So what can you expect to find when you first go to a Swinger Sex Club? It is going to depend on how open you are, pun intended. A lot of cities have clubs that are designed to attract the swinger's fantasies. Most swinger clubs operate with a theme or other activities to inspire sexy players to sex play.
At a Private Swinger Club you should expect the music to be cranked up, everyone drinking, and to see a lot of naughty, sexy dancing, French kissing, etc. Your eyes will not see any totally x rated erotic and sex moves on the dance floor because it is illegal to allow sexual relations at an Only Swinger Club or drinking area. What you will see is likely a bunch of swingers having a great time, seducing others, and getting really excited. The aura will feel very sexually charged.
If you are seeking something a little more kicked back without the cranked up party sounds, the swinger club scene, and all that, you could want to try a house party like a Jacuzzi party or hotel dinner/get together instead. At a Jacuzzi party or dinner it is a lot more laid back with a lot fewer participants. Swinger events like this often allows for more closer interaction and relationship growth. You will have the chance to get to know other people better via chatting before going into a more sexual mode.
Always remember that you don't have to play or have sex to go to a swinger's club or get together. Swinging is all about doing what makes you feel good, and that requires mutual consent. You can go slowly, or choose to just check it out first. Planning on having a sexual encounter or not is up to you. Once you meet another person/couple that you are interested in getting to know them and build a friendship then if you want to start plans for getting together to have swinging sex you can.
There is no right or wrong swinging sex activity. If it feels great and is safe, then it is okay. Swingers have freed themselves from society's strongest taboos, swinging sex, they are feel to free themselves from sexual taboos, such as anal sex, fetishism, and/or bisexuality. The only rule is to do that which you are happy doing. If you are not happy with a sexual activity, just say so and don't feel embarrassed. You set your own limits.
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Thursday, November 08, 2007
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Have A Boring Sex Life?
As a swinger, I get to chat to many folks about sex. The interesting thing is that a lot of folks I chat with inform me that they believe others are enjoying a much better sex life than they are. Usually they say that their sex life is very boring and there is no excitement. The longer the folks has been together the less exciting their sex seems. Naturally, there are people that have a great sex life and have been together forever. These couples are rare in my experience and usually swingers.
A study recently discovered that after a couple of years of marriage, the wife's interest in sex had shrunk fifty percent. There was also a major decline in intercourse.
What can one implement to heat up ones sex life?
First: Spouse bonding. Women usually enjoy this style of sex. The emotional relating with your partner is the most important. Usually, partners when they first were in lust have a lot of spouse connection in sex. Eye gazing, touchy feely and fluids flowing and the sex is really fantastic! It just flows and there is lots of hugging, kissing and foreplay.
So how do you get more of this fun sex with your lover. One idea in sex to get more out of this concept is to keep your eyes open while having sex. You will find most couples don't even look at their partner. Eyes unite us and get the sexual juices flowing. for the more adventurous, I recommend opening your eyes while you orgasm. Men find this to be a challenge yet you can do it!
Second: Sex is like a trance. With this idea you go inwards and is all about ones sexual fantasies, sexual feelings or a sex dream. Your eye lids are shut as the sexual connection with your spouse is not necessary. Men like to visualize sex in their minds.
I had a partner who liked to go into another world. I just felt I like a taxi driver taking her to her sexual fantasies. Since I didn't get to join her sexual adventure, I didn't feel sexually satisfied. Touching her was one method that I found frustrating. I told her this and she did starting me also.
Third: Sexual Role Play. This is a lot of fun. You can act out a sexual fantasy or become a sexual healer or doctor. You could be an animal. Bondage falls into this version of sex play. This is usually more challenging for folks. However sexual role playing can really rev up your sex experiences.
Fourth: Swinging (my favorite) Swinging is the most exciting sex I have ever experienced! There is nothing like "strange" to get the juices really flowing. However, swinging is only for couples who are very secure in their relationship. If you are looking to swinging to save your marriage, forget it! It is way too dangerous for couples in trouble. Swinging is only for viable for great partnership who are looking to share sex with others and enjoy their partner having sex with others. If you want to check out the swinging world go to our Swinger Sites Reviews site. There you will find our favorite sites for swinging.
If your sex is boring, and you are really committed. Ask your sexual partner to try something new. Try having your partner take the sexual lead in this adventure. Sexual experimenting can be fun, enjoy yourself!
Ray Taylor
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
A study recently discovered that after a couple of years of marriage, the wife's interest in sex had shrunk fifty percent. There was also a major decline in intercourse.
What can one implement to heat up ones sex life?
First: Spouse bonding. Women usually enjoy this style of sex. The emotional relating with your partner is the most important. Usually, partners when they first were in lust have a lot of spouse connection in sex. Eye gazing, touchy feely and fluids flowing and the sex is really fantastic! It just flows and there is lots of hugging, kissing and foreplay.
So how do you get more of this fun sex with your lover. One idea in sex to get more out of this concept is to keep your eyes open while having sex. You will find most couples don't even look at their partner. Eyes unite us and get the sexual juices flowing. for the more adventurous, I recommend opening your eyes while you orgasm. Men find this to be a challenge yet you can do it!
Second: Sex is like a trance. With this idea you go inwards and is all about ones sexual fantasies, sexual feelings or a sex dream. Your eye lids are shut as the sexual connection with your spouse is not necessary. Men like to visualize sex in their minds.
I had a partner who liked to go into another world. I just felt I like a taxi driver taking her to her sexual fantasies. Since I didn't get to join her sexual adventure, I didn't feel sexually satisfied. Touching her was one method that I found frustrating. I told her this and she did starting me also.
Third: Sexual Role Play. This is a lot of fun. You can act out a sexual fantasy or become a sexual healer or doctor. You could be an animal. Bondage falls into this version of sex play. This is usually more challenging for folks. However sexual role playing can really rev up your sex experiences.
Fourth: Swinging (my favorite) Swinging is the most exciting sex I have ever experienced! There is nothing like "strange" to get the juices really flowing. However, swinging is only for couples who are very secure in their relationship. If you are looking to swinging to save your marriage, forget it! It is way too dangerous for couples in trouble. Swinging is only for viable for great partnership who are looking to share sex with others and enjoy their partner having sex with others. If you want to check out the swinging world go to our Swinger Sites Reviews site. There you will find our favorite sites for swinging.
If your sex is boring, and you are really committed. Ask your sexual partner to try something new. Try having your partner take the sexual lead in this adventure. Sexual experimenting can be fun, enjoy yourself!
Ray Taylor
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Wednesday, September 05, 2007
Soft Swinging
If you believe that you get excited by the thought of swinging, just wait until you try it. Imaging does not the same as swinging —only the real thing will truly make you a believer.
You might know, soft swinging is the first go at swapping for lots of people. Therefore, you may already have done so soft swapping without even knowing it.
One might have a too many beers, got a little naughty with someone's spouse. And you knew damn that it wasn't about love or cheating on your spouse, it was about sexual lust - swinging.
Maybe she/he felt just right or they were wearing a great outfit that turned you on…
Swapping Should Occur Spontaneously
The lighting is down. You're at a get together with your spouse and you've go different ways for a second. You're very aware of where your spouse is, but you just let situation take you. The two of you have already talked about swinging before.
Let's see where the swapping situation might take you.
A small touch, a stroke of their arm. It could just be a slow kiss. Your eyes close and you sink into the swinging moment.
What if you see your spouse over in the corner?
It's amazingly exciting to see your spouse with another, even tho it's 'just playing' to start. To see body parts that have touched will send chills running down someone else's skin and that can be a sexual turn on.
Watching can be a great way to begin soft swapping. It's a great way to put yourself into soft swinging.
You might just needed a little 'stimulation' to get going.
What If You Want To Plan Some Swapping?
One might have already decided that 'soft swinging' might just happen one night. You've chatted about it for a while, when the talk turns to swapping sex.
Planning ahead doesn't make it any less amazing or exciting.
It might start with a sensual massage of your feet and then move into the naughty areas.
Now it is up to you. Don't hold back; lots of people, 1 in 5, has tried swinging sex.
Now you can go back to your old days and just kiss and make out, or you can go to sexual groping and strokes. Checking out a new new person's body, how do they smell and feel? What makes them a change from your spouse
Keep it slow at first because you're just getting started, just teasing the other person at this moment. One wants to keep them aroused and ready for the next swinging time.
Your pulse is racing and your mind can wait for the next swinging meeting.
Please go slowly. Always wanting more from the soft swinging episode is a great idea and one wants to make sure that one is completely at ease before upping the level of swapping sexual intensity.
Slow soft swinging is great because one gets to go home and finish off the sexual excitement started by the soft swinging at the party. Soft swing can be the most fun one can have with their clothes on!
Ray
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
You might know, soft swinging is the first go at swapping for lots of people. Therefore, you may already have done so soft swapping without even knowing it.
One might have a too many beers, got a little naughty with someone's spouse. And you knew damn that it wasn't about love or cheating on your spouse, it was about sexual lust - swinging.
Maybe she/he felt just right or they were wearing a great outfit that turned you on…
Swapping Should Occur Spontaneously
The lighting is down. You're at a get together with your spouse and you've go different ways for a second. You're very aware of where your spouse is, but you just let situation take you. The two of you have already talked about swinging before.
Let's see where the swapping situation might take you.
A small touch, a stroke of their arm. It could just be a slow kiss. Your eyes close and you sink into the swinging moment.
What if you see your spouse over in the corner?
It's amazingly exciting to see your spouse with another, even tho it's 'just playing' to start. To see body parts that have touched will send chills running down someone else's skin and that can be a sexual turn on.
Watching can be a great way to begin soft swapping. It's a great way to put yourself into soft swinging.
You might just needed a little 'stimulation' to get going.
What If You Want To Plan Some Swapping?
One might have already decided that 'soft swinging' might just happen one night. You've chatted about it for a while, when the talk turns to swapping sex.
Planning ahead doesn't make it any less amazing or exciting.
It might start with a sensual massage of your feet and then move into the naughty areas.
Now it is up to you. Don't hold back; lots of people, 1 in 5, has tried swinging sex.
Now you can go back to your old days and just kiss and make out, or you can go to sexual groping and strokes. Checking out a new new person's body, how do they smell and feel? What makes them a change from your spouse
Keep it slow at first because you're just getting started, just teasing the other person at this moment. One wants to keep them aroused and ready for the next swinging time.
Your pulse is racing and your mind can wait for the next swinging meeting.
Please go slowly. Always wanting more from the soft swinging episode is a great idea and one wants to make sure that one is completely at ease before upping the level of swapping sexual intensity.
Slow soft swinging is great because one gets to go home and finish off the sexual excitement started by the soft swinging at the party. Soft swing can be the most fun one can have with their clothes on!
Ray
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
Monday, April 23, 2007
The Swinging Lifestyle
Swinger Lifestyle
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
Have fun!
Ray
http://www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
Have fun!
Ray
www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
Have fun!
Ray
http://www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
A part of a swinger style sex, particularly a wedded pair, who exchanges lusty partners" - well this sounds much like cheating, but, in fact, it's not. This is the lifestyle of swingers: engaging with people while being engaged in a common relation without cheating on their spouse. Sounds unlikely to some, but you will learn that it's not.
Swingers, by interpretation, are folks that have sex with others while they are bound to someone else at the same time. It's a way of living. Swingers are not weirdos or cheaters. Of course you will ask how it is possible not to be a cheater if you have sexual relations with someone else than your mate. If you have the consent of your partner, then it's not considered cheating. It's swinging. By doing this, swingers don't try to find other partners. They don't limit themselves to a certain type of happening and try to obtain the pleasure that they can't get from their primary relationship without harming their loved ones.
It's not a distant experience that only happens in certain areas of the world and it's not new either. Swingers exist since the '70s, but the interpretation and the lifestyle have changed. They no longer wear tight leisure suits or lots of gold jewelry or get themselves noticed in any special way. They are common people that enjoy a lifestyle a little bit more different than what we conceive as being socially normal. People mustn't look awkwardly at swingers just because they have a different lifestyle than the established majority. It's a personal option and everyone is free to make individual decisions in a modern society.
Swingers are common persons just like you and me, but they are not judgmental, nor do they have prejudices of this kind. They are open-minded to all sorts of things, like having more sexual partners. Most people tend to judge swingers because they don't stay with just one person and consider them to be cheaters, but swingers don't really deceive their wife/husband because they have the agreement of the other part. Usually both partners are swingers so they get to eliminate negative feelings like distrust together. So what type of public has the aptitude to swing? Well, in order to be considered a swinger you have to be betrothed or at least in a stout relation. People don't choose this lifestyle just because they are fed up with their partner. They adopt it because they want to get the best out of their relationship and, most importantly, live their lives to the fullest. Let's say that a couple gets along great at a metaphysical level, but the sex life is not everything they wished for. They should normally break up, but from the swingers' view this is not considered a fine enough reason to part.
The lifestyle involves couples that don't have a great sex life, but don't want to split up because they get along perfectly, or couples that can't split up because of different social or religious circumstances. They look for remedies or ways to improve their relationships and sex lives. It's true - it is not a lifestyle for those weak of heart, jealous types. To be a swinger you have to be very open-minded, not shallow and to know exactly what you want. If you have sex with other women or men they you should accept that your spouse or girlfriend is doing the same. This lifestyle goes both ways, from many points of view. First of all you shouldn't stash everything for yourself; if you have fun living this lifestyle than you should make sure your chief partner is having at least as much fun. Second of all swingers aren't afraid or humbled of their sexuality and of experimenting with the identical sex. 40%-50% of the women that choose this lifestyle are bisexual and proud of it.
How do you discover you want to be a part of the swinger lifestyle? It's a very deceiving and awkward question, the same as asking a man how he decided he wanted to be gay. You just feel this lifestyle is agreeable for you and want to be a swinger because you've thought this trough and decided it is the choice for you. People that make themselves to become swingers because of one cause or person will feel terrible doing it. Some people take the decision of becoming swingers just like that, because they feel this lifestyle will suit them best. This kind of swingers can only take it if they are really ready for such changes in their lives and can "go with the flow" without any trouble.
There are various ways to find swingers in towns near you. One of the finest ways is to look swingers up on the Internet or on dating sites. You shouldn't think that other swingers might look bad upon you just because you're new. All you need to remember is to be natural and the rest will come by itself. Swinger lifestyle is considered to be the best by some people and blamed by other persons. This lifestyle is blamed today for wrecking old line family values, but are those values perfect? Look way inside your heart and you will find out how you really are. Maybe you are a swinger and you don't even realize it...
Have fun!
Ray
www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
Tuesday, March 13, 2007
A Real Swinging Housewife Talks About Her Vacation
A Real Swinging Housewife Talks About Her Vacation
by: Julia Tanner
Changing up the scenery from time to time can make any real swinging housewife even more excited, so why not look into something like this?
If you’re met another couple over the Internet and they’re out of town, meeting up somewhere in between can provide for an erotic and adventurous location.
Making The Plans
When it comes to any vacation planning, you want to sort out all the details first. There’s nothing like a few surprises to kill a mood.
Start with picking a few destinations that you might enjoy, factoring in your own separate budgets and preferences. The more private and warm the destination is, the better, in my opinion.
But if warm isn’t an option, then you just might want to look into places that exude desire. Honeymoon suites might be a little strange though.
Pick the place and then get tickets and hotel reservations. If you want to maintain a sense of privacy, then you will want to reserve the rooms separately. This ensures that you won’t know each other’s names unless you want to reveal them.
You can just talk about what room number you can find a real swinging housewife.
This might sounds a bit paranoid, but if you’ve never met before, it’s a good way to keep everyone safe.
When You Arrive
If you’ve decided to remain anonymous at first, then respect that boundary and don’t try to find each other just yet. Get settled in and meet up at a restaurant or other neutral location.
Have a lovely conversation and see how the four (or more) of you get along. If dinner goes well and the mood seems fitting, then you may want to exchange room numbers (showing each other your keys and giving the spares to each other) and then let the night begin.
Be sure to acknowledge your spouse throughout dinner to show how much you love them. Touch them and kiss them constantly.
What Else Do You Do?
Well, this part is really up to you and your comfort level. I like to make the rule that I wake up with my husband and only my husband in the morning.
This gives our relationship priority and we can talk about our adventures in private if we choose. Sometimes, we even like to share breakfast together as well as the morning. Heck, we’re on vacation!
You may want to leave a way to contact each other the next day to set up another fun evening or afternoon.
And from there, you can enjoy as much swinging as you’d like.
A last suggestion is to make sure that you don’t plan too much time together. You don’t want to feel like you ‘have’ to be together all the time. You may want to say that three nights are as far as you will absolutely save for each other.
And then you can enjoy your own relationship for the remainder, or go home.
Of course, if you’re having fun, then by all means, keep the party going.
www.swingersitesreviews.com
by: Julia Tanner
Changing up the scenery from time to time can make any real swinging housewife even more excited, so why not look into something like this?
If you’re met another couple over the Internet and they’re out of town, meeting up somewhere in between can provide for an erotic and adventurous location.
Making The Plans
When it comes to any vacation planning, you want to sort out all the details first. There’s nothing like a few surprises to kill a mood.
Start with picking a few destinations that you might enjoy, factoring in your own separate budgets and preferences. The more private and warm the destination is, the better, in my opinion.
But if warm isn’t an option, then you just might want to look into places that exude desire. Honeymoon suites might be a little strange though.
Pick the place and then get tickets and hotel reservations. If you want to maintain a sense of privacy, then you will want to reserve the rooms separately. This ensures that you won’t know each other’s names unless you want to reveal them.
You can just talk about what room number you can find a real swinging housewife.
This might sounds a bit paranoid, but if you’ve never met before, it’s a good way to keep everyone safe.
When You Arrive
If you’ve decided to remain anonymous at first, then respect that boundary and don’t try to find each other just yet. Get settled in and meet up at a restaurant or other neutral location.
Have a lovely conversation and see how the four (or more) of you get along. If dinner goes well and the mood seems fitting, then you may want to exchange room numbers (showing each other your keys and giving the spares to each other) and then let the night begin.
Be sure to acknowledge your spouse throughout dinner to show how much you love them. Touch them and kiss them constantly.
What Else Do You Do?
Well, this part is really up to you and your comfort level. I like to make the rule that I wake up with my husband and only my husband in the morning.
This gives our relationship priority and we can talk about our adventures in private if we choose. Sometimes, we even like to share breakfast together as well as the morning. Heck, we’re on vacation!
You may want to leave a way to contact each other the next day to set up another fun evening or afternoon.
And from there, you can enjoy as much swinging as you’d like.
A last suggestion is to make sure that you don’t plan too much time together. You don’t want to feel like you ‘have’ to be together all the time. You may want to say that three nights are as far as you will absolutely save for each other.
And then you can enjoy your own relationship for the remainder, or go home.
Of course, if you’re having fun, then by all means, keep the party going.
www.swingersitesreviews.com
Friday, March 09, 2007
52 Free Things to Do with Your Partner on Date Night
52 Free Things to Do with Your Partner on Date Night
by: Kim Olver
One of the things that works to keep relationships alive is spending quality time with each other. In this day of the information age, it is becoming increasingly difficult to carve out the necessary time to nurture our relationships. What with long work hours, helping kids with their homework, transporting them around to their extracurricular activities, getting dinner, cleaning up and going through the bedtime routine, what time is left?
Unless you orchestrate the time for your relationship, other less important things will crowd in and take what precious little time you do have. Pick a night that will be “date night” with your partner and make a game out of being as creative as you can be. Try to see how many things you can do without spending money.
To get you started, I’ve come up with some suggestions to help you for the next year. What follows are 52 ideas for how to spend creative time together without spending money. Feel free to add or modify any of the items on the list to suit your particular relationship and circumstances.
WINTER
1. Take a drive to look at the Christmas decorations.
2. Play cards---perhaps strip poker.
3. Watch a movie together.
4. Go outside and have a snowball fight.
5. Get some finger paints and create your own body art with each other as your canvass.
6. Go sleigh riding.
7. Go ice skating.
8. Work out or exercise together.
9. Stage your own improvisation show.
10. Sing to each other.
11. Review or create a photo album or scrapbook of your memories together.
12. Play a board game---perhaps chess, Scrabble or Twister.
13. Go to a book store, get coffee and read for hours.
SPRING
14. Work on a remodeling project together.
15. Plan and complete a yard work project together.
16. Do the spring cleaning together---room by room. When done, reward yourself by making love in the room you’ve cleaned.
17. Put on old clothes and mud wrestle after some drenching rain.
18. Give each other a massage.
19. Play catch---football, baseball, softball or Frisbee.
20. Go to a car dealer and test drive the car of your dreams.
21. Shoot basketball together.
22. Dance together.
23. Take a shower together and wash each other---everywhere.
24. Take a free adult education class together.
25. Go to a mall and have a contest to see which one of you can get the most free samples.
26. Go rollerblading or bike riding.
SUMMER
27. Build a campfire and roast marshmallows.
28. Go swimming or skinny dipping.
29. Give each other a manicure or pedicure.
30. Go somewhere crowded to people watch.
31. Go to a free outdoor event, perhaps a concert.
32. Lie on a blanket outside and watch the clouds or stars.
33. Go on a picnic.
34. Watch a fireworks display.
35. Be creative and engage in sexual role plays. Be anyone you’d like to be for the night who is also exciting for your partner.
36. Sit by the water somewhere.
37. Do a prolonged strip tease for each other.
38. Have a water balloon fight.
39. Sit outside and read poetry to each other.
FALL
40. Go for a drive together.
41. Go window shopping.
42. Incorporate food into your love making---chocolate syrup, whipped cream, fondue, strawberries---anything you and your partner enjoy.
43. Call or write to someone you haven’t had contact with in a while.
44. Cook something together.
45. Spend an evening just talking with each other. Talk about the things you have done, plans you have for the future, important people in your lives or current events.
46. Take a bubble bath together.
47. Go to a free movie or museum.
48. Take a drive and find the potential in old houses and their properties.
49. Create an imaginary story together---either orally or in written form.
50. Take turns being each other’s genie in a bottle by fulfilling your partner’s every wish and fantasy.
51. Play in the fallen leaves.
52. Create an exciting scavenger hunt that ends in your bed.
Now you have 52 suggestions for things to do with your partner for every week of the year divided by season. Certainly you don’t have to follow my suggestions. Feel free to add your own or to repeat your favorites as often as you’d like.
The main point is not to see how kinky you can get. The idea is to keep your relationship alive by making time together a priority. It is important that you find things to do as a couple that you can both enjoy. If you have vastly different interests then you can enter this with the spirit of taking turns and each agree to happily participate in the activity chosen by the one whose turn it is that week.
As long as you make a habit of making your relationship a priority and allocating time each week for rejuvenation of the feelings that attracted you in the first place, then you stand a good chance of staying together for the long haul.
Please don’t let insidious boredom enter into your relationship through the back door. This is what frequently happens when we are busy placing other things ahead of our time for each other. You know what I mean---the job, the kids, our friend in crisis, etc. There will always be a competing interest for the time you’ve set aside for each other.
Other than natural disasters, threat of death or major crises, do not allow your time together to be invaded by any outside forces. Make sure to create opportunities for you to do things together without outside influence. With more than 50% of today’s marriages ending in divorce, make this small investment in the longevity of your relationship. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. What’s stopping you? Start today.
www.SwingerSitesReviews.com
by: Kim Olver
One of the things that works to keep relationships alive is spending quality time with each other. In this day of the information age, it is becoming increasingly difficult to carve out the necessary time to nurture our relationships. What with long work hours, helping kids with their homework, transporting them around to their extracurricular activities, getting dinner, cleaning up and going through the bedtime routine, what time is left?
Unless you orchestrate the time for your relationship, other less important things will crowd in and take what precious little time you do have. Pick a night that will be “date night” with your partner and make a game out of being as creative as you can be. Try to see how many things you can do without spending money.
To get you started, I’ve come up with some suggestions to help you for the next year. What follows are 52 ideas for how to spend creative time together without spending money. Feel free to add or modify any of the items on the list to suit your particular relationship and circumstances.
WINTER
1. Take a drive to look at the Christmas decorations.
2. Play cards---perhaps strip poker.
3. Watch a movie together.
4. Go outside and have a snowball fight.
5. Get some finger paints and create your own body art with each other as your canvass.
6. Go sleigh riding.
7. Go ice skating.
8. Work out or exercise together.
9. Stage your own improvisation show.
10. Sing to each other.
11. Review or create a photo album or scrapbook of your memories together.
12. Play a board game---perhaps chess, Scrabble or Twister.
13. Go to a book store, get coffee and read for hours.
SPRING
14. Work on a remodeling project together.
15. Plan and complete a yard work project together.
16. Do the spring cleaning together---room by room. When done, reward yourself by making love in the room you’ve cleaned.
17. Put on old clothes and mud wrestle after some drenching rain.
18. Give each other a massage.
19. Play catch---football, baseball, softball or Frisbee.
20. Go to a car dealer and test drive the car of your dreams.
21. Shoot basketball together.
22. Dance together.
23. Take a shower together and wash each other---everywhere.
24. Take a free adult education class together.
25. Go to a mall and have a contest to see which one of you can get the most free samples.
26. Go rollerblading or bike riding.
SUMMER
27. Build a campfire and roast marshmallows.
28. Go swimming or skinny dipping.
29. Give each other a manicure or pedicure.
30. Go somewhere crowded to people watch.
31. Go to a free outdoor event, perhaps a concert.
32. Lie on a blanket outside and watch the clouds or stars.
33. Go on a picnic.
34. Watch a fireworks display.
35. Be creative and engage in sexual role plays. Be anyone you’d like to be for the night who is also exciting for your partner.
36. Sit by the water somewhere.
37. Do a prolonged strip tease for each other.
38. Have a water balloon fight.
39. Sit outside and read poetry to each other.
FALL
40. Go for a drive together.
41. Go window shopping.
42. Incorporate food into your love making---chocolate syrup, whipped cream, fondue, strawberries---anything you and your partner enjoy.
43. Call or write to someone you haven’t had contact with in a while.
44. Cook something together.
45. Spend an evening just talking with each other. Talk about the things you have done, plans you have for the future, important people in your lives or current events.
46. Take a bubble bath together.
47. Go to a free movie or museum.
48. Take a drive and find the potential in old houses and their properties.
49. Create an imaginary story together---either orally or in written form.
50. Take turns being each other’s genie in a bottle by fulfilling your partner’s every wish and fantasy.
51. Play in the fallen leaves.
52. Create an exciting scavenger hunt that ends in your bed.
Now you have 52 suggestions for things to do with your partner for every week of the year divided by season. Certainly you don’t have to follow my suggestions. Feel free to add your own or to repeat your favorites as often as you’d like.
The main point is not to see how kinky you can get. The idea is to keep your relationship alive by making time together a priority. It is important that you find things to do as a couple that you can both enjoy. If you have vastly different interests then you can enter this with the spirit of taking turns and each agree to happily participate in the activity chosen by the one whose turn it is that week.
As long as you make a habit of making your relationship a priority and allocating time each week for rejuvenation of the feelings that attracted you in the first place, then you stand a good chance of staying together for the long haul.
Please don’t let insidious boredom enter into your relationship through the back door. This is what frequently happens when we are busy placing other things ahead of our time for each other. You know what I mean---the job, the kids, our friend in crisis, etc. There will always be a competing interest for the time you’ve set aside for each other.
Other than natural disasters, threat of death or major crises, do not allow your time together to be invaded by any outside forces. Make sure to create opportunities for you to do things together without outside influence. With more than 50% of today’s marriages ending in divorce, make this small investment in the longevity of your relationship. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. What’s stopping you? Start today.
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Thursday, March 01, 2007
Sex And The Afterlife - Part One
Sex And The Afterlife - Part One
by: Bob Daulby
It is because of religious fervour, indoctrination and plain fear-mongering that society at large is under the common 'belief' and assumption that, when we do finally die, like our lives, our sex life also comes to a full stop. Oh dear me! This could not be more wrong.
Way before I began my journey, experiences and *actual* communication with Our Worlds Beyond, I too, was also left with the same, misguided, impression. However, it wasn't until I by-passed my own instilled indoctrination (read 'brain-washing'), fears and doubts and came to be in *actual* communication with our loved ones in the spirit worlds, that The Truth - that is - The Truth that transcends ALL truths - finally became my own. When it did, finally become my own, not only sex but that, so very many other similar truths were also imparted to me that it became a habit for me to keep repeating...
'Well, I never! Really!?'
In fact, after a while, it became very frustrating to me because, once I had gotten into the habit of speaking to those who are *actually* there and stopped reading 'books' about it all, I then realised that all those books I had ever read before about the afterlife were - and still are - completely wrong and that I need not have bothered to read them at all. (What a waste of time that was!) . My frustration was made doubly worse for the fact that I too started out as a *staunch* Christian taboot! And so, like you, I too was led right up the garden path and back again - by my nose!
For millennia, we have been *instilled* with the 'religious' idea of what sex is about. If we recall, as far as the Catholic church is concerned (where ALL Westernised religion originated from), sex exists for one reason only - which is, to bear children and that sex, for any other reason was an out and out 'sin'. I say to you now that, had it not been for the church and it's interference with our sex lives then, I promise you, the three P's - 'Pornography' - 'Paedophilia' - and 'Prostitution' wouldn't exist. What the church (any church incidentally) do by threatening us all with eternal damnation through our supposed 'illicit' sexual activity is akin to placing your thumb over the top of a fiercely spouting tap and expecting to control the spray! It was ridiculous then and it still is. What is more, it is downright ignorant too! (I'm sorry but *somebody* had to say it didn't they?).
So, let's start again Ok?
Let us start with, 'God created *everything* shall we? Thus, God created SEX too! And I don't mean that God created sex just to have children. God created sex for FUN as well - but it doesn't stop there does it?
Not only DID God create everything but that H/She/It STILL creates everything - even on down to these words you're reading now. He/She/It is not only creating as a Being in His/Her/It's own right but is also creating through you and I! God - is THE master creator - the ONLY creator - and really is 'All That Is'. Thus, God created both sex and fun too!
Now then, if we really have read our Bibles carefully, you will note that Adam and Eve didn't just have two sons called Cain and Abel did they? No. Adam and Eve had - and listen now - *thousands* of daughters! Naturally, the church 'forget' to tell us' of course because it's really difficult to explain to a purposely sexually starved society commonly called 'sheep'. You see, why these daughters are not mentioned to a great extent is because, as you well know, in those days, sons were far more important than daughters and so, in a sense, 'didn't count'. So, religiously speaking, what happened then? Why, Caine and Abel had sex with most of those daughters to bring about you and I. And it is this 'ungodly' anomaly that the church, in all it's wisdom, 'forget' to mention. (Who *else* could they have sex with?). That means that you and I are born of 'incest' Ok?
So, before I even start, the religious can stop pointing fingers, evoke Satan or threaten me with eternal hell and damnation. It is in your holy book and that's that.
Due to 'human' interpretation, where we have lost the ball completely on sex is where 'God' said, "Go Forth And Multiply'. That was all that He said then. He did NOT say, 'Go Forth And Multiply - But Only To Have Children - And Don't Even Think Of *Enjoying* It Or It's Hell For You Pal/Paless!'.
God invented clitorises. God invented the 'G' spot. God made it so that nipples became erect and *aroused* *during* sex too (eh?). And way before babies are even thought of. God invented *multiple* orgasms for both men and women - and this, when ONE orgasm from one man, is quite enough for babies to appear and where woman don't even need to be thinking of us let alone get involved themselves. But, more importantly, God *also* invented lust. If we are to have sex 'just for children' then, why oh why make it so damn exciting and all-enfolding for BOTH genders?
Logical see?
And so, in short, God - and not you and I (because sex existed way before you and I were born anyway and so, were not there at the beginning to interfere with it as our forefathers have), the *actual* truth is, we have all these extra attachments and abilities to *enjoy* sex - for sex's sake - and NOT just to have children.
But, where does that leave us?
It leaves us now to re-think our ideas of sex and to bring it back to where it is supposed to be - in OUR homes and not in churches or even society at large. Sex, belongs to JUST you and JUST me and, what you or I do with it, explore or express it, has absolutely nothing to do with anyone else - least of all, courts.
Just as it is in heaven - the astral plains - or, Our Worlds Beyond because NO ONE there EVER tells us what kind of sex we can or cannot have. We have it anyway.
But you know, you don't have to take my word for any of this. If you'd only look for yourself as I did then you would find exactly the same as I have and where you too will be both shocked and amazed to find this truth and truths like it that you will not find anywhere else. Why? Because ALL Earth-based 'truth' is corrupt. 'Heaven's' truth is completely untouched and is incorruptible by man. And Thank God for that I say. (Don't you?)
(Please go to “Sex And The Afterlife - Part Two” for the rest of it)
I thank you for your time.
Bob Daulby
www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
by: Bob Daulby
It is because of religious fervour, indoctrination and plain fear-mongering that society at large is under the common 'belief' and assumption that, when we do finally die, like our lives, our sex life also comes to a full stop. Oh dear me! This could not be more wrong.
Way before I began my journey, experiences and *actual* communication with Our Worlds Beyond, I too, was also left with the same, misguided, impression. However, it wasn't until I by-passed my own instilled indoctrination (read 'brain-washing'), fears and doubts and came to be in *actual* communication with our loved ones in the spirit worlds, that The Truth - that is - The Truth that transcends ALL truths - finally became my own. When it did, finally become my own, not only sex but that, so very many other similar truths were also imparted to me that it became a habit for me to keep repeating...
'Well, I never! Really!?'
In fact, after a while, it became very frustrating to me because, once I had gotten into the habit of speaking to those who are *actually* there and stopped reading 'books' about it all, I then realised that all those books I had ever read before about the afterlife were - and still are - completely wrong and that I need not have bothered to read them at all. (What a waste of time that was!) . My frustration was made doubly worse for the fact that I too started out as a *staunch* Christian taboot! And so, like you, I too was led right up the garden path and back again - by my nose!
For millennia, we have been *instilled* with the 'religious' idea of what sex is about. If we recall, as far as the Catholic church is concerned (where ALL Westernised religion originated from), sex exists for one reason only - which is, to bear children and that sex, for any other reason was an out and out 'sin'. I say to you now that, had it not been for the church and it's interference with our sex lives then, I promise you, the three P's - 'Pornography' - 'Paedophilia' - and 'Prostitution' wouldn't exist. What the church (any church incidentally) do by threatening us all with eternal damnation through our supposed 'illicit' sexual activity is akin to placing your thumb over the top of a fiercely spouting tap and expecting to control the spray! It was ridiculous then and it still is. What is more, it is downright ignorant too! (I'm sorry but *somebody* had to say it didn't they?).
So, let's start again Ok?
Let us start with, 'God created *everything* shall we? Thus, God created SEX too! And I don't mean that God created sex just to have children. God created sex for FUN as well - but it doesn't stop there does it?
Not only DID God create everything but that H/She/It STILL creates everything - even on down to these words you're reading now. He/She/It is not only creating as a Being in His/Her/It's own right but is also creating through you and I! God - is THE master creator - the ONLY creator - and really is 'All That Is'. Thus, God created both sex and fun too!
Now then, if we really have read our Bibles carefully, you will note that Adam and Eve didn't just have two sons called Cain and Abel did they? No. Adam and Eve had - and listen now - *thousands* of daughters! Naturally, the church 'forget' to tell us' of course because it's really difficult to explain to a purposely sexually starved society commonly called 'sheep'. You see, why these daughters are not mentioned to a great extent is because, as you well know, in those days, sons were far more important than daughters and so, in a sense, 'didn't count'. So, religiously speaking, what happened then? Why, Caine and Abel had sex with most of those daughters to bring about you and I. And it is this 'ungodly' anomaly that the church, in all it's wisdom, 'forget' to mention. (Who *else* could they have sex with?). That means that you and I are born of 'incest' Ok?
So, before I even start, the religious can stop pointing fingers, evoke Satan or threaten me with eternal hell and damnation. It is in your holy book and that's that.
Due to 'human' interpretation, where we have lost the ball completely on sex is where 'God' said, "Go Forth And Multiply'. That was all that He said then. He did NOT say, 'Go Forth And Multiply - But Only To Have Children - And Don't Even Think Of *Enjoying* It Or It's Hell For You Pal/Paless!'.
God invented clitorises. God invented the 'G' spot. God made it so that nipples became erect and *aroused* *during* sex too (eh?). And way before babies are even thought of. God invented *multiple* orgasms for both men and women - and this, when ONE orgasm from one man, is quite enough for babies to appear and where woman don't even need to be thinking of us let alone get involved themselves. But, more importantly, God *also* invented lust. If we are to have sex 'just for children' then, why oh why make it so damn exciting and all-enfolding for BOTH genders?
Logical see?
And so, in short, God - and not you and I (because sex existed way before you and I were born anyway and so, were not there at the beginning to interfere with it as our forefathers have), the *actual* truth is, we have all these extra attachments and abilities to *enjoy* sex - for sex's sake - and NOT just to have children.
But, where does that leave us?
It leaves us now to re-think our ideas of sex and to bring it back to where it is supposed to be - in OUR homes and not in churches or even society at large. Sex, belongs to JUST you and JUST me and, what you or I do with it, explore or express it, has absolutely nothing to do with anyone else - least of all, courts.
Just as it is in heaven - the astral plains - or, Our Worlds Beyond because NO ONE there EVER tells us what kind of sex we can or cannot have. We have it anyway.
But you know, you don't have to take my word for any of this. If you'd only look for yourself as I did then you would find exactly the same as I have and where you too will be both shocked and amazed to find this truth and truths like it that you will not find anywhere else. Why? Because ALL Earth-based 'truth' is corrupt. 'Heaven's' truth is completely untouched and is incorruptible by man. And Thank God for that I say. (Don't you?)
(Please go to “Sex And The Afterlife - Part Two” for the rest of it)
I thank you for your time.
Bob Daulby
www.SwingerSiteReviews.com
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