A Real Swinging Housewife Talks About Her Vacation
by: Julia Tanner
Changing up the scenery from time to time can make any real swinging housewife even more excited, so why not look into something like this?
If you’re met another couple over the Internet and they’re out of town, meeting up somewhere in between can provide for an erotic and adventurous location.
Making The Plans
When it comes to any vacation planning, you want to sort out all the details first. There’s nothing like a few surprises to kill a mood.
Start with picking a few destinations that you might enjoy, factoring in your own separate budgets and preferences. The more private and warm the destination is, the better, in my opinion.
But if warm isn’t an option, then you just might want to look into places that exude desire. Honeymoon suites might be a little strange though.
Pick the place and then get tickets and hotel reservations. If you want to maintain a sense of privacy, then you will want to reserve the rooms separately. This ensures that you won’t know each other’s names unless you want to reveal them.
You can just talk about what room number you can find a real swinging housewife.
This might sounds a bit paranoid, but if you’ve never met before, it’s a good way to keep everyone safe.
When You Arrive
If you’ve decided to remain anonymous at first, then respect that boundary and don’t try to find each other just yet. Get settled in and meet up at a restaurant or other neutral location.
Have a lovely conversation and see how the four (or more) of you get along. If dinner goes well and the mood seems fitting, then you may want to exchange room numbers (showing each other your keys and giving the spares to each other) and then let the night begin.
Be sure to acknowledge your spouse throughout dinner to show how much you love them. Touch them and kiss them constantly.
What Else Do You Do?
Well, this part is really up to you and your comfort level. I like to make the rule that I wake up with my husband and only my husband in the morning.
This gives our relationship priority and we can talk about our adventures in private if we choose. Sometimes, we even like to share breakfast together as well as the morning. Heck, we’re on vacation!
You may want to leave a way to contact each other the next day to set up another fun evening or afternoon.
And from there, you can enjoy as much swinging as you’d like.
A last suggestion is to make sure that you don’t plan too much time together. You don’t want to feel like you ‘have’ to be together all the time. You may want to say that three nights are as far as you will absolutely save for each other.
And then you can enjoy your own relationship for the remainder, or go home.
Of course, if you’re having fun, then by all means, keep the party going.
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Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Friday, March 09, 2007
52 Free Things to Do with Your Partner on Date Night
52 Free Things to Do with Your Partner on Date Night
by: Kim Olver
One of the things that works to keep relationships alive is spending quality time with each other. In this day of the information age, it is becoming increasingly difficult to carve out the necessary time to nurture our relationships. What with long work hours, helping kids with their homework, transporting them around to their extracurricular activities, getting dinner, cleaning up and going through the bedtime routine, what time is left?
Unless you orchestrate the time for your relationship, other less important things will crowd in and take what precious little time you do have. Pick a night that will be “date night” with your partner and make a game out of being as creative as you can be. Try to see how many things you can do without spending money.
To get you started, I’ve come up with some suggestions to help you for the next year. What follows are 52 ideas for how to spend creative time together without spending money. Feel free to add or modify any of the items on the list to suit your particular relationship and circumstances.
WINTER
1. Take a drive to look at the Christmas decorations.
2. Play cards---perhaps strip poker.
3. Watch a movie together.
4. Go outside and have a snowball fight.
5. Get some finger paints and create your own body art with each other as your canvass.
6. Go sleigh riding.
7. Go ice skating.
8. Work out or exercise together.
9. Stage your own improvisation show.
10. Sing to each other.
11. Review or create a photo album or scrapbook of your memories together.
12. Play a board game---perhaps chess, Scrabble or Twister.
13. Go to a book store, get coffee and read for hours.
SPRING
14. Work on a remodeling project together.
15. Plan and complete a yard work project together.
16. Do the spring cleaning together---room by room. When done, reward yourself by making love in the room you’ve cleaned.
17. Put on old clothes and mud wrestle after some drenching rain.
18. Give each other a massage.
19. Play catch---football, baseball, softball or Frisbee.
20. Go to a car dealer and test drive the car of your dreams.
21. Shoot basketball together.
22. Dance together.
23. Take a shower together and wash each other---everywhere.
24. Take a free adult education class together.
25. Go to a mall and have a contest to see which one of you can get the most free samples.
26. Go rollerblading or bike riding.
SUMMER
27. Build a campfire and roast marshmallows.
28. Go swimming or skinny dipping.
29. Give each other a manicure or pedicure.
30. Go somewhere crowded to people watch.
31. Go to a free outdoor event, perhaps a concert.
32. Lie on a blanket outside and watch the clouds or stars.
33. Go on a picnic.
34. Watch a fireworks display.
35. Be creative and engage in sexual role plays. Be anyone you’d like to be for the night who is also exciting for your partner.
36. Sit by the water somewhere.
37. Do a prolonged strip tease for each other.
38. Have a water balloon fight.
39. Sit outside and read poetry to each other.
FALL
40. Go for a drive together.
41. Go window shopping.
42. Incorporate food into your love making---chocolate syrup, whipped cream, fondue, strawberries---anything you and your partner enjoy.
43. Call or write to someone you haven’t had contact with in a while.
44. Cook something together.
45. Spend an evening just talking with each other. Talk about the things you have done, plans you have for the future, important people in your lives or current events.
46. Take a bubble bath together.
47. Go to a free movie or museum.
48. Take a drive and find the potential in old houses and their properties.
49. Create an imaginary story together---either orally or in written form.
50. Take turns being each other’s genie in a bottle by fulfilling your partner’s every wish and fantasy.
51. Play in the fallen leaves.
52. Create an exciting scavenger hunt that ends in your bed.
Now you have 52 suggestions for things to do with your partner for every week of the year divided by season. Certainly you don’t have to follow my suggestions. Feel free to add your own or to repeat your favorites as often as you’d like.
The main point is not to see how kinky you can get. The idea is to keep your relationship alive by making time together a priority. It is important that you find things to do as a couple that you can both enjoy. If you have vastly different interests then you can enter this with the spirit of taking turns and each agree to happily participate in the activity chosen by the one whose turn it is that week.
As long as you make a habit of making your relationship a priority and allocating time each week for rejuvenation of the feelings that attracted you in the first place, then you stand a good chance of staying together for the long haul.
Please don’t let insidious boredom enter into your relationship through the back door. This is what frequently happens when we are busy placing other things ahead of our time for each other. You know what I mean---the job, the kids, our friend in crisis, etc. There will always be a competing interest for the time you’ve set aside for each other.
Other than natural disasters, threat of death or major crises, do not allow your time together to be invaded by any outside forces. Make sure to create opportunities for you to do things together without outside influence. With more than 50% of today’s marriages ending in divorce, make this small investment in the longevity of your relationship. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. What’s stopping you? Start today.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Kim Olver
One of the things that works to keep relationships alive is spending quality time with each other. In this day of the information age, it is becoming increasingly difficult to carve out the necessary time to nurture our relationships. What with long work hours, helping kids with their homework, transporting them around to their extracurricular activities, getting dinner, cleaning up and going through the bedtime routine, what time is left?
Unless you orchestrate the time for your relationship, other less important things will crowd in and take what precious little time you do have. Pick a night that will be “date night” with your partner and make a game out of being as creative as you can be. Try to see how many things you can do without spending money.
To get you started, I’ve come up with some suggestions to help you for the next year. What follows are 52 ideas for how to spend creative time together without spending money. Feel free to add or modify any of the items on the list to suit your particular relationship and circumstances.
WINTER
1. Take a drive to look at the Christmas decorations.
2. Play cards---perhaps strip poker.
3. Watch a movie together.
4. Go outside and have a snowball fight.
5. Get some finger paints and create your own body art with each other as your canvass.
6. Go sleigh riding.
7. Go ice skating.
8. Work out or exercise together.
9. Stage your own improvisation show.
10. Sing to each other.
11. Review or create a photo album or scrapbook of your memories together.
12. Play a board game---perhaps chess, Scrabble or Twister.
13. Go to a book store, get coffee and read for hours.
SPRING
14. Work on a remodeling project together.
15. Plan and complete a yard work project together.
16. Do the spring cleaning together---room by room. When done, reward yourself by making love in the room you’ve cleaned.
17. Put on old clothes and mud wrestle after some drenching rain.
18. Give each other a massage.
19. Play catch---football, baseball, softball or Frisbee.
20. Go to a car dealer and test drive the car of your dreams.
21. Shoot basketball together.
22. Dance together.
23. Take a shower together and wash each other---everywhere.
24. Take a free adult education class together.
25. Go to a mall and have a contest to see which one of you can get the most free samples.
26. Go rollerblading or bike riding.
SUMMER
27. Build a campfire and roast marshmallows.
28. Go swimming or skinny dipping.
29. Give each other a manicure or pedicure.
30. Go somewhere crowded to people watch.
31. Go to a free outdoor event, perhaps a concert.
32. Lie on a blanket outside and watch the clouds or stars.
33. Go on a picnic.
34. Watch a fireworks display.
35. Be creative and engage in sexual role plays. Be anyone you’d like to be for the night who is also exciting for your partner.
36. Sit by the water somewhere.
37. Do a prolonged strip tease for each other.
38. Have a water balloon fight.
39. Sit outside and read poetry to each other.
FALL
40. Go for a drive together.
41. Go window shopping.
42. Incorporate food into your love making---chocolate syrup, whipped cream, fondue, strawberries---anything you and your partner enjoy.
43. Call or write to someone you haven’t had contact with in a while.
44. Cook something together.
45. Spend an evening just talking with each other. Talk about the things you have done, plans you have for the future, important people in your lives or current events.
46. Take a bubble bath together.
47. Go to a free movie or museum.
48. Take a drive and find the potential in old houses and their properties.
49. Create an imaginary story together---either orally or in written form.
50. Take turns being each other’s genie in a bottle by fulfilling your partner’s every wish and fantasy.
51. Play in the fallen leaves.
52. Create an exciting scavenger hunt that ends in your bed.
Now you have 52 suggestions for things to do with your partner for every week of the year divided by season. Certainly you don’t have to follow my suggestions. Feel free to add your own or to repeat your favorites as often as you’d like.
The main point is not to see how kinky you can get. The idea is to keep your relationship alive by making time together a priority. It is important that you find things to do as a couple that you can both enjoy. If you have vastly different interests then you can enter this with the spirit of taking turns and each agree to happily participate in the activity chosen by the one whose turn it is that week.
As long as you make a habit of making your relationship a priority and allocating time each week for rejuvenation of the feelings that attracted you in the first place, then you stand a good chance of staying together for the long haul.
Please don’t let insidious boredom enter into your relationship through the back door. This is what frequently happens when we are busy placing other things ahead of our time for each other. You know what I mean---the job, the kids, our friend in crisis, etc. There will always be a competing interest for the time you’ve set aside for each other.
Other than natural disasters, threat of death or major crises, do not allow your time together to be invaded by any outside forces. Make sure to create opportunities for you to do things together without outside influence. With more than 50% of today’s marriages ending in divorce, make this small investment in the longevity of your relationship. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. What’s stopping you? Start today.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Thursday, March 01, 2007
Sex And The Afterlife - Part One
Sex And The Afterlife - Part One
by: Bob Daulby
It is because of religious fervour, indoctrination and plain fear-mongering that society at large is under the common 'belief' and assumption that, when we do finally die, like our lives, our sex life also comes to a full stop. Oh dear me! This could not be more wrong.
Way before I began my journey, experiences and *actual* communication with Our Worlds Beyond, I too, was also left with the same, misguided, impression. However, it wasn't until I by-passed my own instilled indoctrination (read 'brain-washing'), fears and doubts and came to be in *actual* communication with our loved ones in the spirit worlds, that The Truth - that is - The Truth that transcends ALL truths - finally became my own. When it did, finally become my own, not only sex but that, so very many other similar truths were also imparted to me that it became a habit for me to keep repeating...
'Well, I never! Really!?'
In fact, after a while, it became very frustrating to me because, once I had gotten into the habit of speaking to those who are *actually* there and stopped reading 'books' about it all, I then realised that all those books I had ever read before about the afterlife were - and still are - completely wrong and that I need not have bothered to read them at all. (What a waste of time that was!) . My frustration was made doubly worse for the fact that I too started out as a *staunch* Christian taboot! And so, like you, I too was led right up the garden path and back again - by my nose!
For millennia, we have been *instilled* with the 'religious' idea of what sex is about. If we recall, as far as the Catholic church is concerned (where ALL Westernised religion originated from), sex exists for one reason only - which is, to bear children and that sex, for any other reason was an out and out 'sin'. I say to you now that, had it not been for the church and it's interference with our sex lives then, I promise you, the three P's - 'Pornography' - 'Paedophilia' - and 'Prostitution' wouldn't exist. What the church (any church incidentally) do by threatening us all with eternal damnation through our supposed 'illicit' sexual activity is akin to placing your thumb over the top of a fiercely spouting tap and expecting to control the spray! It was ridiculous then and it still is. What is more, it is downright ignorant too! (I'm sorry but *somebody* had to say it didn't they?).
So, let's start again Ok?
Let us start with, 'God created *everything* shall we? Thus, God created SEX too! And I don't mean that God created sex just to have children. God created sex for FUN as well - but it doesn't stop there does it?
Not only DID God create everything but that H/She/It STILL creates everything - even on down to these words you're reading now. He/She/It is not only creating as a Being in His/Her/It's own right but is also creating through you and I! God - is THE master creator - the ONLY creator - and really is 'All That Is'. Thus, God created both sex and fun too!
Now then, if we really have read our Bibles carefully, you will note that Adam and Eve didn't just have two sons called Cain and Abel did they? No. Adam and Eve had - and listen now - *thousands* of daughters! Naturally, the church 'forget' to tell us' of course because it's really difficult to explain to a purposely sexually starved society commonly called 'sheep'. You see, why these daughters are not mentioned to a great extent is because, as you well know, in those days, sons were far more important than daughters and so, in a sense, 'didn't count'. So, religiously speaking, what happened then? Why, Caine and Abel had sex with most of those daughters to bring about you and I. And it is this 'ungodly' anomaly that the church, in all it's wisdom, 'forget' to mention. (Who *else* could they have sex with?). That means that you and I are born of 'incest' Ok?
So, before I even start, the religious can stop pointing fingers, evoke Satan or threaten me with eternal hell and damnation. It is in your holy book and that's that.
Due to 'human' interpretation, where we have lost the ball completely on sex is where 'God' said, "Go Forth And Multiply'. That was all that He said then. He did NOT say, 'Go Forth And Multiply - But Only To Have Children - And Don't Even Think Of *Enjoying* It Or It's Hell For You Pal/Paless!'.
God invented clitorises. God invented the 'G' spot. God made it so that nipples became erect and *aroused* *during* sex too (eh?). And way before babies are even thought of. God invented *multiple* orgasms for both men and women - and this, when ONE orgasm from one man, is quite enough for babies to appear and where woman don't even need to be thinking of us let alone get involved themselves. But, more importantly, God *also* invented lust. If we are to have sex 'just for children' then, why oh why make it so damn exciting and all-enfolding for BOTH genders?
Logical see?
And so, in short, God - and not you and I (because sex existed way before you and I were born anyway and so, were not there at the beginning to interfere with it as our forefathers have), the *actual* truth is, we have all these extra attachments and abilities to *enjoy* sex - for sex's sake - and NOT just to have children.
But, where does that leave us?
It leaves us now to re-think our ideas of sex and to bring it back to where it is supposed to be - in OUR homes and not in churches or even society at large. Sex, belongs to JUST you and JUST me and, what you or I do with it, explore or express it, has absolutely nothing to do with anyone else - least of all, courts.
Just as it is in heaven - the astral plains - or, Our Worlds Beyond because NO ONE there EVER tells us what kind of sex we can or cannot have. We have it anyway.
But you know, you don't have to take my word for any of this. If you'd only look for yourself as I did then you would find exactly the same as I have and where you too will be both shocked and amazed to find this truth and truths like it that you will not find anywhere else. Why? Because ALL Earth-based 'truth' is corrupt. 'Heaven's' truth is completely untouched and is incorruptible by man. And Thank God for that I say. (Don't you?)
(Please go to “Sex And The Afterlife - Part Two” for the rest of it)
I thank you for your time.
Bob Daulby
www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
by: Bob Daulby
It is because of religious fervour, indoctrination and plain fear-mongering that society at large is under the common 'belief' and assumption that, when we do finally die, like our lives, our sex life also comes to a full stop. Oh dear me! This could not be more wrong.
Way before I began my journey, experiences and *actual* communication with Our Worlds Beyond, I too, was also left with the same, misguided, impression. However, it wasn't until I by-passed my own instilled indoctrination (read 'brain-washing'), fears and doubts and came to be in *actual* communication with our loved ones in the spirit worlds, that The Truth - that is - The Truth that transcends ALL truths - finally became my own. When it did, finally become my own, not only sex but that, so very many other similar truths were also imparted to me that it became a habit for me to keep repeating...
'Well, I never! Really!?'
In fact, after a while, it became very frustrating to me because, once I had gotten into the habit of speaking to those who are *actually* there and stopped reading 'books' about it all, I then realised that all those books I had ever read before about the afterlife were - and still are - completely wrong and that I need not have bothered to read them at all. (What a waste of time that was!) . My frustration was made doubly worse for the fact that I too started out as a *staunch* Christian taboot! And so, like you, I too was led right up the garden path and back again - by my nose!
For millennia, we have been *instilled* with the 'religious' idea of what sex is about. If we recall, as far as the Catholic church is concerned (where ALL Westernised religion originated from), sex exists for one reason only - which is, to bear children and that sex, for any other reason was an out and out 'sin'. I say to you now that, had it not been for the church and it's interference with our sex lives then, I promise you, the three P's - 'Pornography' - 'Paedophilia' - and 'Prostitution' wouldn't exist. What the church (any church incidentally) do by threatening us all with eternal damnation through our supposed 'illicit' sexual activity is akin to placing your thumb over the top of a fiercely spouting tap and expecting to control the spray! It was ridiculous then and it still is. What is more, it is downright ignorant too! (I'm sorry but *somebody* had to say it didn't they?).
So, let's start again Ok?
Let us start with, 'God created *everything* shall we? Thus, God created SEX too! And I don't mean that God created sex just to have children. God created sex for FUN as well - but it doesn't stop there does it?
Not only DID God create everything but that H/She/It STILL creates everything - even on down to these words you're reading now. He/She/It is not only creating as a Being in His/Her/It's own right but is also creating through you and I! God - is THE master creator - the ONLY creator - and really is 'All That Is'. Thus, God created both sex and fun too!
Now then, if we really have read our Bibles carefully, you will note that Adam and Eve didn't just have two sons called Cain and Abel did they? No. Adam and Eve had - and listen now - *thousands* of daughters! Naturally, the church 'forget' to tell us' of course because it's really difficult to explain to a purposely sexually starved society commonly called 'sheep'. You see, why these daughters are not mentioned to a great extent is because, as you well know, in those days, sons were far more important than daughters and so, in a sense, 'didn't count'. So, religiously speaking, what happened then? Why, Caine and Abel had sex with most of those daughters to bring about you and I. And it is this 'ungodly' anomaly that the church, in all it's wisdom, 'forget' to mention. (Who *else* could they have sex with?). That means that you and I are born of 'incest' Ok?
So, before I even start, the religious can stop pointing fingers, evoke Satan or threaten me with eternal hell and damnation. It is in your holy book and that's that.
Due to 'human' interpretation, where we have lost the ball completely on sex is where 'God' said, "Go Forth And Multiply'. That was all that He said then. He did NOT say, 'Go Forth And Multiply - But Only To Have Children - And Don't Even Think Of *Enjoying* It Or It's Hell For You Pal/Paless!'.
God invented clitorises. God invented the 'G' spot. God made it so that nipples became erect and *aroused* *during* sex too (eh?). And way before babies are even thought of. God invented *multiple* orgasms for both men and women - and this, when ONE orgasm from one man, is quite enough for babies to appear and where woman don't even need to be thinking of us let alone get involved themselves. But, more importantly, God *also* invented lust. If we are to have sex 'just for children' then, why oh why make it so damn exciting and all-enfolding for BOTH genders?
Logical see?
And so, in short, God - and not you and I (because sex existed way before you and I were born anyway and so, were not there at the beginning to interfere with it as our forefathers have), the *actual* truth is, we have all these extra attachments and abilities to *enjoy* sex - for sex's sake - and NOT just to have children.
But, where does that leave us?
It leaves us now to re-think our ideas of sex and to bring it back to where it is supposed to be - in OUR homes and not in churches or even society at large. Sex, belongs to JUST you and JUST me and, what you or I do with it, explore or express it, has absolutely nothing to do with anyone else - least of all, courts.
Just as it is in heaven - the astral plains - or, Our Worlds Beyond because NO ONE there EVER tells us what kind of sex we can or cannot have. We have it anyway.
But you know, you don't have to take my word for any of this. If you'd only look for yourself as I did then you would find exactly the same as I have and where you too will be both shocked and amazed to find this truth and truths like it that you will not find anywhere else. Why? Because ALL Earth-based 'truth' is corrupt. 'Heaven's' truth is completely untouched and is incorruptible by man. And Thank God for that I say. (Don't you?)
(Please go to “Sex And The Afterlife - Part Two” for the rest of it)
I thank you for your time.
Bob Daulby
www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
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