medium between union and non union film directors who can’t afford advertising. They claim they need to charge the actors to keep their sites going, and they claim they need to keep it free for the CD’s because the films that do get posted on their sites, have little to no funding. They provide a service to make it easier for actors to track down auditions when they have no agent.
At the end of the day, it’s up to the actor to do what they feel in their gutt is best. I have seen actors who’ve taken the Kamitic Acting system, connect with their inner instincts and develop a new confidence. The meditation classes, and truly getting in touch with your inner being, really has enhanced their acting abilities, and it has also sharpened their instincts. They also have grown to trust their judgment through the techniques in self awareness.
Surviving in this mad dog industry, takes gutts, and it takes instinct. As long as the actor is doing what’s right by them, and they are being cautious about transacting online, and not running silly with glittery eyes, than go and post my friends. It’s exposure! But for goodness sakes, be careful.. We all at the RKA Cinema Society, and no doubt the casting sites, do not want to ever hear of any actors, ever befalling victim to sex tourism.. or scams, nothing but good auditions, and great reviews for all.
Love to all—
Sacreeta
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Tuesday, February 06, 2007
Adult Personals – Fulfilling Your Fantasies
Adult Personals – Fulfilling Your Fantasies Through Adult Dating Websites
by: James Hall
People are talking about adult personals. There's no doubt about it. As regular dating sites are seen as too tame to meet their adventurous needs people are posting adult personals through adult dating websites. Every day thousands of people seeking alternative lifestyles write uncensored adult personals ads. Adult dating websites offers an enticing adult dating community where you are free to share and explore your wildest fantasies.
Imagine browsing through adult photo galleries of handsome men and beautiful women of every size and shape – just waiting to respond to your adult personals. There are many adult dating websites that have 100% free trials with no credit card or payment required to register.
In fact, adult personals are extremely steamy and attention grabbing. Upon entering an adult dating website you will find all types of adult personals. The website designs' are user-friendly so that you can find your preferences whether its swingers personals, married personals, interracial personals, gay personals or BBW personals.
The opportunities offered by adult dating websites includes video chat rooms with sizzling video clips or watch 24hr live webcams of attractive people whose attire leaves little to the imagination. Plus, you can play interactive games or find out about the hottest adult parties and events in your area.
Some of the top adult dating websites are Yahoo adult personals and Adult Friend Finder personals. In the exciting world of adult personals, people are often looking for discreet local relationships.
But before you jump into the world of adult personals or brave the gates of any adult dating website, you should have a healthy self-image and a sense of self-liberation. What's more, the adult dating sites contain mature material, pictures and contents for individuals seeking alternative encounters.
Like happiness, prosperity, love and fulfillment, we all seek to achieve our outmost desires. Adult personals and adult dating website have found a niche by creating an environment where every desire can achieve satisfaction. With so much to gain, it's worth at least a free look, isn't it? You bet it is!
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: James Hall
People are talking about adult personals. There's no doubt about it. As regular dating sites are seen as too tame to meet their adventurous needs people are posting adult personals through adult dating websites. Every day thousands of people seeking alternative lifestyles write uncensored adult personals ads. Adult dating websites offers an enticing adult dating community where you are free to share and explore your wildest fantasies.
Imagine browsing through adult photo galleries of handsome men and beautiful women of every size and shape – just waiting to respond to your adult personals. There are many adult dating websites that have 100% free trials with no credit card or payment required to register.
In fact, adult personals are extremely steamy and attention grabbing. Upon entering an adult dating website you will find all types of adult personals. The website designs' are user-friendly so that you can find your preferences whether its swingers personals, married personals, interracial personals, gay personals or BBW personals.
The opportunities offered by adult dating websites includes video chat rooms with sizzling video clips or watch 24hr live webcams of attractive people whose attire leaves little to the imagination. Plus, you can play interactive games or find out about the hottest adult parties and events in your area.
Some of the top adult dating websites are Yahoo adult personals and Adult Friend Finder personals. In the exciting world of adult personals, people are often looking for discreet local relationships.
But before you jump into the world of adult personals or brave the gates of any adult dating website, you should have a healthy self-image and a sense of self-liberation. What's more, the adult dating sites contain mature material, pictures and contents for individuals seeking alternative encounters.
Like happiness, prosperity, love and fulfillment, we all seek to achieve our outmost desires. Adult personals and adult dating website have found a niche by creating an environment where every desire can achieve satisfaction. With so much to gain, it's worth at least a free look, isn't it? You bet it is!
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Thursday, February 01, 2007
Perversion Or Thrilling Sexual Experience?
Dogging: Perversion Or Thrilling Sexual Experience?
Author: Irene Thebeauty
Today the whole Europe including the UK seems to be affected by dogging. Under cover of night hundreds of pairs go to beaches, parks and car parks to have public sex and be watched by voyeurs. Both the "actors" and the audience enjoy the show. Usually the participants aren't familiar with each other. Sometimes viewers join the orgy. After the orgy is over they go away and most probably won't ever see each other again.
What doggers engage in seems to be a naughty sexual action lacking any human being emotions. But many people are so much thrilled by orgy outdoors that dogging may be compared with drug addiction. According to Collin Wilson, sexologist, a person at a dogging party goes beyond any limits of sexual freedom and looses his or her human self. In former times, Wilson says, only the dirtiest porn movies could show orgies in semi-public places. Wilson considers dogging the last straw, the point at which total degradation starts.
Many concerns are caused by the fact that doggers often choose the most beautiful historical monuments. Kent County experiences a wild outburst of dogging and local newspapers are full of reports about orgies that happen there every night. Legally, dogging is still a gray area. Though doggers are supposed to meet in secluded places other people, especially families with children, do not feel fully protected from witnessing a dogging scene when going to a nearest forest or park for picnic. Instead of catching thieves, policemen have to patrol car parks and other semi-public locations in order to clear dogging fans away. Even not talking about a danger of sexually transmitted diseases, all mentioned above is enough to raise indignation towards dogging in the society.
Lots of sites advertising dogging and swinging events that appeared in the Internet in a few past years cause a great concern among dogging antagonists. The sites contain detailed dogging parties descriptions written by the participants. Also they contain plenty of information on dogging locations. The sites often allow free access to site forums and chat where one can talk with real swingers and doggers and thus learn about upcoming swinging and dogging parties and popular dogging locations. Some dogging sites support more than one language contributing to interracial and intercultural sexual encounters.
Despite all these concerns more and more people are getting engaged into dogging. Every night they go to dogging locations, some only to watch couples having sex in cars and others in hope to be invited to join. Isn't it interesting to what kind of people do doggers belong? A dogger's portray seems to be similar in both Britain and other European countries. This is how a Spanish dogging site ("cancaneo" is a Spanish word for "dogging") depicts it: "Doggers are usually couples in their 30s - 50s looking for adventures, while voyeurs are mature middle-class men, most of them are married." It becomes evident from all info on doggers that can be found in the Internet that in the daytime they do not differ much from those objecting dogging. They have a certain social status as well and many of them are parents. Thus there must be something in a dogging action that attracts people so much.
A German journalist is sharing her impressions of a dogging party she observed in Berlin suburbs. "A few men in cars came to the location where the dogging party was going to be held. The location had been previously arranged via the Internet. They were waiting for a couple that was going to put on a show that day."
"Soon I understood what they all had been expecting", - the journalist says, - "A young and sexy woman together with a handsome man appeared at the lawn. They were in the center of car lights so everybody could see them very well. The couple started fore playing: they were kissing and petting each other. They took each other's clothing off and threw it to the ground. Then the man lied on his back and the woman sat on him. One of the viewers came out of a car and approached the horny couple that even added more thrill to the action. The woman was rhythmically moving on the man and the spectators were observing the couple having intercourse. Then another voyeur came closer. The viewers were getting more and more aroused; I noticed that some men were wanking. I felt so strange. I was getting aroused too, but it was weird that something other than sex with my boyfriend was causing such reactions in me. When the intercourse was over everyone left the dogging location without saying a word."
The journalist adds that even porn video had never affected her so much as the dogging scene did.
Experienced doggers say that a live dogging show is far superior to any porn video. A dogging site's old member compares dogging with drug addiction: "If you ever watch a dogging performance your legs will bring you to the nearest car park next evening to see it again."
As we have seen opinions differ very much. Though there are serious concerns about dogging in the society it seems that in the future more sexually adventurous enthusiasts will be attracted by orgies outdoors.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Author: Irene Thebeauty
Today the whole Europe including the UK seems to be affected by dogging. Under cover of night hundreds of pairs go to beaches, parks and car parks to have public sex and be watched by voyeurs. Both the "actors" and the audience enjoy the show. Usually the participants aren't familiar with each other. Sometimes viewers join the orgy. After the orgy is over they go away and most probably won't ever see each other again.
What doggers engage in seems to be a naughty sexual action lacking any human being emotions. But many people are so much thrilled by orgy outdoors that dogging may be compared with drug addiction. According to Collin Wilson, sexologist, a person at a dogging party goes beyond any limits of sexual freedom and looses his or her human self. In former times, Wilson says, only the dirtiest porn movies could show orgies in semi-public places. Wilson considers dogging the last straw, the point at which total degradation starts.
Many concerns are caused by the fact that doggers often choose the most beautiful historical monuments. Kent County experiences a wild outburst of dogging and local newspapers are full of reports about orgies that happen there every night. Legally, dogging is still a gray area. Though doggers are supposed to meet in secluded places other people, especially families with children, do not feel fully protected from witnessing a dogging scene when going to a nearest forest or park for picnic. Instead of catching thieves, policemen have to patrol car parks and other semi-public locations in order to clear dogging fans away. Even not talking about a danger of sexually transmitted diseases, all mentioned above is enough to raise indignation towards dogging in the society.
Lots of sites advertising dogging and swinging events that appeared in the Internet in a few past years cause a great concern among dogging antagonists. The sites contain detailed dogging parties descriptions written by the participants. Also they contain plenty of information on dogging locations. The sites often allow free access to site forums and chat where one can talk with real swingers and doggers and thus learn about upcoming swinging and dogging parties and popular dogging locations. Some dogging sites support more than one language contributing to interracial and intercultural sexual encounters.
Despite all these concerns more and more people are getting engaged into dogging. Every night they go to dogging locations, some only to watch couples having sex in cars and others in hope to be invited to join. Isn't it interesting to what kind of people do doggers belong? A dogger's portray seems to be similar in both Britain and other European countries. This is how a Spanish dogging site ("cancaneo" is a Spanish word for "dogging") depicts it: "Doggers are usually couples in their 30s - 50s looking for adventures, while voyeurs are mature middle-class men, most of them are married." It becomes evident from all info on doggers that can be found in the Internet that in the daytime they do not differ much from those objecting dogging. They have a certain social status as well and many of them are parents. Thus there must be something in a dogging action that attracts people so much.
A German journalist is sharing her impressions of a dogging party she observed in Berlin suburbs. "A few men in cars came to the location where the dogging party was going to be held. The location had been previously arranged via the Internet. They were waiting for a couple that was going to put on a show that day."
"Soon I understood what they all had been expecting", - the journalist says, - "A young and sexy woman together with a handsome man appeared at the lawn. They were in the center of car lights so everybody could see them very well. The couple started fore playing: they were kissing and petting each other. They took each other's clothing off and threw it to the ground. Then the man lied on his back and the woman sat on him. One of the viewers came out of a car and approached the horny couple that even added more thrill to the action. The woman was rhythmically moving on the man and the spectators were observing the couple having intercourse. Then another voyeur came closer. The viewers were getting more and more aroused; I noticed that some men were wanking. I felt so strange. I was getting aroused too, but it was weird that something other than sex with my boyfriend was causing such reactions in me. When the intercourse was over everyone left the dogging location without saying a word."
The journalist adds that even porn video had never affected her so much as the dogging scene did.
Experienced doggers say that a live dogging show is far superior to any porn video. A dogging site's old member compares dogging with drug addiction: "If you ever watch a dogging performance your legs will bring you to the nearest car park next evening to see it again."
As we have seen opinions differ very much. Though there are serious concerns about dogging in the society it seems that in the future more sexually adventurous enthusiasts will be attracted by orgies outdoors.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
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